Whether na one naira, whether na one million baby u got me…………………. but how true is this words applicable to one's relationship.

Especially the one naira" situation.
I can't just imagine ……………

Not very true..
Even if a lady is dating a guy that isn't very stable, stands by him and tries her best to push him through, after some years if 'the story' hasn't changed, the girl would most likely walk away.

Less that 1% of the 7 billion people on earth would support the first. True love is overrated, love is essential but other factors must be present or the relationship will turn out to be a bed of thorns( assuming that is the right expression).

My opinion though.

Begonia: Not very true..
Even if a lady is dating a guy that isn't very stable, stands by him and tries her best to push him through, after some years if 'the story' hasn't changed, the girl would most likely walk away.

so if u r in that situation u would most likely walk away too

Famouspecky: Whether na one naira, whether na one million baby u got me…………………. but how true is this words applicable to one's relationship.

Especially the one naira" situation.
I can't just imagine ……………

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Famouspecky: Whether na one naira, whether na one million baby u got me…………………. but how true is this words applicable to one's relationship.

Especially the one naira" situation.
I can't just imagine ……………

that broke nigga can someday become the presido of 9ja so don't discriminate a poor or broke guy no condition is permanent

I have to admit that love without money is a herculean task and will hardly survive. Just like sex money is as important to sustain a relationship. Every girl wants comfort and some form of financial security but the way most of them goes about it is what is wrong. A guy who isn't financially buoyant circumstances could change tomorrow and should not be look down coz of his situation. Money doesn't also bring happiness, even if he's broke today what to look after is if he's a couch potato or someone striving hard and with potentials to succeed. No condition is permanent. Igbo people will say odiro adigide meaning nothing last forever.

samflexxy: so if u r in that situation u would most likely walk away too

No, I wouldn't but I'm sure I'll be tempted to.

Begonia:


No, I wouldn't but I'm sure I'll be tempted to.

Why am I having the feeling that you're being economical with the truth. Or is it a case of being diplomatic?

ronald4lif:

Why am I having the feeling that you're being economical with the truth. Or is it a case of being diplomatic?

What do you mean?

Begonia:


What do you mean?

In one breath you said if a lady stands by a guy and sails through with him and if his condition doesn't change she will 'likely walk away' then in another breath you said 'no' but you will be tempted to. The highlighted remarks you made seems to represent you the more than the 'I will be tempted to' which appears to be a sugar coating statement. I may be wrong but my instinct doesn't agree.

Dating a poor man is a curse and it's a write-off .

Dating a broke guy can't be a total write-off. There is still hope n future in the affair.

Hello peeps, truth is men who don't have a job have no business dating. Any lady who dates a guy with no dreams, aspirations, and plans deserves whatever she gets. Love with lack is a bitter pill, love with contentment...sweet

ivoryhouse: Hello peeps, truth is men who don't have a job have no business dating. Any lady who dates a guy with no dreams, aspirations, and plans deserves whatever she gets. Love with lack is a bitter pill, love with contentment...sweet

Couldn't agree less

I could only date a poor guy with a bright future.

Yes A poor guy with a bright future is a hustler, though poor at the moment knows where he will certainly be in 10yrs time.

3cycle: I could only date a poor guy with a bright future.

Yes A poor guy with a bright future is a hustler, though poor at the moment knows where he will certainly be in 10yrs time.

A hustler is a drug dealer or some other negative thingie (fyi). If he knows where he is going but isn't doing anything about it he won't do you any good, better stay away from such people (man or woman)

@ronald4lif

Well, every lady has her limit. This is what I was trying say. Imagine a lady being with a guy for 10 years and he still hasn't made anything out of his life. That lady would certainly walk out.
I believe I can never be in this kind of situation though. I know my strength as a female so I know I can't be with a man for years without him making something out of his life.
Also, I totally agree with everything you said in your first post. My mother always tells me "never date a man without potential" and I've
been heeding strongly to her advice.

Don't date an ordinary poor guy




But a hard-working poor guy.

Every girl wants to date a hardworking guy but no girl wants to date a bricklayer

Begonia: @ronald4lif

Well, every lady has her limit. This is what I was trying say. Imagine a lady being with a guy for 10 years and he still hasn't made anything out of his life. That lady would certainly walk out.
I believe I can never be in this kind of situation though. I know my strength as a female so I know I can't be with a man for years without him making something out of his life.
Also, I totally agree with everything you said in your first post. My mother always tells me "never date a man without potential" and I've
been heeding strongly to her advice.

Why would I even date for 10years? Then nothing improves and its an issue, to walk or not to walk! A dating relationship that goes deyond two years looks like its going nowhere! When you meet a man with potential you will know within a week! Same with a woman with potential

^^^
@ivoryhouse

The '10 years' was just an exaggeration on my part but you're absolutely right. One doesn't need years to know a guy/lady with potential. Wisdom is key.

Dating a poor lady is like a trip to hell

Begonia: @ronald4lif

Well, every lady has her limit. This is what I was trying say. Imagine a lady being with a guy for 10 years and he still hasn't made anything out of his life. That lady would certainly walk out.
I believe I can never be in this kind of situation though. I know my strength as a female so I know I can't be with a man for years without him making something out of his life.
Also, I totally agree with everything you said in your first post. My mother always tells me "never date a man without potential" and I've
been heeding strongly to her advice.

I understand better now. Thanks for the clarification. No hard feelings.

Tallesty1: Dating a poor lady is like a trip to hell

Hahaha you don't mean it

ronald4lif:

Hahaha you don't mean it

I do

Tallesty1: I do

Lol this is serious but what if she works, hardworking but still not far from being poor and would you prefer to be richer than you woman or she being more richer. Sorry for asking oo

I touch her Böobs and slap me! Pls what do i do?..

ronald4lif:

Lol this is serious but what if she works, hardworking but still not far from being poor and would you prefer to be richer than you woman or she being more richer. Sorry for asking oo

Does it matter who is richer?



My point is that I have no business with broke ladies.

Tallesty1: Does it matter who is richer?



My point is that I have no business with broke ladies.

Okay noted

I could date a poor man dats hardworking and determined with a bright future ahead...afterall nutin last 4ever..but d lazy ones.....nah!

in case

3cycle: I could only date a poor guy with a bright future.

Yes A poor guy with a bright future is a hustler, though poor at the moment knows where he will certainly be in 10yrs time.

Hmmm I am surprised.