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Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:04pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
[quote author=endie44 post=27266491] I get it. but i'm a natural introvert by nature..I've been trying really i have.. it not easy for someone like me to keep conversations going and interesting.[/quote]but loads of introverts lyk u,are married na. see hun,love wuldnt come knocking,u hv to somehow make some efforts..mayb its dah next door neighbour,dah babe in d supermarket,in a gathering..and so on,buh u wuldnt knw if u keep moping,and wallowing in wishful thinking deres somebody for everyone...u just hv to start searching..goodluck! |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by LadyCaty(f): 9:09pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
ERCROSS:Lolss..bt u dy use am..ok sha |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 10:37pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
skentelelady: Thanks alot.. I'll keep trying. I'll take your words under advisement. Please can i reach u once a while if i have troubles along the way... |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 10:40pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Annypie:Its true what you've just said. but you say it like its easy for many.. and the reality is that it really is not. I wont say i mope and wallow in wishful thinking... i dont really. i do make attempts but it doesnt last thats where my problems lie. |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 10:42pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
nestaolive: I'll try.. thanks. but how about just being friends. |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 10:45pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
diluminati: I ve been shouting the word.. I still am shouting the word.. I want to do all meaningfull tinz that i will take. Honestly. |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 10:51pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
xtervaganza: Honestly, I wont say i've been into a formal relationship before until i got to my late twenties. I ve tried two relationships since then but didnt make much progress... most times my fault i must confess. I'm in my earliest thirties.. thanks |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by shayman(m): 11:51pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Hmmmmm I think we have things in common @OP... |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by OmoEziokwu: 11:51pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Why would any man set a deadline to marry, as if to imply that if it is not met then something would go wrong? Aren't such thing supposed to be organic, or something like that? So if you don't marry in July 2015, what will happen then? What kinds of programmed men are roaming the earth these days? |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 11:52pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
marcnelly: What for exactly Please?? |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Emmysteve(m): 3:03am On Oct 20, 2014 |
endie44:Ritualist |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:24am On Oct 20, 2014 |
op I can feel ur pain because it happens to me too,but in my own case I never get job,so I think I have hope when I get job I will hit a stable relationship.op just keep trying,people like us find it difficult to make a stable relationship but at d end when we meet that lady she will never allow us to go,just keep trying u will meet her soon,my mind is telling me. |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by mecussey(m): 6:30am On Oct 20, 2014 |
endie44: Read that again...some people get good married life without dating anyone. I might do like that if worse comes to worst |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by justmag(m): 6:56am On Oct 20, 2014 |
sweettease: hmmmm!
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Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by justmag(m): 7:00am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Annypie: Hey!! sometimes love CAN come knocking and you may not have to go knocking, and you may knock the wrong door! |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by philismary(f): 7:38am On Oct 20, 2014 |
I am available [color=#990000][/color] |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by lawrenceunaa: 8:46am On Oct 20, 2014 |
samflexxy:just like that marriage is not a boyfrn ,galfrn matter ooo |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 8:50am On Oct 20, 2014 |
shayman: Ok! In what ways are you refering to |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:13am On Oct 20, 2014 |
@op, I hv 3 questions to ask. You hv answered 2 which is; u ain't shy and you hv a stable job. now d third is; are u good looking? |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:30am On Oct 20, 2014 |
lindachi86:if u dey give am, no give am ur girl friend wey dey brief or Hi Malt size, make she no kill the guy with nagging. The guy sounds so delicate n he's a novice in d game. |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by skentelelady(f): 9:40am On Oct 20, 2014 |
endie44: You are always well come |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:52am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Wow! You all have spoken so well. Now, as theWisest, let me give my pinch. OP, make friends with the ladies and I mean, just friends. Your neighbours, your colleagues, your customers. Just make friends. Then find the one you're most comfortable with and a relationship is born. That was my formula and my love life is like heaven. Leave seduction. I've been there and it's empty (even the sex too is empty). You're a good guy. Just make friends first. BY THE WAY, if you don't know to make friends, just tell them HI. 1 Like |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:56am On Oct 20, 2014 |
justmag:hmm,call it luck or fate. buh,u still hav to make dah effort to answer d door,let it in,and be a good host. |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Omimah: 10:01am On Oct 20, 2014 |
samflexxy:Since OP wants to marry in July 2015, won't 9 months be too short for him to date ten girls, then later pick one of them, then propose to her? Can't he just go ahead, study a girl he has been admiring (if at all he has) for some times, watch her with keen interest, then propose to her? |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Omimah: 10:11am On Oct 20, 2014 |
akpur1:Please, could you explain further? |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 11:13am On Oct 20, 2014 |
OmoEziokwu: Its not like you really put it... as in programming per sa.. I may not be correct, but my mind tells me you maybe of younger generation compared to me. I can tell you categorically, when i was younger Yes! the norm would be as you've stated it.. as in all going Organically you meet people and nature takes its course in time. Well i'm still here and that has not happened for me.. To tell you the truth About 2 - 7 years ago if sumone had told me to wait till 2015 before i get married i would have said the person didn't like me that that Date and year is too far.. but them 2015 is just around the corner now. To answer your question if by then noting happens nko? well Daris God! I'll keep being me and keep getting better... but then i'm really trusting God for this Miracle.. Its the Faith! Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 11:16am On Oct 20, 2014 |
dancok: I hear you Brother... I really hear you. You already know everything. Meanwhile i wish you luck in getting a stable and favourable economy. Thanks. |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 11:19am On Oct 20, 2014 |
mecussey: Well its true... Marriage may come in different ways.. maybe depending on God's plan for you! is that what you are saying. Well i'm not opposed to the idea anyways. As long as we put God first, i trust such marriage can just be fine.. |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 11:21am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Omimah:Hmm! Just like that? |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 11:25am On Oct 20, 2014 |
TheWisest: Ok!! i truely like your line of point.. But like i said earlier, i'm really not good at conversing with people not to talk of ladies.. dat has been the problem all along. I live a really quite 1-way direction life, mostly boring... i'm telling you the truth. |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by endie44: 11:26am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Annypie: Ok! i can hear you. Thanks Alot! |
Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:31am On Oct 20, 2014 |
endie44:amen,thanks |
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