there
is this gal...she is my friend..we are very close
she used to call me and we do chat very well....all this stop the day i
express my feelings to her....
now...she rarely reply msg......she doesnt even say hi.....and wen i
told her about her sudden change of behaviour she said she wasnt
expecting me to toast her
am confused oo.....is it a crime to say....I LOVE U?
av u ever experience this before?
feeling neglected by ur friend u asked out?...whats responsible for it?

Yes you committed a crime because you had been friendzoned. You are that "very nice" friend who is not meant to say I love you

She led you on and friendzoned you. Take heart bro.

firstEVA: Yes you committed a crime because you had been friendzoned. You are that "very nice" friend who is not meant to say I love you

The niqqa want alleviate from the threshold of "people living under friend zone"

lets wish him Luck!!

mayb....buh any suggestion about how to escape?........or is being nice to gals another wahala now?

Just give her space and time...

...then ATTACK again.

That's if you are sure of your feelings.

It might just be a passing thing.

Chai!!!!!A moment of silence for all our brothers in the FRIENDZONE

firstEVA: Yes you committed a crime because you had been friendzoned. You are that "very nice" friend who is not meant to say I love you

jizz!! do u av to pour it out like dat... dats mean

jhumong: there
is this gal...she is my friend..we are very close
she used to call me and we do chat very well....all this stop the day i
express my feelings to her....
now...she rarely reply msg......she doesnt even say hi.....and wen i
told her about her sudden change of behaviour she said she wasnt
expecting me to toast her
am confused oo.....is it a crime to say....I LOVE U?
av u ever experience this before?
feeling neglected by ur friend u asked out?...whats responsible for it?

A real mature chick will just say she doesn't see u like dat n yall can move on with ya lifes. fin.

you have to be friends with a lady before you can ask her out

Unionised: Just give her space and time...

...then ATTACK again.

That's if you are sure of your feelings.

It might just be a passing thing.

yea.....buh...she doesnt even want to reply chat again or pick calls......the worst she said was that she dont deserve me.....and i was like....thats not ur decision to make..na me go decide who deserve me nao.....bt still...samething

Enough of dis "friendzone" tin already. I think she doesn't find you attractive enough or friendzoned as they say.

its better to ask your friend out than a random girl. that's so unmatured of her.

a friend of mine did same thing to me and I told him I can't date him cos I'm dating someone else already which he knew, nothing spoiled, we closed chapter and life goes on, if he needs my help I do it, if I need his help he does it. shikena

u weren't friendzoned anything, don't mind all these people dat like typing friend zone after all u didn't ask her out before u became friends, u were already friends before u asked her out

my advice, just forget her

jhumong:
yea.....buh...she doesnt even want to reply chat again or pick calls......the worst she said was that she dont deserve me.....and i was like....thats not ur decision to make..na me go decide who deserve me nao.....bt still...samething

sorry to say, she might actually meant u don't deserve her

[quote
author=AfricanApple]its better to ask your friend out than a random
girl. that's so unmatured of her.

a friend of mine did same thing to me and I told him I can't date him
cos I'm dating someone else already which he knew, nothing spoiled, we
closed chapter and life goes on, if he needs my help I do it, if I need
his help he does it. shikena

u weren't friendzoned anything, don't mind all these people dat like
typing friend zone after all u didn't ask her out before u became
friends, u were already friends before u asked her out
my advice, just forget her[/ thanks i will take dat as an advice]

[quote
author=AfricanApple]its better to ask your friend out than a random
girl. that's so unmatured of her.

a friend of mine did same thing to me and I told him I can't date him
cos I'm dating someone else already which he knew, nothing spoiled, we
closed chapter and life goes on, if he needs my help I do it, if I need
his help he does it. shikena

u weren't friendzoned anything, don't mind all these people dat like
typing friend zone after all u didn't ask her out before u became
friends, u were already friends before u asked her out

my advice, just forget her[/quote]
thanks.... i will take that as a advice

op she ain't the only girl in ur hood right ?


then go for the others and I bet u she would be jealous if u do

It has happend to me i have to let go of her..

lawrenceunaa post=/post/26827623:
op she ain't the only girl in ur hood right ?


then go for the others and I bet u she would be jealous if u do

yeah..... she is not... and about d issue of jealouse...i live in Ekiti and she is in lag....we are just course mate in school....so i dnt think she can actually be jealouse unless we resume..

jhumong post=/post/26824043:

yea.....buh...she doesnt even want to reply chat again or pick calls......the worst she said was that she dont deserve me.....and i was like....thats not ur decision to make..na me go decide who deserve me nao.....bt still...samething

You must be new to the game.

She obviously digs you.

Give her time to RE-ALIGN her thoughts.

PERSISTENCE PAYS...

Some guys are so naive when it comes to girls matter ..

move on and look for another girl and make sure she find out about this other girl


btw, make sure this other girl is also beautiful, atleast ok


you can thank me later

[quote author=jhumong][/quote]take it good

firstEVA: Yes you committed a crime because you had been friendzoned. You are that "very nice" friend who is not meant to say I love you

what sort rubbish is this? Not meant to say I love you? So, the word is only restricted to that bad boy abi?

Rubbish X2

OP,

Girls dont date their friends... That;s a fact! They dont like it no matter how much you try.

To we guys we dont see anything bad in it but for the ladies, its the opposite. Its very rare for a lady to to date her friend.

Next, know what you want and make your intensions known from the word go. I know you decide to get to know her and after careful observation, she you saw a like-able personality and thats why you developed those feelings.

But to them... They just dont like the idea.

2sExy1: OP,

Girls dont date their friends... That;s a fact! They dont like it no matter how much you try.

To we guys we dont see anything bad in it but for the ladies, its the opposite. Its very rare for a lady to to date her friend.

Next, know what you want and make your intensions known from the word go. I know you decide to get to know her and after careful observation, she you saw a like-able personality and thats why you developed those feelings.

But to them... They just dont like the idea.

abi o

Chai... I feel for op coz it's like he has lost his friendship with the girl and at the same time, the girl no wan be him girlfriend.
I'll suggest U care less coz U just expressed urself and no crime in that even if na friendzone U dey, if she feels U don't exist again just bcoz U asked her out, then she shouldn't exist again just bcoz she turned U down and failed to apply maturity.

AfricanApple:
its better to ask your friend out than a random girl. that's so unmatured of her.

a friend of mine did same thing to me and I told him I can't date him cos I'm dating someone else already which he knew, nothing spoiled, we closed chapter and life goes on, if he needs my help I do it, if I need his help he does it. shikena

u weren't friendzoned anything, don't mind all these people dat like typing friend zone after all u didn't ask her out before u became friends, u were already friends before u asked her out

my advice, just forget her

You could be too kind and considerate in your replies sometimes
Do NL guys really dig that?

ok, I think your right to an extent. I noticed wooing a random girl is way too difficult. I tried such stunts while in school.

Nevertheless, frienddzone is real. It has happens more often when the lady is of higher class than the guy.

laplace12:


You could be too kind and considerate in your replies sometimes
Do NL guys really dig that?

ok, I think your right to an extent. I noticed wooing a random girl is way too difficult. I tried such stunts while in school.

Nevertheless, frienddzone is real. It has happens more often when the lady is of higher class than the guy.

when u say do nl guys really dig dat, I wonder what u meant.

its not only difficult, makes u look like a perch


is there anything wrong in been friend with a u tried to woo and didn't accept? I guess being enemy is the best uh

2sExy1:
OP,

Girls dont date their friends... That;s a fact! They dont like it no matter how much you try.

To we guys we dont see anything bad in it but for the ladies, its the opposite. Its very rare for a lady to to date her friend.

Next, know what you want and make your intensions known from the word go. I know you decide to get to know her and after careful observation, she you saw a like-able personality and thats why you developed those feelings.

But to them... They just dont like the idea.

wrong!!!

I'm currently dating a guy who was my friend for two years

jhumong:

yea.....buh...she doesnt even want to reply chat again or pick calls......the worst she said was that she dont deserve me.....and i was like.... thats not ur decision to make..na me go decide who deserve me nao.. ...bt still...samething

Nice line, ama cram this one.

AfricanApple:
when u say do nl guys really dig dat, I wonder what u meant.

its not only difficult, makes u look like a perch


is there anything wrong in been friend with a u tried to woo and didn't accept? I guess being enemy is the best uh

I mean do NL guys really appreciate kind words.

Its good being friends before wooing, but most guys find it awkward.

It doesn't apply to me anyway, so long as my intent is right.

laplace12:


I mean do NL guys really appreciate kind words.

Its good being friends before wooing, but most guys find it awkward.

It doesn't apply to me anyway, as long as my intent is right.

u can say dat again

u right, even d ones dat comes claiming to want to be just friends have ulterior motives

u sure?