Am dating this gurl and we love each other so much, our relationship is months old a distance one to be precise we have seen just twice and of recent something came up and she told me she and ah family are relocating to Germany permanently. Buh according to her prediction she should be back in Nigeria in the next 6 years hopefully厖. The ish is dis am 20 and this gurl is 15 tho more matured dan ah age. She wants to continue the relationship and nt ready to let go. Wot do u tink I can do, all things being equal wot are my chances and also considering my age厖厖�. Nairalands I need ur advice

I suggest you wait.

......but she's a minor na. Anyway you can try long distance relationship. If both of you are truly in love and meant for each other, it will work.

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[size=30]Are you mad, you're dating a 15 years old girl?[/size]

I highly doubt your relationship is going to last...Reason is she is still too young; Most people do change after relocating to a different country....Some for the better and some?.
Time will tell, but do not take it to heart when she finds a new guy she could be with on daily basis...Mind you, she will be 21 in 6 years time, which is a long time from now....She can meet someone and get married to within that 6 years... Even if she doesn't, her coming back to Nigeria is not guaranteed..For example, she would be in college at that age, and relocating while in college wouldn't be a Smart idea..So, I do not think she would be back in Nigeria, after exactly 6 years.

glitest: I highly doubt your relationship is going to last...Reason is she is still too young; Most people do change after relocating to a different country....Some for the better and some?.
Time will tell, but do not take it to heart when she finds a new guy she could be with on daily basis...Mind you, she will be 21 in 6 years time, which is a long time from now....She can meet someone and get married to within that 6 years... Even if she doesn't, her coming back to Nigeria is not guaranteed..For example, she would be in college at that age, and relocating while in college wouldn't be a Smart idea..So, I do not think she would be back in Nigeria, after exactly 6 years.

you are 100 % correct....it happened to me.... My advice 4 u is dat don't make d move of dumping or ending d relationship.....let her make d move.... Time will tell if she will elope or jettison u......

glitest: I highly doubt your relationship is going to last...Reason is she is still too young; Most people do change after relocating to a different country....Some for the better and some?.
Time will tell, but do not take it to heart when she finds a new guy she could be with on daily basis...Mind you, she will be 21 in 6 years time, which is a long time from now....She can meet someone and get married to within that 6 years... Even if she doesn't, her coming back to Nigeria is not guaranteed..For example, she would be in college at that age, and relocating while in college wouldn't be a Smart idea..So, I do not think she would be back in Nigeria, after exactly 6 years.

She's said it all. I wouldn't say don't wait and I wouldn't say wait. Why? Cause sooner or later, the relationship will die, naturally. She's 15, fact is she'll meet much more people within that 6 years, have many options to choose from. At 15, she's hardly explored her life, and truss me, when she finally does, she wouldn't wanna be tied down to one guy, much less someone she has not seen in 6 years.

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Dnt wait ooo,she's still young and might find someone else. Heck,you both are young and have a whole future waitng to be explored

Rapsainot: [size=30]Are you mad, you're dating a 15 years old girl?[/size]

Rapsainot: [size=30]Are you mad, you're dating a 15 years old girl?[/size]

lool,he is obviousli nt sane..dats so childabuse!buh shebi dey say age is just a number na

Annypie: lool,he is obviousli nt sane..dats so childabuse!buh shebi dey say age is just a number na

age is just a number. Lemme ask this stupid question, what will you do if you discover your 15 year old sister is engaged /dating?

[quote
author=Rapsainot post=26852048] age is just a number. Lemme ask this
stupid question, what will you do if you discover your 15 year old
sister is engaged /dating? [/quote]oya let mi be realistic..as @15,i did hv a guy i had d hots 4*d word bf doesnt really fit*we all did teenage dating na,wich was a bigjoke as@den tho..if i do find out,to be candid,am just gnna give her sexeducation,and remind her abt norms and priorities..shes still gnna do prom na

Annypie:
oya let mi be realistic..as @15,i did hv a guy i had d hots 4*d word bf doesnt really fit*we all did teenage dating na,wich was a bigjoke as@den tho..if i do find out,to be candid,am just gnna give her sexeducation,and remind her abt norms and priorities..shes still gnna do prom na

space your sentences, I don't get a shii bou what you wrote ma

You go wait tire....

Rapsainot:
space your sentences, I don't get a shii bou what you wrote ma

ooouch!ok