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8 Signs He Is Just Using You by lalasticlala(m): 4:28pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
It’s not difficult to know when he is using you for sex, for your money or even for a place to crash, but many women do get blinded because of their love. Just because you’re in love with a guy doesn’t necessarily mean that he is also in love with you. When he is using you, it means that your relationship is abusive and not conducive. So if you have a feeling that he is just using you, here are a few signs to look out for. 1. He Doesn’t Take Your Feelings Into Account If your boyfriend never takes your feelings into consideration and he doesn’t even think about how his actions actually affect you, it’s one of the warning signs your boyfriend is just using you! 2. You Pay For Every Date Although a man is supposed to pay for dinner, you always find yourself paying for all the things when you and your partner go out. If it seems to be the case with your relationship, it’s surely one of the top signs your guy is just using you. And while it’s not so bad to split the bill, you shouldn’t pay for every date. 3. He Never Surprises You With Anything If you constantly buy your boyfriend things and he has never surprised you with anything, it’s time to have a serious talk with him. After all, why should you buy him everything, shouldn’t he buy you at least one thing sometimes? 4. He is Financially Dependent on You Men who are financially dependent on their women annoy me the most! They are just using women for their money, and they don’t even know what love is. So if your guy expects you to pay for everything, and he always asks to borrow money, and then never gives it back, this is a warning sign he is just using you and you shouldn’t stand for it, girls! 5. You Are His Convenience In a mature relationship everything should be even. And if you are constantly finding yourself your partner’s convenience for an allowance or for a ride, it means that your relationship is abusive. Remember you should never be his convenience. 6. He is Not Available Unless He Needs Something From You Do you constantly find that he is available only when he needs something from you? Sure, this is a sign he is just using you. After all, don’t you want a man who’s going to be available when you need him, not only when he needs you? 7. He is Constantly Blaming You for Everything If he constantly blaming you for the things that go wrong in his life and he often says that it’s your fault that he doesn’t have a job, don’t listen to him! He just wants you to give him your money. Don’t stand for it and break up with him! 8. He Doesn’t Take Into Account Your Needs A guy who is using a girl, never takes into account her needs. He doesn’t need you for anything but things that he needs. And he doesn’t take any of your needs into consideration when he makes decisions. When your boyfriend is just using you, ladies, it’s not a healthy relationship. Do you know any other signs he is using you? Share them, please! Source: http://en.amerikanki.com/signs-he-is-using-you/ 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by lalasticlala(m): 4:28pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
6. He is Not Available Unless He Needs Something From You hahahahahahaha |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by MabraO: 4:36pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Just incase |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Nobody: 4:37pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Mtcheww it seems nairalanders don't have important things to post again 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Nobody: 4:42pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
snowprince07:seconded 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by iceberylin(m): 4:43pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
datguyojay:thirded 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Nobody: 4:44pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Any gal that still have this kind of guy for boyfriend na mumu for life. 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by montestic(m): 4:45pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
snowprince07: guy u must b a culprit. u r obviously guilty as charged. lol 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by montestic(m): 4:46pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Nobody: 4:48pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
montestic:and soo?? |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by diksucker(f): 4:51pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
I once dated such a guy. he would only come to me anything he wanted small money. 6. He is Not Available Unless He Needs something from You so number 6 applied to him. When my eyes opened , I dumped his big rod. |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Nobody: 4:51pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
iceberylin:Fourth'th.... |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by xynerise: 4:51pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
The word "using" is complicating. She must be benefiting from him, else she would have Ben Johnson. |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by ahnie: 4:54pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
i disagree with number Two.....must a guy pay for every Date?is anything wrong if the table turns?what z wrong if the lady pays? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by englishmart(m): 4:56pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
8 signs she's just using you It’s not difficult to know when she is using you for sex, for your money or even for a place to crash, but many men do get blinded because of their love. Just because you’re in love with a girl doesn’t necessarily mean that she is also in love with you. When she is using you, it means that your relationship is abusive and not conducive. So if you have a feeling that she is just using you, here are a few signs to look out for. 1. SHe Doesn’t Take Your Feelings Into Account If your girlfriend never takes your feelings into consideration and she doesn’t even think about how her actions actually affect you, it’s one of the warning signs your girlfriend is just using you! 2. You Pay For Every Date Although a man is supposed to pay for dinner, you always find yourself paying for all the things when you and your partner go out. If it seems to be the case with your relationship, it’s surely one of the top signs your girl is just using you. And while it’s not so bad to split the bill, you shouldn’t pay for every date. 3. SHe Never Surprises You With Anything If you constantly buy your girlfriend things and she has never surprised you with anything, it’s time to have a serious talk with her. After all, why should you buy her everything?, shouldn’t she buy you at least one thing sometimes? 4. SHe is Financially Dependent on You WoMen who always are financially dependent on their men annoy me the most! They are just using men for their money, and they don’t even know what love is. So if your girl expects you to pay for everything, and she always asks to borrow money, and then never gives it back, this is a warning sign she is just using you and you shouldn’t stand for it, guys! 5. You Are Her Convenience In a mature relationship everything should be even. And if you are constantly finding yourself your partner’s convenience for an allowance or for a ride, it means that your relationship is abusive. Remember you should never be his convenience. 6. SHe is Not Available Unless sHe Needs Something From You Do you constantly find that she is available only when she needs something from you? Sure, this is a sign she is just using you. After all, don’t you want a woman who’s going to be available when you need her? not only when she needs you? 7. SHe is Constantly Blaming You for Everything If she is constantly blaming you for the things that go wrong in her life and she often says that it’s your fault that she doesn’t have a job, don’t listen to her! SHe just wants you to give her your money. Don’t stand for it and break up with her! 8. SHe Doesn’t Take Into Account Your Needs A girl who is using a guy, never takes into account his needs. SHe doesn’t need you for anything but things that she needs. And she doesn’t take any of your needs into consideration when she makes decisions. When your girlfriend is just using you, guys, it’s not a healthy relationship. Do you know any other signs she is using you? Share them, please! Lala and co, how una see am? Source: http://en.amerikanki.com/signs-she-is-using-you/ 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Karlebolu(m): 4:58pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
SuperMartins: Fifted 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by jnrbayano(m): 4:59pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Lalasticlala and lists of this and that... |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Nobody: 5:00pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
I have neva seen dis type of guy like crious do dey exist, abeg call am come after one week na em go run |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by englishmart(m): 5:02pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
diksucker:don't forget you are getting older. Stop dumping and plan for................ You know na. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by diksucker(f): 5:11pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
ahnie: d article said when she pays for "every" date. Not once in a while. I was always d one paying for that same guy I earlier talked about, I was always paying for the dates that we had. He would always use sweet mouth and cajoled me to go to joints or Mr Biggs at my own expense. The money he uses to get , wondered where he spent it. until one day.. |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Nobody: 5:11pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
i am tired of reading lists someone should tell a good tale for once 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by chimerase2: 5:11pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
iceberylin:fourthed |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by chimerase2: 5:12pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Karlebolu:ok amu late sixted |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by diksucker(f): 5:14pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
englishmart: I am very sure guys would detest this thread because many of them are culprits. Bk to ur point, I don't give a dam about marriage, I am 32, if I get the kind of guy I want, I would marry him , if not, would simply make 1 or 2 babies when I clock 36/37. |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by englishmart(m): 5:19pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
diksucker:are you a baby making machine? Who wan forget him spe.rm for your body na? Abi cond.om don cost? 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by diksucker(f): 5:21pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
englishmart: Lol. I can always handle that. |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by englishmart(m): 5:28pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
diksucker:you definitely are a dicksucker. But you nova jam d.1ck 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by ahnie: 5:32pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
ardent follower of this gist...ride on[quote author=diksucker post=26945838] d article said when she pays for "every" date. Not once in a while. I was always d one paying for that same guy I earlier talked about, I was always paying for the dates that we had. He would always use sweet mouth and cajoled me to go to joints or Mr Biggs at my own expense. The money he uses to get , wondered where he spent it. until one day.. [/quote] |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by queensenglish91: 5:34pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
diksucker:You will vandalise 'it' in advance abi? |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Dygeasy(m): 5:36pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
A girl must be foolish to the highest exponental index to fit the descriptions in the OP. |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Nobody: 5:39pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
.. |
Re: 8 Signs He Is Just Using You by Neroanna(f): 5:42pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
Una no dey tire for relationship matter? Una no dey tire for relationship matter? |
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