oyihou:
you said runs girls are settled?

quite a number of them are. They know most of the tricks of the game. Many are also high society ladies with a lot of clout where money or power are concerned [not all though].

My tribe use to say that "Money gotten from prostitution , arm robbery, fruadulent means, e.t.c is like WIND.

true, money has wings.

Whether you like it or not.
Time will surely tell.

also true.

You must reap what you have sow.
That is the law of life.

true, however, there is no supply without demand, so the blame should not be one sided.

itstpia1:



Is he chinese?

Korean

andromida:
How do i make sure my man never cheats on me?

Learn how to please your man.

Men like good food and sex. Find out his best position. Play with him in the car, act crazy, dress skimpy inside the house. Get some humor. Men like humor filled ladies. Stop seeking only your own happiness. When you make him happy, he will go all length to make you happy, one of which is never cheating on you.

Nice counter thread I must say, but d problem we might av wit u z dat urs is not based on experience, we can google our problems but we need some1 2 share his or experiences wit us,so dat exactly is d problem we might av here"we need first hand information"

itstpia1:


first of all, a seductress' intention is for short term se.xual favours, not anything solid like making sure the men or man never cheat/s. (Just like the womanizer).

The seductress already knows he will cheat- her whole premise is based on this fact, else she'd be out of business. Long term sex commitment from the man is not necessarily the goal, something else is.

but as per your question, it is almost impossible to prevent a man from cheating, some women do try to, with assorted vegetables, but ultimately, its extremely hard to guarantee any man can overcome that adamic nature.

so, i'd say barring the veggie route, its only spiritual waxing which can touch a man. Meaning prayer.

even then, always allow yourself to be aware it is a weakness. never say you're too beautiful to be cheated on. Or too busty, booty, etc.

Thanks for this.

itstpia1:

google is a useful tool in that respect, will see what i can find without trotting the thread to sexuality section.

O.k

romanticandy:

It is about competition dear. Be competitive simple. Just keep maintaining ya appearance as well as you were when he fell in love. You keep fit,young and beautiful adding colour and style to ya dress sense,behavior and words

Ok i already do this for me so i am on track

100Cents:

Learn how to please your man.
Men like good food and sex. Find out his best position. Play with him in the car, act crazy, dress skimpy inside the house. Get some humor. Men like humor filled ladies. Stop seeking only your own happiness. When you make him happy, he will go all length to make you happy, one of which is never cheating on you.

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So his making me happy is be based on my performance.

andromida:


Ok i already do this for me so i am on track

.

So his making me happy is be based on my performance.

So his cheating on you is based on your performance ?

100Cents:


So his cheating on you is based on your performance ?

I wouldn't know what his cheating may be based on if he doesn't care to tell me BUT if i have to perform like a porn star/chef/whatever suits his fancy then its ok if he moves on from me that's if i haven't moved on already.

So what is it about a woman or women that seduces you?

andromida:


I wouldn't know what his cheating may be based on if he doesn't care to tell me BUT if i have to perform like a porn star/chef/whatever suits his fancy then its ok if he moves on from me that's if i haven't moved on already.

So what is it about a woman or women that seduces you?

My earlier description is according to topic, how a lady should please her husband and for you who doesn't want being cheated on. If you won't flirt with your husband or do him chef, pls let other ladies do it for you.

Most guys view ladies as selfish. So any lady who breaks the norm to buy gifts for her guy is viewed positively, little gifts like cooked food, boxers, singlets and stuffs like that..

Any lady who is intelligent enough to respond to text messages, chats and return missed calls. Any lady who is not given to so much demands(all about herself).

Any lady who doesn't sit back and wait for her guy to serve her at home, food, dishes etc.

Any lady who isn't lazy, unkempt, selfish and egotistic.

Any lady who displays a sound level of understanding and tolerance.

Interesting

andromida:



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So his making me happy is be based on my performance.

lol

100Cents:


So his cheating on you is based on your performance ?

lol

dwilliams:
Nice counter thread I must say, but d problem we might av wit u z dat urs is not based on experience, we can google our problems but we need some1 2 share his or experiences wit us,so dat exactly is d problem we might av here"we need first hand information"

true, iroyin o to afojuba as they say, but nevertheless, we are learners from everyone's experiences.


having said that, nairaland stories are most times hearsay passed across as the real thing?



"this happened to my friend", "i was the one who i am talking about", etc etc,

urcutecrush:

Korean

had to use google for this one:


http://www.atesk.org/adventures97/dating.html


if you are black, its an uphill task though.

andromida:


Thanks for this.

you're welcome.

andromida:






O.k

there's a lot of info about it on the web, basically, its a manual on different sex styles.

it has a faint similarity to the pompeii art, imo.

Make I spread mat try learn...

itstpia1:



had to use google for this one:


http://www.atesk.org/adventures97/dating.html


if you are black, its an uphill task though.

Dont u think I should change my colour to white?

How do you do that?

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Op Why do some ladies cry and scream during sex and the moment you try pulling out because you hate to see them cry ,yet they grab you down with a strong 'no' and a warning not to pull out again?

Abubakarmz:
Hi members, I hope you are okay with gentle smiles on your beautiful faces. I am happy to see see our united blessed members. I see everyone is good enough. Thereby, I confidently opened a chat group on whatsapp for the interested users. But the group is for adult only ranging from 18-20 years old. If you are interested, kindly add me +2347063536752. Thanks

Pervert...

Truckpusher:
Op Why do some ladies cry and scream during sex and the moment you try pulling out because you hate to see them cry ,yet they grab you down with a strong 'no' and a warning not to pull out again?

mr truckpusher, I see your girlfriend hasn't been cooperating with you. (change to singular or plural as necessary)


you can call her bluff and ignore her warning not to pull out again.



don't encourage your ladies to toy with your emotions like that, unless you sef dey enjoy it.

urcutecrush:
How can i make my crush lee min ho to fall in luv with me.help a sister pls

. Hahahahhahaha! Ds got me laffing real good. Take a number sister! The only way is to become a Korean from da South! It's just a crush, it wl pass.

I have questions itstpia. I think someone asked RedEboe same on his thread.
1.Why did you retire from the art or science of seduction?
2. Is seduction an art or science?
3. How many men did you have sexual relations with before you retired?
4. How much do you feel is your due pension?
5. If given another chance, Will you be a seductress?
6. Which of the STDS or STIS did you contact?
7. Which of them is still there?
8. Do you have HIV?
9. What are your plans for the future as a retired seductress?
Your answers are appreciated.

^my answers would probably be the same as RedEboe's own, but wbb

One funny thing about this whole issue is how complex, interesting, strange and sometimes dangerous romance and relationship can be. I believe that a lot of ppl need to have exposure in relationship before they go into marriage. One major area that guys in particular over look is the importance of bedmatics to women although they don't admit it openly because of the society we are in. How many guys and even women know elementary sexual parts of a woman. How many know where the G spot is, where the skene gland is, where even the cliit is? I am not advocating for promiscuity but as a lawyer I ve seen so many divorce matters instituted by women and underneath everything you get to find out that unsatisfactory relationship in the bedroom ruined a once beautiful amarriage. Thanks Tpia for this lovely thread.

By the way its lovely that NL juveniles ve not invaded your thread to tongue lash u for daring to ve the appellation "retired seductress" LOL.

Rock212:
One funny thing about this whole issue is how complex, interesting, strange and sometimes dangerous romance and relationship can be. I believe that a lot of ppl need to have exposure in relationship before they go into marriage. One major area that guys in particular over look is the importance of bedmatics to women although they don't admit it openly because of the society we are in. How many guys and even women know elementary sexual parts of a woman. How many know where the G spot is, where the skene gland is, where even the cliit is? I am not advocating for promiscuity but as a lawyer I ve seen so many divorce matters instituted by women and underneath. Everything you get to find out that unsatisfactory relationship in the bedroom ruined a once beautiful amarriage. Thanks Tpia for this lovely thread.

Please, educate them on it. Some of them are one-minute man, unnecessarily hard on us, a few of them shy aware from the "action" maybe because of dysfunctional election and some just a little romance and they are pouring already..... . And why unearth do they sleep off after the "action" ? These and many more questions are yet to be answered.

Givemejoy:
dysfunctional election

Vivly:
I have questions itstpia. I think someone asked RedEboe same on his thread.
1.Why did you retire from the art or science of seduction?
2. Is seduction an art or science?
3. How many men did you have sexual relations with before you retired?
4. How much do you feel is your due pension?
5. If given another chance, Will you be a seductress?
6. Which of the STDS or STIS did you contact?
7. Which of them is still there?
8. Do you have HIV?
9. What are your plans for the future as a retired seductress?
Your answers are appreciated.

my answers are the same as RedEboe's.

age, seduction is either an art or a science only if you expressly set out to make it so, number of men-I'll take poetic license on that, question 4 is unclear, number 5-not a career goal for me, (6 and 7) which? , its my understanding HIV is not feared by most people who engage in casual sex, so ebola is really the question nowadays, i think the plans of any retired seductress would depend on what she wants, for some it could be career, for others, husband, settling down, change of habit, etc.


thats it in a nutshell.