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A Letter To Single Guys by kentozybee(m): 8:01am On Oct 17, 2014 |
A Letter To Single Men Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared with you lately? The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't an easy job, I must confess! But with God and diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there. I write this letter to you to point out some things which you ought to know before marriage or as you continue in that relationship. This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players. First concerning how you treat ladies. I know quite alright that ladies are emotional only few are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and inflict emotional pain on them. If you know she's not going to be your wife, there’s no point promising her heaven and earth just to get her in bed. If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that would one day catch up with you. It's better you avoid the consequences of an action because of its few minutes pleasure than to face its agony and regrets in the near future. What are you doing about your life and future? I know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be recovered. If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your life or you're still depending on friends, family or relatives, you need to work on yourself. Where do you put God in your life? Consider God in the time of your youth before it's too late. Many of you who turned back on God will someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot dance to the devil's music, it's better you start learning God's steps. Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to prove her love to you because you want to have a 'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire with premarital sex but you can choose to abstain. Apart from it being sin against God, it will make you vulnerable to STDs and some problems 'rubber' cannot prevent. It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you choose to abstain, or you become an object of mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear life. Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't give your strength to strange women, preserve it for your wife. Have you discovered your purpose in life? That very reason why God has created you? Jumping from one lady to another without discovering your purpose on earth will make you miserable and waste away in life. Know your purpose in life and be on track to attain it's fulfillment before you think of going into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would only prevent you from distraction. Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they contributing positively to your life or they are emptying you of virtues and opportunities? It's not a must you hang out with friends if you do not benefit from them. You can stand alone with God and make lasting impact than to keep dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand of time. Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual, mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman even if she pushed you to the wall. There is a button of patience to press to control your anger. Work on your mental development. Read good books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't become a victim of false prophets or you become a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the homefront. My guy, you're going to be a father someday. Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of your son to emulate or would want anyone to do to your daughter. If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for your unborn children, don't tread the path now. I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you know the importance of life and time and I'm constrained due to space. Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and channel it into a more productive cause in life. I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter, share it or send it to a friend. Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in areas where necessary. 445 Likes 164 Shares |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by jayminJr(m): 8:15am On Oct 17, 2014 |
gwam gwam. Kpom kwem. *clearsthroat* I Luv dz Ma Guy. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by PromiseAndre: 8:21am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Nice bro! you've made ma day beautiful already... 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by LEERICIST(m): 8:23am On Oct 17, 2014 |
True talk. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 8:26am On Oct 17, 2014 |
The only sensible post I've come across in months on the romance section with a positive impact. 67 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by MizMyColi(f): 8:31am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Ceasar1: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 8:38am On Oct 17, 2014 |
nwoke oma, eziokwu ki kwulu. It is now left for those with discerning power to do the needful. Btw, you sounded like my papa nnukwu. Thanks for this pretty letter. 8 Likes |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Tallesty1(m): 8:39am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Wow............ This is good............ Thumbs up bro but wait o. kentozybee:. Well it takes a crazy woman to push a man to the wall. So if he turns around and hits her. It means they are compatible and meant for each other. "In Shaggy's Voice" If she pack a gun you better run fast no 4m gentle man where it is not necessary. 24 Likes |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 8:40am On Oct 17, 2014 |
1 Like |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by ucheokpara100(m): 8:45am On Oct 17, 2014 |
(Crying) 4 Likes |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by spanzed(m): 8:46am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Nice post bro.. 1 Like |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Cheadiva(f): 8:48am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Tell them abeq....NYC one jawe |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Missmossy(f): 8:52am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Makes sense,such an insightful post 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kentozybee(m): 8:58am On Oct 17, 2014 |
PromiseAndre:Thanks |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Ladycloud(f): 9:06am On Oct 17, 2014 |
nyc one dear! if all guyz were lyk yhu...d world would hv been a better place! 5 Likes |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Ladycloud(f): 9:08am On Oct 17, 2014 |
nyc one dear! if all guyz fink this way...d world will be a better place! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kentozybee(m): 9:17am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Ladycloud:Hmm Sure |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Ladycloud(f): 9:19am On Oct 17, 2014 |
kentozybee:....did u have to #hmmm....frownz |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by kentozybee(m): 9:21am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Ladycloud:Lol It's Nothing Nw,Pls Smile Frowning Is Nt Good Fr U 3 Likes |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by GlorifiedTunde(m): 9:21am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Nice piece of TRUTH! 1 Like |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by barackodam: 9:22am On Oct 17, 2014 |
I love thread. Thumbs op!!! 2 Likes |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Epathra(f): 9:30am On Oct 17, 2014 |
My own little quota is this 24 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by lottoe(m): 9:54am On Oct 17, 2014 |
We hope it enters Front page tho. Insightful piece[quote][/quote] 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by StPete: 10:04am On Oct 17, 2014 |
...ok |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by zyzxx(m): 10:10am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Nice op. most times we knw what is Gud and best but we find ourselves doing d wrong thing base on our flesh, God help us make we be d doer not only d reader of dis word 10 Likes |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by naijaboiy: 11:39am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Everybody saying nice post... Make me sef join them Op nice post 7 Likes |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by MrCork: 11:48am On Oct 17, 2014 |
kentozybee: .. Letter to single guys or letters to single ladies".......bro...no ooofwnse but r u g@y? ....what is goin on in that Nigeria for god sake? .... U people mennnn! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by MrCork: 11:49am On Oct 17, 2014 |
..but why is a man writing letter to single guys?..... No females on nairaland? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Medunah: 12:23pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
How i wish they would listen....most of em sayin 'nice post' prolly wont practice it 7 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: A Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 12:24pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by chibwike(m): 12:25pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
Ceasar1:as for me..its in years.. 1 Like |
Re: A Letter To Single Guys by chibwike(m): 12:27pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
This is the best post have ever seen in romance section, since i joined NL..op God bless you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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