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MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Nobody: 7:30pm On Oct 21, 2014
MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage




1.Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in
creating a deep companionship with one’s
spouse and for procreation of the next
generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

2.Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic
development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.

3.The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The
development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond.
Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.

4.Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don’t lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.

5.Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many
venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.

6.Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80%
of today’s infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.

7.The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.

8.Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.

9.Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father’s love, protection and care.

10.If you date and you don’t have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when
you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant
memories will accompany you.

# True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex.

They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all – the love nest of marriage.

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Re: MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by manutdadex(m): 7:37pm On Oct 21, 2014
op is a virgin! Iya iya o! Mummy knw daddy knw everybody knw...i know!!
Re: MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by SpaceGoat: 8:21pm On Oct 21, 2014
manutdadex:
op is a virgin! Iya iya o! Mummy knw daddy knw everybody knw...i know!!
ah! see proffersor shocked ! bruh' nice use of granmmar cool
Re: MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by manutdadex(m): 9:38pm On Oct 21, 2014
SpaceGoat:
ah! see proffersor shocked ! bruh' nice use of granmmar cool
was actually singin a new peom i composd for d op
Re: MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by iceberylin(m): 9:43pm On Oct 21, 2014
RUBBISH
Re: MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by chibwike(m): 9:47pm On Oct 21, 2014
Nice one op..#team marriage b4 sex
Re: MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by PrincessB1(f): 9:52pm On Oct 21, 2014
Nyc write up
Re: MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by podosci(m): 10:12pm On Oct 21, 2014
ultimatetboy:
MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage




1.Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in
creating a deep companionship with one’s
spouse and for procreation of the next
generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

2.Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic
development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.

3.The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The
development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond.
Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.

4.Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don’t lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.

5.Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many
venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.

6.Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80%
of today’s infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.

7.The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.

8.Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.

9.Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father’s love, protection and care.

10.If you date and you don’t have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when
you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant
memories will accompany you.

# True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex.

They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all – the love nest of marriage.

http://www..net/apps/forums/topics/show/13049358-must-read-ten-reasons-why-sex-should-wait-until-marriage
Before i counter your Ridiculously flawed motion let me make sure you would understand the points i am about to make, Have you had any form of sexual experience before, either self service or actual sex?
1. comparing atomic power to mans sexual exploits is ridiculous,,,Nature developed sex has a way of procreation, just has other Animals use sex for procreation, u don't see dogs, cattle, spiders,birds getting married before they procreate , in the course of procreation, man discovered the pleasures of sex and decided to use it more often for pleasure rather than procreate.
2. I am very active sexually and it has never since i started in secondary school affected ma academic performance,,,,i am a graduate of FUT,minna civil engineering faculty and i can boldly tell you sex did not affect me,, the effect of sex on ma academics or physiological state is infinitesimal. On the contrary Sex is natures antidote for anxiety,,once you ejaculate you feel relieved and relaxed.....some doctors even prescribe sex 3 times a week to reduce stress
3 Your statistics is flawed because you didnt provide figures and evidence of research....And your point is Biased towards women, why is it women? what of men?.....Evrybody enjoys sex very fine, married or unmarried ...just for laughs,let me ask you, Did Adam and eve get married before they started procreating?
4. How can virginity be the most important thing you can give to your spouse?....Is a roof to live under not important? Financial and social security? Faithfullines? love?
7. Is sex the only method of contracting AIDS?, because it is the most common and effective dosnt mean you are 100% guaranted to avoid AIDS if you avoid premarital sex......sharing blades, nidles, blood transfusion are other methods
Am tired of typing.....but let me tell you one last thing,,,Too much of everything is bad,,,too much of sleep is bad for the body....

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Re: MUST READ: Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by boneyone(m): 12:19pm On Oct 22, 2014
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