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Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by jaysay(m): 10:29am On Oct 20, 2014 |
I have observed that some people decide to get married in order to cure loneliness. I am sorry to burst it, there are married people that are still lonely together. Before you choose to spend the rest of your life with someone, it is important that you already enjoy your own company; the person end up being a complement of you. Even in marriage, there are times when your mate wants to be left alone. Everyone needs to have specific interests and a solution to cure their own loneliness. Know this for sure, you can not make someone do anything, you can only decide what you'll do and how you'll respond to a situation. If you choose to marry, it is a great thing. If you choose to remain single, you have committed no wrong, although, you'll have to contend with your African parents that might not be happy with you. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by bigiyaro(m): 10:42am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Yeah! Marriage won't cure loneliness especially if that is the reason you got married. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by iceberylin(m): 11:16am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Depends on who you marry.... You dont marry a Celebrity and expect to cure loneliness |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by irishCream: 5:58pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Personally I know marriage is over hype but then we all want it If not for any other reason for the love I have for kids One tree doesn't make a forest 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by jaysay(m): 10:24am On Oct 21, 2014 |
I know some folks say for the kids. I don't even know how I feel about kids. I do not have one of my own, yet, but I enjoy playing with kids of other people. irishCream: |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by marieolae(f): 10:28am On Oct 21, 2014 |
irishCream:Its only in nigeria that I can say marriage is overrated. If your not married by the age of 25 you are irresponsible and wayward! For what now? Nigerians sha.... |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by Nobody: 11:45am On Oct 21, 2014 |
You can say marriage doesnt solve lonliness for everyone. Because it sure does for some people. |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by passionate88: 11:54am On Oct 21, 2014 |
irishCream:You can still have kids without getting married. |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by passionate88: 11:57am On Oct 21, 2014 |
marieolae:25?... That's not right.. It's the girls that pressurize theirselves to get married... Imagine a friend of mine posted on facebook that she attended a wedding and was just imagining how her's will be?... I'm a guy, I kinda hate the way our (Nigerian) girls view/approach marriage. |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by irishCream: 1:47pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
passionate88: I know but sorry I don't subscribe to such... The effect will be on the kids Society even frown at kids raised by single parent esp d females So will stick to the normal way all I need is a compatible partener. |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by passionate88: 2:07pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
irishCream:Ok... Then don't use the "love for kids" as the reason to marry. |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by irishCream: 2:36pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
passionate88: I never said that's the only reason I'm gonna marry Read my first post u quoted again There might be other reasons but that one supercedes it |
Re: Marriage Doesn't Solve Lonliness by radiant3(f): 4:40pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
ATOB: Yeah,right! |
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