As the topic depicts, I'm afraid I may never get married cos I can't woo a girl, I'm 25 now and I've never had a real relationship. I gal wooed me once but it didn't last maybe because I wasn't the one who initiated the relationship. Seriously, I'm scared. I really really need your advice.

work hard my brother when you have the money you will get a call from village that a gurl has been made available for you
Let me attend to oda cases COURT!!!

LEERICIST:
As the topic depicts, I'm afraid I may never get married cos I can't woo a girl, I'm 25 now and I've never had a real relationship. I gal wooed me once but it didn't last maybe because I wasn't the one who initiated the relationship. Seriously, I'm scared. I really really need your advice.

Girls don't bite. No matter how you are there are plethora of women waiting for you to just hiss and the rest will be history.

You might think you are not good enough but perish that thought.

Again, forget all these you see here on Nairaland as they are quixotic, utopian and unrealisable.
My former principal is crippled, had a girl who was bent on marrying him despite oppositions from family. They have 3 kids now.

Finally, the only way to overcome this fear is by confrontation. So start meeting girls today. There will be disappointments, of course its normal. Some will hiss, ignore or snub you but cpunt it as their loss and not yours as they may be going through trying times.

Again, don't forget that money answers all things, make some.

Gud luck.

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LEERICIST:
As the topic depicts, I'm afraid I may never get married cos I can't woo a girl, I'm 25 now and I've never had a real relationship. I gal wooed me once but it didn't last maybe because I wasn't the one who initiated the relationship. Seriously, I'm scared. I really really need your advice.

Come take some lessons from me. For me, it comes naturally.

my brother hustle the money out


when your name is synonymous with money

then u will think differently about life as far as ability to woo women is concerned

bro,move away from dat shell.these gals won't bite.u might even get more than u anticipated

Guy, You are falling hands o.

This is as a result of the pedestal you put women on.


See them as human beings. Same as you or below you and you're good to go.


And, you will get married. Just see women as ordinary beings and you'll have all the confidence you need.

Atleast, you can walk up to a guy right? why not a woman

@Op.....I totally understand how you feel.....I know how it feels like to be shy and timid....


When next you see a girl you care about and wanna date...

....Try getting close to her...Be her friend.....maintain a close and cordial relationship with her....

...Ask her out on phone in a romantic way.....Let her know about your weakness....It ll help alot.....It ll give you more strength and confidence....

When you meet the right gal, the ginger of your swaga will grow naturally

25yrs isn't too long now when you are about 40yrs and you still don't have a girlfriend, come back 2 nairaland and create a thread so that the nairaland pastors will pray for you.

bakandow11:
work hard my brother when you have the money you will get a call from village that a gurl has been made available for you
Let me attend to oda cases COURT!!!

Na comment b dis one

* In Ghost Mode *

banjicom:
25yrs isn't too long now when you are about 40yrs and you still don't have a girlfriend, come back 2 nairaland and create a thread so that the nairaland pastors will pray for you.

LWKMD

bakandow11:
work hard my brother when you have the money you will get a call from village that a gurl has been made available for you
Let me attend to oda cases COURT!!!

Why not Newyork or London? You con say VILLAGE like say na where im dey live be dat.

My conclusion: You are poor. When you have money, I mean MONEY. Confidence will fall on top your head from heaven

MissSlimbody:


Na ;Dcomment b dis one

i ;Df u no b mumu nami go hlp u tell woman u luv....okay drop d gurl number NL go help call her u luv her

So i missed the part where that is my business



*Dusts my feet and leaves*

You'll need to learn how to talk to ladies . You can start from being friends and then you'll get close, be confident. I'm sure a lot of girls are waiting for you to start the chase

This will help you greatly: http://www.seductionscience.com/2011/how-school-fked-you-with-anxiety/

Then read several of the tons and tons of articles there over and over - until they SINK into your consciousness.

LEERICIST:
As the topic depicts, I'm afraid I may never get married cos I can't woo a girl, I'm 25 now and I've never had a real relationship. I gal wooed me once but it didn't last maybe because I wasn't the one who initiated the relationship. Seriously, I'm scared. I really really need your advice.

Lol . You will definitely come over that na . It's just a phase. The only way you overcome is by following your guts and not your mind. Approach ladies and talk to them. The fear to approach will always be there but just ignore it and go ahead. You can only get better with time.
Some ladies will reject you but don't let that discourage you. It's pretty normal. Not every girl will give you attention.
Also, learn one or 2 start-up lines to initiate a conversation. And smile. Smile has a way of boosting one's confidence......

Too many rules can complicate things. Lemme simplify things. Just make it a practice to approach ladies you like. Believe me, you will be happy with yourself in no distant time.

#I was once in your shoes though I never took it to the extreme by thinking I won't get married.

Cheers....!

didadavid:
My conclusion: You are poor. When you have money, I mean MONEY. Confidence will fall on top your head from heaven

That's not always true! I know people that have money but still lack the confidence.

banjicom:
25yrs isn't too long now when you are about 40yrs and you still don't have a girlfriend, come back 2 nairaland and create a thread so that the nairaland pastors will pray for you.

Bros u too wicked!

OP, just have it at the back of your mind that we aint LIONS so what's stopping ur approach ? You know we ladies are meant to pretend, therefore you don't expect us to approach you even if we are doing inside.. Just try build your courage and self confidence, walk up to a lady you have something for and strike up a conversation

u guys tink all guys re bold nop me it took me to ma final year to get a gal frnd So shy and timid I can mak a gal laff chat nice but amu always scared to ask out unless de gal ask me out or ma peers pressure me
Dat is why in all ma relationship I try ma best not to cheat also do my best to mak her happy becos if we break up it will tak time again to hv one so I try ma best to avoid it
But now distance hv separated de one I had
Nw since 5 months amu gal frndless
So u knw wat it means for some one dat ones co habited as a couple with his babe nw stranded and lonely

LEERICIST:
As the topic depicts, I'm afraid I may never get married cos I can't woo a girl, I'm 25 now and I've never had a real relationship. I gal wooed me once but it didn't last maybe because I wasn't the one who initiated the relationship. Seriously, I'm scared. I really really need your advice.

bros seek ye the money first, and chiks will come knocking at ur door...

didadavid:
My conclusion: You are poor. When you have money, I mean MONEY. Confidence will fall on top your head from heaven

Sometimes the type of confidence money brings for someone who didn't have it is arrogance, so I totally disagree with you.

You have to work on your inner mind. Believe you can step outside to talk to a girl.. And how to handle rejection - At least thats the basis of articles every on this issue..
Am also like that

Show me your balls...

Girls don't bite! Man up and be confident in yourself. If you have low self esteem/inferiority complex,work on it asap.

This your assertion is so damn unhealthy for you i must confess.

enfantdedieu:
bros seek ye the money first, and chiks will come knocking at ur door...

money can't buy sometinz.......menh...... Confidence nd guts is what my guy s lacking...... My guy, jst walk to any girl crack little joke nd say ur mind or u can start by making friend with female folks play with dem.....touch dem nd gist with them. This how u can bail urself from this burden. Is better u start now cos it ll b bad, if u r still scared of ladies at 30.