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Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by LaurelP(m): 6:10pm On Oct 21, 2014
I'm one guy who beleives dat ladies shud not always have their way all d time when it comes to guys. Not dat I hate dem, not at all.
But becos I know wat they can turn guys to when they're left to do wateva they like. I know d impression they have of guys who are too lenient with dem.

I've neva been one to favor a girl over my fellow guy. Call it male chauvinism or wateva u like, I don't care!
I rememba back den during my service in Uyo, when we wud queue up to collect one thing or d oda. A girl will just walk majestically to a guy and ask him to make space for her to enter d queue, and d guys will allow dem. But if a guy does d same, d girls will neva allow dem.

I was known as someone who wud neva allow a girl. Even some guys were looking at me like a wicked guy, and I was surprised. Why shud I do to a girl wat I refuse to do a fellow guy? Is it becos she's got boobs and cunt?

I get very annoyed when I see how some guys stupidly please girls and even beg dem to accept dia kindness! Its stupidity to me.

So my question is shud a guy always please a girl? Cos I don't know if I'm doing d wrong thing by not being a woman pleaser.

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Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Tymax(m): 6:14pm On Oct 21, 2014
It is certainly wrong. No debate on the issue. A man should not be an àss-kisser especially if a female is involved.....ESPECIALLY.

THE FEMINISTS AMONG THEM WANT GENDER EQUALITY. NO ONE SAID ANYTHING ABOUT GENDER-WORSHIP. undecided angry
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by NicxonXXX(m): 6:15pm On Oct 21, 2014
I bii mean person naturally.

So from my point of view, If yhu play Mr Nice guy.....

All the gurls and ladies would ride yhu (mind yhu. not yhur di©k) like jangilova....AND DEM GO CALL DEIR FRIENDZ...

Na xo dem take wicked reach.
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Oct 21, 2014
Yea....just incase of Kunji

u're covered grin
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by jcflex(m): 6:34pm On Oct 21, 2014
capital NO, I dnt support that as well
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by freshness2020: 6:35pm On Oct 21, 2014
OP ♈όϋ re so on point! I love guys dat kick and not lick ass!
...some girls don't deserve it at all, they will end up falling Ūя̲̅ hands but Ūя̲̅ guys won't !
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Oct 21, 2014
Omo, it's good to be good but people, not just girls abuse your good disposition towards them.

But girls are worse of. Many of them are roaring bitches going about looking for a guy to wreck and then move on to the next guy.

You see a girl with 20k woman hair on her waterless coconut head and she's using an iPhone 6 yet she is begging guys for money to buy MB in exchange for her nude pix. And some guys fAll for this shit. When the net is full of porn with fresh asses that can make u cum for free without even wanking your self.

Don't be nice to girls, be nice to your GF.

Help a girl once Nd you would be her port of call only when she needs your help again.

And when her friends know that you are nice.... Heheh, be prepared to render thankless community service..... With your cash and material holdings oooo, not your dick.
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by destante(f): 6:41pm On Oct 21, 2014
well you said I should call you a chauvinist, yess you are! tongue
your own is too extreme hian. You never allow girls on queue? When you focus on that too much, you end up doing things overtly.
you should know when to be nice and when not.
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Oct 21, 2014
Consider this and be wise.....

It doesn't matter whether you are a chap or a lassie.

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Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Oct 21, 2014
I completely agree. If you're too nice they'd start taking you for granted smiley
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Oct 21, 2014
capital no slap them when they misbehave head butt them if they ask silly question "gum/glue" their mouth when they talk too much angry
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by 1stola: 7:18pm On Oct 21, 2014
torhuke:
Omo, it's good to be good but people, not just girls abuse your good disposition towards them.

But girls are worse of. Many of them are roaring bitches going about looking for a guy to wreck and then move on to the next guy.

You see a girl with 20k woman hair on her waterless coconut head and she's using an iPhone 6 yet she is begging guys for money to buy MB in exchange for her nude pix. And some guys fAll for this shit. When the net is full of porn with fresh asses that can make u cum for free without even wanking your self.

Don't be nice to girls, be nice to your GF.

Help a girl once Nd you would be her port of call only when she needs your help again.

And when her friends know that you are nice.... Heheh, be prepared to render thankless community service..... With your cash and material holdings oooo, not your dick.
lol!
chai grin guys dey Nairaland o
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by LaurelP(m): 7:18pm On Oct 21, 2014
destante:
well you said I should call you a chauvinist, yess you are! tongue
your own is too extreme hian. You never allow girls on queue? When you focus on that too much, you end up doing things overtly.
you should know when to be nice and when not.

D problem is dat u ladies have dis entitlement mentality. U beliv dat u shudnt even beg a guy b4 he does wat u want. Its very wrong and I don't buy into it!
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by 1stola: 7:19pm On Oct 21, 2014
MrsBreezy:
I completely agree. If you're too nice they'd start taking you for granted smiley
MrsBRERZY! been supporting guys 1983 grin
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Oct 21, 2014
1stola:

MrsBRERZY! been supporting guys 1983 grin

Haha idc guys are cooler tongue
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by BreezyRita(f): 8:22pm On Oct 21, 2014
I agree with you partially...
Its not one sided ok?? Just as guys are ever ready to help girls over guys like them, same how's for we women.!

We're faster in helping guys than fellow girls. I guess its just the way we saw it. No changes.....

But @ op, you're extreme o! Ordinary queue?? Would you like it if a girl allows you join? Its not ass licking, its being polite!!
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by destante(f): 8:26pm On Oct 21, 2014
LaurelP:


D problem is dat u ladies have dis entitlement mentality. U beliv dat u shudnt even beg a guy b4 he does wat u want. Its very wrong and I don't buy into it!
ladies don't beg? hehe isokay
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Tallesty1(m): 8:39pm On Oct 21, 2014
Women don't respect 'em nice guys.
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Welrez(m): 9:31pm On Oct 21, 2014
I could remember a friend who was overtly polite to a girl. He ended up being made a mumu! This does not mean that we should treat girls coarsely always but giving them free and unrestricted access to everything is vulnerable to abuse. Women abuse nice guys and most women married to nice guys usually end up turning them into houseboys. Some who are shouting 'ordinary queue' here would have quarrelled with a fellow customer in a queue at a bank or the atm over a similar incident.
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Charles4075(m): 9:32pm On Oct 21, 2014
Helping a lady isn't that bad just that some ladies think it's a birthright and compulsory that guys must succumb to whatever they want.. But for me I'll rather help my fellow dude who will definitely appreciate and regard me wella than helping one fake girl. Like I always say, helping a girl is like giving alms to a beggar knowing fully well you won't be paid back or even remember you because of the numerous contributions from various dudes..

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Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by LaurelP(m): 11:41pm On Oct 21, 2014
BreezyRita:
I agree with you partially...
Its not one sided ok?? Just as guys are ever ready to help girls over guys like them, same how's for we women.!

We're faster in helping guys than fellow girls. I guess its just the way we saw it. No changes.....

But @ op, you're extreme o! Ordinary queue?? Would you like it if a girl allows you join? Its not ass licking, its being polite!!

I don't think you've gone for youth service
If u have, u won't say ordinary queue, knowing dat one additional person can make u loose wat u shud ve gotten.
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by passionate88: 12:33am On Oct 22, 2014
LaurelP:
I'm one guy who beleives dat ladies shud not always have their way all d time when it comes to guys. Not dat I hate dem, not at all.
But becos I know wat they can turn guys to when they're left to do wateva they like. I know d impression they have of guys who are too lenient with dem.

I've neva been one to favor a girl over my fellow guy. Call it male chauvinism or wateva u like, I don't care!
I rememba back den during my service in Uyo, when we wud queue up to collect one thing or d oda. A girl will just walk majestically to a guy and ask him to make space for her to enter d queue, and d guys will allow dem. But if a guy does d same, d girls will neva allow dem.

I was known as someone who wud neva allow a girl. Even some guys were looking at me like a wicked guy, and I was surprised. Why shud I do to a girl wat I refuse to do a fellow guy? Is it becos she's got boobs and cunt?

I get very annoyed when I see how some guys stupidly please girls and even beg dem to accept dia kindness! Its stupidity to me.

So my question is shud a guy always please a girl? Cos I don't know if I'm doing d wrong thing by not being a woman pleaser.
You are not doing wrong... Whenever I do such, and the ladies/girls complains... I just tell them that I strongly believe in gender equality...
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by mizzochocinco: 3:00am On Oct 22, 2014
U believe ladies should always maintain composire when dealing with guys no matter what, but you wouldnt want to take your own advice because?
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by NeduLuiZ(m): 6:53am On Oct 22, 2014
destante:
well you said I should call you a chauvinist, yess you are! tongue
your own is too extreme hian. You never allow girls on queue? When you focus on that too much, you end up doing things overtly.
you should know when to be nice and when not.
my dear would u kindly shut the f**k up
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by destante(f): 7:01am On Oct 22, 2014
NeduLuiZ:
my dear would u kindly shut the f**k up
and you are? undecided
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 7:07am On Oct 22, 2014
Some girls need strong hand...dey dnt like kind gestures i guess..dey will feel ur too weak for dem,...dats why am tryn my best to keep a straight face...

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Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 7:16am On Oct 22, 2014
1stola:

lol!
chai grin guys dey Nairaland o
I tell you!
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 7:20am On Oct 22, 2014
Why I go help am?Nah me born am?
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by Nobody: 7:30am On Oct 22, 2014
I think so they should be taking care of @all time but if she got you angry and pissed of you'll just tell her nicely and evrything will be ok
Re: Should Guys Be "Kind" To Girls All The Time? by philantoxx(m): 10:17am On Oct 22, 2014
don't have problem with that,only if the same measure is applied to your fellow guys.

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