The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain’t an easy
job, I must confess! But with God and diligence in
fulfilling purpose, we’ll get there.
I write this letter to you to point out some things which
you ought to know before marriage or as you continue
in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First
concerning how you treat ladies. I know quite alright
that ladies are emotional only few are not. Please, don’t
take advantage of that and inflict emotional pain on
them.

If you know she’s not going to be your wife, there’s no
point promising her heaven and earth just to get her in
bed.
If you think you’re smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that would
one day catch up with you.
It’s better you avoid the consequences of an action
because of its few minutes pleasure than to face its
agony and regrets in the near future.

What are you doing about your life and future? I know
it’s trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all youthful
exuberance. See, life doesn’t go on a stretch forever and
every time wasted cannot be recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven’t define your life or
you’re still depending on friends, family or relatives,
you need to work on yourself.

Where do you put God in your life? Consider God in the
time of your youth before it’s too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will someday run
back to Him for help. If you cannot dance to the devil’s
music, it’s better you start learning God’s steps.

Hear this guys, love isn’t s*x! Don’t tell a lady to prove
her love to you because you want to have a ‘taste’ of
her. I know everyone is going haywire with premarital
s*x but you can choose to abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make you
vulnerable to STDs and some problems ‘rubber’ cannot
prevent.

It doesn’t matter if she calls you names if you choose to
abstain, or you become an object of mockery amongst
your friends, run for your dear life.

Think about your future and life hereafter. Don’t give
your strength to strange women, preserve it for your
wife.

Have you discovered your purpose in life? That very
reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without discovering
your purpose on earth will make you miserable and
waste away in life.

Know your purpose in life and be on track to attain it’s
fulfillment before you think of going into a relationship.
It’s not difficult, it would only prevent you from
distraction.

Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are emptying
you of virtues and opportunities?
It’s not a must you hang out with friends if you do not
benefit from them. You can stand alone with God and
make lasting impact than to keep dozens of friends with
no footprints in the sand of time.

Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual, mental and
emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman even if
she pushed you to the wall. There is a button of patience
to press to control your anger.

Work on your mental development. Read good books to
acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with God so
that your wife wouldn’t become a victim of false
prophets or you become a spiritual babe in handling
matters of life at the homefront.

My guy, you’re going to be a father someday.
Don’t do
the things you wouldn’t be proud of your son to emulate
or would want anyone to do to your daughter.
If you wouldn’t want to leave a bad legacy for your
unborn children, don’t tread the path now.
I’d have love to tell you more but I believe you know
the importance of life and time and I’m constrained due
to space.

Don’t waste away chasing every Tom, d**k and Harry
for s*x. Conserve your energies and channel it into a
more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter,
share it or send it to a friend.

Thank you for your anticipated response as you make
amends in areas where necessary.
#Caslord greets y'all#.

Can someone Summarize this plccc

Spoke like a wise person. Your words were the fuel I needed to go through with tonight