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Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by MizMyColi(f): 8:44pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
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Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by chigoizie7(m): 8:47pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
i dont know oooh, besides our individual religions might differ |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Tallesty1(m): 8:48pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
There is absolutely no good reason to engage in pre-marital sex. The only benefit is the few minutes fun that you will definitely regret when the orgasm fades away............ But the disadvantages?? They are unaccountable. I think one of the most painful and overlooked disadvantage of sex before marriage is emotional scars. They never heal. A man/woman who have had sexual partners before marriage can never love his/her spouse genuinely. Every person he/she dated/slept with took a part of him/her with them. How about the embarrassment involved? You see, sex is an emotional experience and after engaging in premarital sex, many people express feelings of guilt, distrust, resentment, lack of respect, tension, loss of honesty poverty, loss of self-esteem, loss of reputation, being used, suicide, and so much more. Do you not know that premarital sex contributes greatly to the divorce stories that you and I read every day? All these unloyal hoes you see everywhere, what do you think was the cause? People kill each other, commit suicide, pour acid on person's because of pre-marital sex. Children disobey their parents, someone run away from home, some join prostitution after being used severally, some find it difficult to stay faithful after marriage because they are used to having multiple partners etc. That thing bad walahi. 32 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by iceberylin(m): 8:50pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
African Parants will kill you once u get pregnant... Except say na 2baba |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
For me I guess it is good training not to have sex before marriage...so that you can be prepared to resist the temptations that come after marriage and avoid the damage that comes from broken relationships. Additionally, doing it before marriage does not improve ''compatibility'' (Or why do sex manuals exist?. Plus...sexual compatibility from what I have heard is a process.....not something done fast). Also....it helps one develop the other aspects of the relationship....so that it does not go down to just sex and sex!. 5 Likes |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by DesChyko: 8:53pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Marriage under pressure. Even if the person feels right, being unprepared ruins many things. |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Ohhhh. This babe be reading my mind per second. Little thing, they start quoting bible -that thing dey make me mad. Where are the anti premarital sex crew. 2 Likes |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by MizMyColi(f): 8:53pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
chigoizie7: Perchance, are you saying if we lived in a world devoid of religion, you'd gladly engage in PMS with everyone you date? (Assuming you date more than one person before getting married)? |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by delishpot: 8:55pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Back in the day, men liked to marry virgins and a woman will be at risk of death if her husband finds her non virgin or if his people find her non virgin on her wedding night. So, women were encouraged to keep virginity and wait until marriage, cos if the guy that did you dumos you afterwards, your secret will be out when another man picks you for marriage. men were forced to marry any woman they bang out of wedlock which means you may get hitched to a woman you just wanted to do ONS(One Night Stand) with. The girl will be disgraced in the community and her mother mocked to death. So therefore, parents advice their kids to say no to sex until after marriage. |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by MizMyColi(f): 8:57pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: Lolz |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by mirexxx(f): 8:57pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
hmmmm |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by todayguest(m): 8:59pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Unwanted pregnancy, abortion, rejection after conception by parents and family members, Family status and denials.Nb. Condoms aren't 100% safe. But, to abstain is. |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
STD reasons. |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by timawoku(m): 9:00pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
I don't know why o And its sweeter when sacred I think we really need to critically analyze this topic, because (to me o) pre-marital sex might actually save marriage |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by MizMyColi(f): 9:03pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
timawoku: |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by jmoore(m): 9:04pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
"Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid murder?" Survival of the fittest, according to biology. >>[A case study of Aucas as an example, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Auca] 7 Likes |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Reading comments |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
faster healing from heartbreak 1 Like |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
timawoku:How? Help us analyse mbok. FriedPlantain:waiting. jmoore:Do you really think people avoid murder because of religious reasons? Hmmm. That's not my reason though. 2 Likes |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by PerfumeRepublik: 9:09pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
jmoore: ^^^ On point. |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
[b]I'm not a virgin but outside religious reasons, here are other reasons why I think pre-marital sex should be frowned upon. 1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you. 2.Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. It is a well known fact that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life. 3. Majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women. 4. If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character.Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you. True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all - the love nest of marriage. friedplantain[/b] 28 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Karleb(m): 9:17pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
1. The urge to have more of it which might turn one to a sex addict and the other patner can never be as available as a patner you are legally married to. 2. Unwanted pregnancy. Trust me many people who engage in premarital sex are not ready to father nor mother a child. However, I believe it depends on how an individual feels about it, trust me it's easier to say avoid pms when you a far-off but when you come closer to the dating business you'll realize that compatibility and attraction can/will hasten the process i.e pre-marital sex. 2 Likes |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by AbuMikey(m): 9:19pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
todayguest: Use the Damn condom, and fûck as much as You want to feel alright! 2 Likes |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by jmoore(m): 9:19pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
"Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid adultery?" 2 Likes |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by jmoore(m): 9:21pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
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Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by AbuMikey(m): 9:21pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ: This is so not true. That Pre-Marital sex can wreck a marriage! Ha!! Bros, read Your comment again na 5 Likes |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by AbuMikey(m): 9:24pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Karleb: Very True! 2 Likes |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by jamex93(m): 9:25pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
unwanted Belle, std, dem plenty |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by jmoore(m): 9:25pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
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Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Karleb(m): 9:27pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
AbuMikey: Don't take him serious, that's probably what his Pastor's wife told him. |
Re: Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
AbuMikey:
How is it very true, Mikey? If one gets married a virgin, you can also turn an addict (new thing dey shark). The husband can actually get tired of servicing the wife too. That's when we see threads like "My Husband Doesn't Make Love To Me Often" 1 Like |
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