deebee13:


Sorry dear, dark meat!

Tymax:

Babe, you are still exaggerating. Calm down. I hope you won't voice this complaint to him. You don't want him to be self-conscious when dealing with his folks. It's added confusion that a man doesn't need.

You think his mom doesn't suspect what you think of her? Let me tall you, she most probably does. Now if she has so much sway over her son's marital decisions, you should realize that she has accepted you. Isn't that good? You shouldn't appear to be competing with his mom. Your respective roles in his life are very different.

Uncountable likes.

If you judge him to be immature yet agreed to be his fiancée then you should trust whatever it is that has influenced your decision.

WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE A MAN WHO DOESN'T CARE ABOUT FAMILY TIES? No, you wouldn't.

Furthermore, how would you know that she would move in with her son? That's anxiety. It won't happen. Just be positive about it. Remember the ties you share with him is only romantic. Nothing more at least for now. But the bond between him and his mom is "Kinship": a very strong bond developed over the years.

Try not to give your man stress over this issue. You will be married soon then you will be the woman of the home.

MrCork:


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....cool. ..when u gonnno to change color?

MrCork:


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....cool. ..when u gonnno to change color?

deebee13:


Like...never!

MrCork:



^^^ther u go againn...typikal dak skin female...u catch them out & they start cussin innnosent citizen for no reason...

....and then they complain they can find man on nairaland!

MrCork:



..thanks sweeery.....r u light skin?

deebee13:
This is a really troubling issue for me, and I need mature advices pls.

My fiance and I have bin dating for the past two years, and our wedding date is fixed,but there's a problem...He is too attached to his parents,like a little child. it amazes me that he doesn't seem to see what it's doing to our relationship.


I want him to be a man, and stand on his own. I had to talk and talk before he moved out of their house,nd get a place of his own. Now he goes to their place every week, de call him almost everyday, and he does same. I really love him,cos he's a good man, but this is one thing I can't cope with. Pls Wat do I do about this?

GoodFaith:

Jealous

deebee13:


Really?

deebee13:
This is a really troubling issue for me, and I need mature advices pls.

My fiance and I have bin dating for the past two years, and our wedding date is fixed,but there's a problem...He is too attached to his parents,like a little child. it amazes me that he doesn't seem to see what it's doing to our relationship.


I want him to be a man, and stand on his own. I had to talk and talk before he moved out of their house,nd get a place of his own. Now he goes to their place every week, de call him almost everyday, and he does same. I really love him,cos he's a good man, but this is one thing I can't cope with. Pls Wat do I do about this?

deebee13:



I want to believe I know where ur comment is coming from. But Wat u don't see is dat, this clingy attitude is not making him grow, he sounds immature sometimes,and I wonder if I'm talking to a grown man or a kid. I'm not against him bin family-oriented, which woman wouldn't love dat? But not at d detriment of him refusing to grow!

deebee13:


Really?

MabraO:
See some matured comments

Let a girl comment on this now
U go see how shallow their brains re
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Op am like that too attached to my folks
Don't worry with time things will be ok

deebee13:



I want to believe I know where ur comment is coming from. But Wat u don't see is dat, this clingy attitude is not making him grow, he sounds immature sometimes,and I wonder if I'm talking to a grown man or a kid. I'm not against him bin family-oriented, which woman wouldn't love dat? But not at d detriment of him refusing to grow!

MrCork:





maybe the parents e protectin him from u coz u a gold diggggger. . QUESTION?....

...r u dak skin?...YES!

....r u dak nigerian?...YES!

...ru only interested in his wealth?...YES!

. . .u plan to use all his salary to by Brazilian wig?...YES!

.... Do u plan to cheat later. ..YES!

...and do u plan to trap him as soon as possible?..HELL YES SIR!!


....^^^ ther u go...u ansad * YES* to all the question....meanin the parents shud keep him far far far away from u (no ofeeense)

MzPreshie:
And where's the gold here? Would've been good for a change if you make sense for once.

deebee13:
This is a really troubling issue for me, and I need mature advices pls.

My fiance and I have bin dating for the past two years, and our wedding date is fixed,but there's a problem...He is too attached to his parents,like a little child. it amazes me that he doesn't seem to see what it's doing to our relationship.


I want him to be a man, and stand on his own. I had to talk and talk before he moved out of their house,nd get a place of his own. Now he goes to their place every week, de call him almost everyday, and he does same. I really love him,cos he's a good man[b/], but this is one thing I can't cope with. Pls Wat do I do about this?

SBOLA45:
it's a gradual process, give him sometime.

deebee13:




Mr man! U haven't seen exaggeration! A "man" calls his mother for assistance on tins he can have his fiance do, the mother knows when he has a headache before his fiance,so Wat is d duty of a fiance? Have time for d folks u say...do u know there's every possibility that he asks his mother to move in with us after wedding, at dat point I should say Wat? all I'm saying is dat it is immature of a man to be dat clingy. Not a man in his 30's for heaven sake!

MrCork:





maybe the parents e protectin him from u coz u a gold diggggger. . QUESTION?....

...r u dak skin?...YES!

....r u dak nigerian?...YES!

...ru only interested in his wealth?...YES!

. . .u plan to use all his salary to by Brazilian wig?...YES!

.... Do u plan to cheat later. ..YES!

...and do u plan to trap him as soon as possible?..HELL YES SIR!!


....^^^ ther u go...u ansad * YES* to all the question....meanin the parents shud keep him far far far away from u (no ofeeense)