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Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by shinaboy: 3:00am On Oct 20, 2014
Recently I met a lady who despite her difficulty finding a suitable spouse, left a prospective fiance when she discovered he was watching indecency. I have also heard about a few marriages where indecency-watching by the husband is threatening to destroy the marriage. The only thing keeping the marriage is the fact they have kids and the husbands seems to be well to do.

And this really got me thinking, in a world where the average man/boyfriend probably watches or has watched one form of indecency or the other, are there ladies to whom this issue is no problem?

Ladies, will you still marry your boyfriend if you found out he is watching indecency?

Please share your comments
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Spicylate(f): 5:59am On Oct 20, 2014
hmm, honestly i dont know.
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by divineRx(f): 6:05am On Oct 20, 2014
i'll jst try nd advice him against it nd after so many attempt nd he still continues i'll jst av to leave him
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Nobody: 6:08am On Oct 20, 2014
Spicylate:
hmm, honestly i dont know.
huh wait is there any thing wrong in watching porn the op clearly stated porn and not self-service. But some women can be senseless @times

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Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by kozaic(f): 6:08am On Oct 20, 2014
Yes I can, only if his an addict!
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by shinaboy: 6:09am On Oct 20, 2014
samflexxy:
huh wait is there any thing wrong in watching porn the op clearly stated porn and not self-service. But some women can be senseless @times

But both of them usually go together most times
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Spicylate(f): 6:12am On Oct 20, 2014
samflexxy:
huh wait is there any thing wrong in watching porn the op clearly stated porn and not self-service. But some women can be senseless @times
and some men can be senseless as to not to ask for it.
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by shinaboy: 6:12am On Oct 20, 2014
kozaic:
Yes I can, only if his an addict!

If he does it like 2ce to 3ce a week will that be addiction for you?
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Nobody: 6:19am On Oct 20, 2014
Spicylate:

and some men can be senseless as to not to ask for it.
its not a matter of asking for sexx some people find porn very entertaining and watches it for fun so I don't think it means anything or lemme ask you a question have you ever watch porn b4
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by sammieguze(m): 6:32am On Oct 20, 2014
Patiently waiting for her answer

cheesy

samflexxy:
its not a matter of asking for sexx some people find porn very entertaining and watches it for fun so I don't think it means anything or lemme ask you a question have you ever watch porn b4
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Spicylate(f): 6:33am On Oct 20, 2014
samflexxy:
its not a matter of asking for sexx some people find porn very entertaining and watches it for fun so I don't think it means anything or lemme ask you a question have you ever watch porn b4
oh it can be watched for fun then why alone? and lemme ask you a question, what is fun?
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Spicylate(f): 6:34am On Oct 20, 2014
sammieguze:
Patiently waiting for her answer

cheesy

just a step up bud
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by sammieguze(m): 6:42am On Oct 20, 2014
Spicylate:

just a step up bud
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by sammieguze(m): 6:42am On Oct 20, 2014
Sorry.... I don't get you answer. Can you be a little bit more explicit pls cheesy

Spicylate:

just a step up bud
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Spicylate(f): 6:45am On Oct 20, 2014
sammieguze:
Sorry.... I don't get you answer. Can you be a little bit more explicit pls cheesy

never mind.
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by lawrenceunaa: 6:49am On Oct 20, 2014
watching indecency poses a probability of sleeping around
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Nobody: 7:21am On Oct 20, 2014
Spicylate:

oh it can be watched for fun then why alone? and lemme ask you a question, what is fun?
fun is doing something pleasurable and enjoyable

The issue about watching it alone is another different case for instance you come back from work very late when your spouse is sleeping or tired you can watch porn


And besides have seen and heard of couples who watch porn together I don't really see the big deal in it



And you haven't answered my question
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Nobody: 7:24am On Oct 20, 2014
Watching porn when ur married is just perversion at its peak.....
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Nobody: 7:24am On Oct 20, 2014
lawrenceunaa:
watching indecency poses a probability of sleeping around
and what probability does it poses
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by iceberylin(m): 7:34am On Oct 20, 2014
He's trying to be skillful.... is it a sin undecided
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by AfricanApple(f): 7:39am On Oct 20, 2014
that means d girl will keep walking up and down
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Lordabas: 7:56am On Oct 20, 2014
okay LADIES ask yourself this question: if i leave him & find someone new then catch them watching porn, will i leave them too? This will be a revolving cycle cos let's face it, every guy watches porn. (If he says he doesn't then he's lying)


So either suck it up or turn a lesbiian cheesy

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Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Spicylate(f): 8:01am On Oct 20, 2014
samflexxy:
fun is doing something pleasurable and enjoyable

The issue about watching it alone is another different case for instance you come back from work very late when your spouse is sleeping or tired you can watch porn


And besides have seen and heard of couples who watch porn together I don't really see the big deal in it



And you haven't answered my question
1. i did not say its good or bad to watch porn.
2. you quoted me and i caputured a word and took the ladies defence.
3. i did not say can or cannot watch porn. and if porn is tagged fun, i guess stealing should be then(an opinion)
4. answering yoir question of whether i watch porn or not is what i wouldnt share with you.
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by marieolae(f): 8:05am On Oct 20, 2014
I dnt actually think its a big deal
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Bigcake: 8:18am On Oct 20, 2014
It's very bad and i conderm it in totality. That is the beginning of cheating. Perhaps, after watching the porn you will definitely need someone other than your wife to practice the act with.
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by vacant06(m): 8:24am On Oct 20, 2014
Spicylate:
hmm, honestly i dont know.
I guess u like it too
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by destante(f): 8:27am On Oct 20, 2014
was he watching it when he could have been with me and I needed his bedroom company?
or when I didn't want nothing to do with him in that time.?
that would determine if ild sanction him or not grin
but to leave him cuz of dat? nahhh
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by lawrenceunaa: 8:35am On Oct 20, 2014
samflexxy:
and what probability does it poses
what do u expect when a partner cheats on the other

it might lead to breakup or divorce if they are already married
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Chanchit: 8:36am On Oct 20, 2014
Very good, another goodway to breakup.
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Nutase: 8:37am On Oct 20, 2014
All porn watchers are addicts just like all cigarette smokers are addicts. The problem is ust that most of them have not realized they are addicted.
If you want to know you are addicted try staying 3 months without it.
IMHO it is BAD.
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Baddestguyp(m): 8:56am On Oct 20, 2014
samflexxy:
fun is doing something pleasurable and enjoyable

The issue about watching it alone is another different case for instance you come back from work very late when your spouse is sleeping or tired you can watch porn


And besides have seen and heard of couples who watch porn together I don't really see the big deal in it



And you haven't answered my question
guy, d fact is she watches it like most ladies commenting against it here. almost all ladies watch pôrn but they hide it and keep forming. d only thing is that most guys don't hide it
Re: Will You Leave Your Man Because He Watches Indecency by Spicylate(f): 8:56am On Oct 20, 2014
vacant06:
I guess u like it too
you never can tell

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