Mortiano:
my girlfriend claimed to love me but always run to her ex each time i rebuked her or try to correct her. Note: both guys separated of religious grounds. i'm kind of worried, because it is not meant to be so, there is no perfect relationship, alas, will she continue to seek asylum to him. she will tell me each time we quarrel, she will feel like going back to him. This is a guy she knows to well that they arent going to end up together. Recently she said, the guy want her back, but she wont leave me because the guy havent change on the religious ground, so my problem is what do this girl take me for, does she actually love me the way she claims. i love her but i dnt really want to be backup plan and i want to settle with her but she is putting up this childish act. please Nlers, whats your take on this

Hi Dear

I hate to be the harbinger of such news but then it is what it is:

You Sir, are actually a backup plan.
She's unconsciously making you go through emotional abuse.

She didn't separate from her ex as a matter of choice, and it is clear, how attached they are to eachother.

If you don't bear the brunt and let her go now, chances are that you will cry; "Had I known" in future.

If your measure of love for her can withstand the serial heartbreaks and disappointments to come, then, by all means, please stay put!

If not, BackOut and BeGone from her life.

You are someone's miracle.
You'll meet someone else, who'll love you for YOU.
#Hope
#Believe