There are good girls that guys want to introduce to their mother. And then there are bad girls that every guy secretly desires and fantasizes about.

Now every guy knows bad girls are bad news. After all, bad girls are unpredictable, frustrating and fickle. And they’re not the best of partners for a long term relationship either.

But yet, there’s something about the allure of a bad girl that makes every guy secretly admire her and want her.

As a girl, have you ever felt insecure when a bad girl takes a fancy to your boyfriend?

Your man may be all yours, but when a bad girls talks to him or flirts with him, he can’t help but melt or get nervous around her. It’s almost involuntary!

Bad girls vs. good girls

Good girls are the best. As a guy, I can tell you that life with them is like a soft pillow. It’s full of love, comfort, emotional security, happiness and bliss.

But then again, bad girls are like a scary rollercoaster. You don’t want to live in them but you sure as heck want a rough ride now and then!

A bad girl is every man’s fantasy and his nightmare too. A guy wouldn’t want a bad girl, but yet, he can’t stop wishing he could have her. So who wins in the eternal war between the good girl and the bad girl? Well, no one can tell for sure. But here’s something about the regular human mind. As humans, we always prefer stability and simplicity over near death experiences *even though the adrenalin junkie in us wants a near death experience now and then!*

The good girl and bad girl in you

Contrary to the sitcom portrayal of bad girls as slutty leather wearing bitchy women, and nice girls as mauve sweater wearing cute girls, real life isn’t that easy to read. Every girl has a bit of both in her, the good girl and the bad girl. But what stands out more brands the girl as goody-two-shoes or bitch-in-heels.

Sometimes, it’s never bad to be a bad girl, especially if you know what works for you. You may be a good girl who’s dating a great guy, but wouldn’t it be great if you can hone the desirable traits of the bad girl that make her so awesome?

Think about it, good girls win a parent’s heart, but a bad girl wins a man’s heart. If you could be both, you’d definitely be the girl of every guy’s dreams.

12 traits of a bad girl that make her so awesome!

Bad girls aren’t dimwitted or the kind of girl who goes with the flow. She knows what she wants and knows how to get it. So if you’re a good girl who wants to have a bad streak in her, use these 12 bad girl traits to awe a guy and drive him crazy!

#1 The naughty bad girl. Bad girls aren’t prudish. They don’t pretend to hate porn, or shy away from a new sexual adventure. A guy’s sex life with a bad girl is never boring so learn to experiment in bed and try something new all the time.

#2 She’s sexy. Appearances do matter, even if you’ve been in love for ages. Dress up and look good, whether you’re at home or out on a date. Thick sweaters and faded pants are comfortable, but there are sexier looking outfits that feel comfortable too, don’t you think?

#3 She’s adventurous. A bad girl doesn’t hold back and borders on reckless now and then. A bad girl would be willing to try anything at least once. Go out there and experience new things, see what life has to offer and let your man know that you love a good adventure every now and then.

#4 She’s so flirty! Bad girls are little devils who know how to flirt and seduce any guy without making their intentions obvious. They’re fun, alluring and sexy talkers who can give a guy a hard on without even touching him!

#5 She stands up for herself. A bad girl has the confidence to stand up for what she believes in. She’s determined and motivated, and doesn’t let anything get in the way of achieving her goal or dream. And she can do this without the help of any man in her life!

#6 She is who she is. A bad girl doesn’t feel the need to conform to the rules of society. She’s a misfit of the good kind. Her friends may pretend like they don’t appreciate her life choices, but somewhere deep within, everyone secretly wants to be her or wants to be with a girl like her.

#7 She doesn’t sugarcoat it. A good girl will hold a guy’s hand and tell them that everything is going to be alright even if it was him that screwed up in the first place. But a bad girl will show her man the facts as it is, and help him understand his own mistakes.

It’s true, sugarcoating a problem helps ease the pain now and then, but almost every time, a guy would prefer a bullet in the head instead of five in the chest. A bad girl says what’s on her mind, and unless he’s feeling guilty and miserable already or if it’s a sensitive issue, a guy would appreciate that trait in his girlfriend.

#8 She’s high maintenance. Guys want a low maintenance girl around the house. But they always want a high maintenance girl when they’re walking down a street! High maintenance girls are always awed and admired by guys, even if they can’t be afforded.

#9 Bad girls don’t let themselves go. Most nice women just let themselves go once they get into a stable relationship or a marriage. They don’t dress up, don’t shave where it matters, and they start to overlook the Michelin Man curves that start to grow on their body *because they have better things to do*. But a bad girl knows the secret behind attraction and seduction, looks matter just as much as personality.

#10 They say NO. A guy could be infuriated by this bad girl behavior when she puts her foot down and take a stand when she doesn’t want to do something, but this trait will also make her be taken more seriously. On the other hand, a warm and nice girl who compromises all the time and puts up with a guy for everything will only be taken for granted or walked all over.

#11 She doesn’t wait for magic. She creates it. A bad girl doesn’t wait for a prince charming to walk into her life and fix her problems for her. She steps into the middle of the real world and fixes what she wants, with the assistance of drooling men or by herself.

#12 She’s extremely confident. She’s not cocky, but she’s not the insecure one either. In fact, she’s the kind of girl who’ll scare a guy and make him try harder to impress her all the time. Whatever she does, she’s confident of her skills, and everyone respects her for that.

Does it takes someone to be bad so as to be sexy, good in bed and stand for herself?

Op where is the source of ur write up

The fact still remain... Both bad and good girl are DEVIL... We are just too blind to see it.

I want my woman to be flirty with me alone.
I also want her to be baaaaad in bed.
Any bad' from that is a big No.

dre11:
Op where is the source of ur write up

Mr man have u seen it?

Rapsainot:
Does it takes someone to be bad so as to be sexy, good in bed and stand for herself?

I wonder oo

so Cosmo

this post looks somehow.

The time for bad girls are over. Its the new era, the era for the good and godly girls. Who needs a flirt for a wife?

all i can say you are very good writter

I'm coming

There are some good girls that does most of the things you listed as traits in bad girls.

Sarimah:
I wonder oo

check ur mail.

Sarimah:
I wonder oo

mrs wonder lady,,how the jacking?

richommie:
check ur mail.

ok

Unibenstudent:
mrs wonder lady,,how the jacking?

jacking keh?

Sarimah:
jacking keh?

una no dey jack for uniuyo abi wetin? Hope say u r not a non academic staff dere oh

Op, dis ur write up is affectin my eye, space d damn thing, ha

1 & 4

1 & 4. Dats all i need

hmm isokay

The era for good gals has gone! Bad gals get away with all the good things now! Look around yhu

Didn't read it all but the part I read? In a word, nonsense.

I'm a guy. I don't think bad girls monopolize sexuality. Matter of fact, I knew one bad girl once that has been on my case since Sunday School. I can't even conceive of sleeping with her.

I've never liked bad girls. I like well-kept, well-dressed girls. I hate skimpily-clad. That turns me on no less. I involuntarily react like that to any beautiful curvy woman dressed up to advertise her body regardless what her character is like. I've seen decent dressing that awakens my sexüal attention. And skimpy dressing that kills any waking sexüal desire in me.

I'll pick a good girl over a bad girl every time. I have been in unpredictability before. It's a hell that I don't care for. And I picked her thinking she was not like that. That was a long time ago though.

Turn us into your puppet na

ihedinobi2:
Didn't read it all but the part I read? In a word, nonsense.

I'm a guy. I don't think bad girls monopolize sexuality. Matter of fact, I knew one bad girl once that has been on my case since Sunday School. I can't even conceive of sleeping with her.

I've never liked bad girls. I like well-kept, well-dressed girls. I hate skimpily-clad. That turns me on no less. I involuntarily react like that to any beautiful curvy woman dressed up to advertise her body regardless what her character is like. I've seen decent dressing that awakens my sexüal attention. And skimpy dressing that kills any waking sexüal desire in me.

I'll pick a good girl over a bad girl every time. I have been in unpredictability before. It's a hell that I don't care for. And I picked her thinking she was not like that. That was a long time ago though.

baba dont get it wrong the topic says "12 bad girl traits guys secretly wants their woman to have" it doesnt suggest that u choose between a bad girl and a good girl... try to digest and decipher the message before u post whatever u want to post..

MarthaK:
Turn us into your puppet na

how do u mean?

bliss2al:


baba dont get it wrong the topic says "12 bad girl traits guys secretly wants their woman to have" it doesnt suggest that u choose between a bad girl and a good girl... try to digest and decipher the message before u post whatever u want to post..

So what is the bad trait exactly? A love for sex? Again, nonsense.

A desire to be sexüally appealing when one is dressed up? Again, nonsense.

And on and on and on.

There's nothing bad about wanting to be found attractive or actually enjoying and wanting sex. The bad thing is wanting to be everybody's sexüal fantasy and everybody's hot date. And that is not a trait I fancy in any woman.

And if we judge by how easily men "go to war" over women then it's not a trait many men want in their women either.

You follow my thoughts now?

In the words of an american rapper: 'i love bad bitches... thats my f*ck'n problem'
Sort of the reason i still 'shy' away from alot of good girls... i'm waiting till im ready for soo much goodness, but with this i hope 'she' reads it and gives a dose of a good girl who knows bad things and does it with just me... or like i told my ex... i want an 'ada' who knows what 'caro' knows...

so true! bad girls are great and intriguing

ihedinobi2:

So what is the bad trait exactly? A love for sex? Again, nonsense.

A desire to be sexüally appealing when one is dressed up? Again, nonsense.

And on and on and on.

There's nothing bad about wanting to be found attractive or actually enjoying and wanting sex. The bad thing is wanting to be everybody's sexüal fantasy and everybody's hot date. And that is not a trait I fancy in any woman.

And if we judge by how easily men "go to war" over women then it's not a trait many men want in their women either.

You follow my thoughts now?

chairman you may not like DE idea but they are several guys who likes it.. case close #end of story

bliss2al:



chairman you may not like DE idea but they are several guys who likes it.. case close #end of story

We aren't disagreeing over whether anybody likes "DE idea", just over if there is ANY idea at all to agree over. I don't see any sense in what the article said.