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Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Havilah93(m): 2:04pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
In response to this thread created some days ago https://www.nairaland.com/1561369/guyz-dont-ever-marry-girl 1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you. 2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life. 3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women. 4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way. 5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure. 6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married. 7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage. 8. Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences. 9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care. 10. If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you. http://www.unification.net/tfv/tenreasons.html True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you 342 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by onila(f): 2:49pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
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Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Waspy(m): 3:02pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
^^^^why famzing?? . To the topic, to each one, his/her own. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Kingsley1000(m): 3:25pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
I concur with you especially on[no2]in most school nawadays,students has imbibed the western act of cohabitation,i wonder how one can concentrate battling wìth emotives,is very rampant in mose versities....some has this notion that"sex is a free gift of nature,it's the anchor on which every relationship lies" 4 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by borntobegr8t(m): 3:39pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
See BEEF thread am sure this is wat the ladies wana hear anyways its a free world, " ON TESTING BEFORE MARRIAGE I STAND" Some men will UnCloth their wife on the wedding night and start weeping...cos thats wen they wud realize that wat they married is counterfeit 47 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Nobody: 3:51pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Havilah93 God bless you yanfuyanfu. I promise you ori adiye for xmas Preach it, tell them, I pray they listen 14 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Havilah93(m): 4:01pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
torres2: Havilah93 God bless you yanfuyanfu. I promise you ori adiye for xmas |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by magnusalbertus(m): 4:44pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
born_to_be_gr8t: See BEEF thread am sure this is wat the ladies wana hear anyways its a free world, " ON TESTING BEFORE MARRIAGE I STAND"joker! 5 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Raymondfayowole(m): 4:44pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
I totally agree 100% 5 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by poshpimkiey(f): 4:45pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Virginity is a way of life. It is a choice,a virtue and not lack of opportunity. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by tintingz(m): 4:45pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Well said @ OP, the rate of baby mamas this days and STD patients |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Nuzo1(m): 4:45pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Most people will take exception to no. 3. "Forbidden fruit is Sweetest" 1 Like |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by IamAthens(m): 4:46pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Say no to KOLOMBI. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by phlame(m): 4:46pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Abeg who get condom? 8 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by tigonana: 4:47pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Chai nd I don pieces puna orisirisi hpe dis no be trouble. 1 Like |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by OmniSparrow: 4:48pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Gals don't even want to wait but taste bulala before marriage. no one wants to marry and meet a 2 inch prick. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Wishing all singles out there a sexless christmas and beyond! 5 Likes
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Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by babadey(m): 4:49pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Nice one. I will create my own soon, - 'why everybody should not have sex at all' 4 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by moscobabs(m): 4:49pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
How many times this topic want make front-page this year? 1 Like |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by alizenbohr: 4:49pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Although this kind of message is not popular & widely accepted by many young people nowadays, it holds the truth that will set many free & help secure a fulfilling destiny without haunting regrets. Pre-marital sex (in all forms) still remains one of the greatest hindrances to a glorious future & by God's grace, I won't be side-tracked from my purpose in life. ...So help me God. 59 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Guykhena(m): 4:50pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Beginning time tinz 3 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by erico2k2(m): 4:50pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
At OP How does this apply to non religious people? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Nobody: 4:50pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Rubbish!!!!!!!!!!!! lyk say u wh post m be virgin 2 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Afrok(m): 4:51pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Nairaland's 22nd rule of posting: To every thread on Nairaland, there must be an equal and opposite thread. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Temismith(f): 4:52pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Guykhena(m): 4:52pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Beginning times tinz |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by alaoeri: 4:52pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Op you are on your own (O.Y.O) |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by GentleFrank(m): 4:52pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Good ! |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by ArQueBusieR(m): 4:52pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Havilah93: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by Aromas: 4:52pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
phlame: Abeg who get condom? Ijowo gan loma to gbon igba t'je pe won gbe oyun e gun fency osheni sosokuso 4 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by joshuaidibia(m): 4:53pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
i prefer d thread. " reasons why guys shoudn't wait till after marriage before sex" Dis OP must be a grl. posing as a male. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage by onila(f): 4:53pm On Dec 21, 2013 |
Teamvirgin# 26 Likes |
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