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Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by bukatyne(f): 6:41pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
Kimoni: Wonderful analysis 1 Like |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by skydeep(f): 7:01pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
bukatyne:Affirmative. Erm...it all depends on your understanding of " career woman" |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Kimoni: 7:13pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
bukatyne: Tnx |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by lawrenceunaa: 7:20pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
These are some of the reasons men want house wives |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by duni04(m): 7:21pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
Nope. Its one or the other, its always a choice. |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by biafranqueen: 7:26pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
Question: Does Today's Woman Have The Energy, Flexibility And Tools To Keep A Career And Family Equally Successful. My Answer: Before you and you Spouse marry this should be a topic of discussion. My husband and I discussed it the first month we met. |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by jennygovy(f): 7:27pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
nomabeeee:word! 2 Likes |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
zeb04:carrier women indeed...they are different. |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by morbid: 7:31pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
4where |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Truckpusher(m): 7:37pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
Yes, but not these ones in NL. Yes I said it. 1 Like |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
I was thinking the question to be pondered on should be what type of job is safe and healthy for the married women? 2 Likes |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by sekzy99(m): 7:43pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
i need a job onboard a ship, studied marine engineering. Have my stcw 95,medical n discharge book ready. Momlilyseyi@gmail.com or 08023373302Thanks |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Acidosis(m): 7:44pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
chaircover:Nice 1 Like |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by zeb04(f): 7:45pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
kuderrich:what the hell is that |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by xynerise: 7:50pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
This is where gender equality should be accepted. |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by pembisco(m): 7:52pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
stuuupiid ladies here claiming gender equality. ..that a woman shouldn't quit her job to have time for her family. later the same shiiity ladies will start claiming the weaker sex and need special treatment. I'm disappointed in some of you here, western life has curupt your mind, you've lost your real African upbringing. imagine a doctor husband and wife as a banker, you mean the husband can't tell her to quit just to have time for the kids? nonsense |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by xynerise: 7:57pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
pembisco:Bros, take a chill pill biko 5 Likes |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by goke4all(m): 8:00pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
This topic needs to be dimensioned properly. What is the nature of the job and the benefit accrued from it. What living standard do you both want for your kids and the family. Is it all about luxury and status for you and what bring you both fulfilment in life. Personally, I don't support a sit at home wife but not a Lagos wife that leaves by 5.30am and return by 10pm. The role of the father cannot be equated with that of the woman if we want to be realistic and follow law of nature. My wife and I presently did a scientific analysis to take this decision. Once you two understand each other, a scientific analysis will solve this challenge. 1 Like |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by darlenese(f): 8:01pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
The truth is that u can't be a Career woman run ur family successfully, who takes care of ur kids when u leave home early and return late? Does ur hubby n kids get the attention that they require of u? Can u sincerely say u are training of kids wen it's an house help that takes care of them frm dawn till dusk, 1 Like |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by pembisco(m): 8:05pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
xynerise:there comments de vex me aswear, most comments from the ladies depicts àrrogance and such ladies hardly make a good home. peak of your carrier ko, continue searching for vanity while your home is collapsing gradually and before you know it, your hubby has found someone to keep busy since you claim you don't have time. 1 Like |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
pembisco: There are many housewives whose husbands still cheat on so busy spouse or not a cheat is a cheat 10 Likes |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by sarutobie(m): 8:15pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
I look at my mum, and I say a big YES! 4 Likes |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by aderonila18: 8:21pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
Many of our mothers did it so why not 1 Like |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Lilimax(f): 8:23pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
nomabeeee:Correct! I didn't pick certain job simply because it'll affect my home front negatively I told myself the truth from day one... 1 Like |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Bibol(f): 8:24pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
As much as I support a woman achieving her goals in life after graduating from school, common sense has to be applied. There is a time for everything. I believe that when your kids are still very young, they need you around them. Kids need both parents but in reality, both of them can't be present all the time considering the current economy of this country. If it means taking up a less demanding job till they become teens, I feel its still okay. Not every woman has the flair or passion for business and not everyone can be a sit-at-home mom. A less demanding job can solve the problem for her to be able to effectively manage her time. This also doesn't stop the man from being available whenever he can. At least, let him try his best too because it's all for the betterment of his family. Whether we like it or not, women are expected to make certain sacrifices and that's just the bitter truth but it will pay off eventually when your kids grow up and they turn out to be well-behaved. You can't leave it all in the hands of house helps. Certain jobs may not give you that luxury of time and may require you to travel a lot. That said, as they grow older and become independent, she can begin to pursue her dreams and aim higher. Nothing stops her from doing that as long as she has a supportive husband. It all boils down to wisdom, time management, understanding and proper planning for the future. That is why before a lady gets married, she should have a definite short term and long term goal for her life, and not leave things to chance. My opinion though 2 Likes |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by sarutobie(m): 8:26pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
Bibol:an opinion well received. |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Timijo(m): 8:26pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
If they really want to have happy families, they can have. But nollywood women are not good examples. |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by daey118(m): 8:32pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
skydeep:Okay. So we men know about career women. But no vex o .I just wan ask ni. Which one is "busy" woman again baayi? Abi isit noh work all of them dey work ? O_o 2 Likes |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by nebukadnezzari(m): 8:35pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
MOST CAREER WOMEN I KNOW GIVE BIRTH TO MORALLY bleeped UP KIDS WHY?BECAUSE THEY WERE BUSY BUILDING SOMEONES DREAM AT THE EXPENCE OF THEIR HOME. 1 Like |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Gadgetmobil(m): 8:38pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
OK |
Re: Can Today's Women Have Successful Careers And Happy Families? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
skydeep:Yes I support the woman's decision to file for a divorce. It is a two way street yknow bringing joy back into family. So she should be a house wife devoid of any ambition but child rearing and watching her man come home late Rom work every day having passed by some cheap hoes thighs spending all he has on bringing joy into other women's bank account. Heck no. Women can li r happy live with a good career a good husband and a good family. I know so cos my wife works and she is ambitious and our kids love her well. This story are for African women who live under the stereotype umbrella that they are not created whole but cut from Adam therefore they must assume the position 6 Likes 1 Share |
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