1. Shy Guys Don't Get The Best Girl:
Girls generally love the outgoing, confident and expressive guys. They love guys that "wow" them, they consider the bad guys "Romantic" and "Sweet", and the shy guys boring. The Best and hot girls always adore, cherish and crush on these guys. That is why a girl will rather trip for a rockstar than a medical doctor sitting in one cool office(No offence to docs). Most shy guys end up with girls that falls into the category of, "Not-So-Beautiful"(Relatively Average or Below Average), The Remnant(those gurls whose heart has been battered by some VERY bad boys) or the leftovers(who universally are not considered "top priority" by the guys)

2. Shy Guys Are Sissies, Confident Guys Are Men:
Lets get it straight and be blunt, girls love the bad boys even when dating their shy boyfriend. The bad boys are adventurous, and charismatic. Girls love and value someone that proves incontrollable to them, someone that doesn't agree to 100% of what they say and one who reminds them by their action that "the man is still incharge". Don't get me wrong, they are loving and caring at the same time they understand the need for checks(just like their ladies check them). This the shy guy can't offer, he ends up being at the losing end, he ends up being controlled, he plays the feminine role, he get carried away by feminine compliments, he becomes the infamous woman wrapper and a ceremonial husband/Boyfriend.

3. Ladies Can't Intimidate A Confident Guy, They Intimidate Shy Guys:
A confident guy won't consider poisoning himself if his girls tells him it's over, he knows he can always get another girl. He relax, bump his friends, get some drinks, get over her and hit the next cute babe. Threat of breakup don't scare him, he tells you how he feels and he believes that the relationship is a symbiotic thing and not a Man only stuff. His girl respects him for this. The Shy guy? lol, he heeds to virtually all her request, he can't imagine her leaving him-because he fears eternal celibacy. His girl takes advantage of this to intimidate him emotionally. She knows that he is at his mercy, she dictates to him what to do and what not to do. She rule him!!!

4. Confident Guys Are Straight Forward, Shy Guys Die In Silence:

As in Item 3 above, the confident guy is straight to the point. He tells you his mood, he tells you his mind, he tells you whatever he feels of you, and most times, he gives an honest opinion to his girl-without fear or favor. Oh, our colleagues in the shy region, they say what you want to hear, they go through pains in silence, they won't tell when you(their girl) hurt them, rather they even apologise to you for hurting them (their girl). Such guys are most likely to be dangerous due to excessive hurt, anger and pains.

5. Friendzone is For Shy Guys :

How can you friendzone a confident guy and an extrovert? It is almost impossible. But a shy guy, hehe, he's loyal to the core, he believes his loyalty to the girl will earn him a place. He's ofcourse a good boy and a loyal servant. He has the qualities of a Special Adviser but not qualified for upgrade

To The Shy Brothers:

No Matter What A Girl Tells You, No matter what you see in movies or read in novels, have one thing in mind, Confidence is the key in whatever you seek and do.

Be yourself , Never imitate anyone or anythig cos if you do you're on a longtin my brother...LOVE WHO YOU ARe, ONE DAy YOU WILL BE APPRECIATED FOR THAT

Shy this, Shy that, I'm getting bored of the ish already. See, It's innate for us to be shy, it comes naturally. Isn't our opinion to be that way.

baccaspace:
Had to take off

why?

Better

Mikocake:
why?

Okay, bringing back

Aprime:
Shy this, Shy that, I'm getting bored of the ish already. See, It's innate for us to be shy, it comes naturally. Isn't our opinion to be that way.

I understand it is inate, but what is not inborn can be acquired just like any other qualities.

Haba! Z it a sin 2 b shy. Dnt b harsh on us naa

olagockay:
Haba! Z it a sin 2 b shy. Dnt b harsh on us naa

I am only being a brother and friend, not being hard bro...

I love shy guys though

Are you saying we should get rid of our shyness?
If you no dey shy, you no be human bean.

Am quite shy to an extent, buh none of those rules apply to me.. Different Strokes for Different Folks..