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Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by pansophist(m): 5:33pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Godmother: At the bolded, I do the same thing when I cook stew too. Anything wrong with that? it taste good and saves time pounding pepper bulbs. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by dacoolvik: 5:34pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
@op, this topic is so on point. I have always supported this. By God's grace, my daughters will learn to wash cars, change tyre and do boyish things. My son will also sweep, wash and cook. All this knowledge will definitely come in handy later in life. It irritates me when guys look for girlfriends just for the purpose of doing domestic chores. Girls should also learn to change bulbs start generators e.t.c 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Godfullsam(m): 5:35pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
I grew up among five sisters and i happened to be one of the youngest . Back then, if i am not in kitchen while my elder sisters were cooking i am in trouble. They will say who is ur child that will cook for yyou ... Today, the experience is a great advantage for me because i can handle any domestic works including cooking. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by danbrowndmf(m): 5:35pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[quote author=Kachisbarbie post=27563433]It's very important...its importance can't be over-emphasised I wouldn't blame our parents much - they were brought up in an era where (it was a wont that) women were naturally associated with the kitchen(housework) and men with hustle(bread-winning) ___Women were expected to be very servile to the man having little/no major plans of her own...now it's a modern age and they(parents : some of them) had a way of imparting this in us(the younger generation). I think it's now left to us, to make sure our sons, don't adopt such attitude. Nothing beats a man who comes in handy _financially/s xually/educationally and in the kitchen too ___while we were growing -I didn't know how to wash beans/bitterleaf properly but my elder bro was an expert...lol... to mention a few. [/quote] which kin signature b dis naw.na stilll d same tin jare.u jus wan gv "WE" broke Guys hope. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by kandiikane(m): 5:36pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
gidjah: Haha, you should at least go out with your sweetie once in the blue moon na. Dress up, look cute, fine dining tings. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Blackridge(f): 5:36pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
I believe a child should have balanced training. While a male child should be domestic, a female child should know certain things about a car and electrical appliances |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by GlorifiedTunde(m): 5:36pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
cosmos4242: CHAI! |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 5:36pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
I advise every male child out there to learn domestic chores. I am presently in a situation that I cant even make a coffee for myself at the moment, not because I dont want to, but because I am very lazy when it comes to domestic chores. I regret not learning. Its not all the time a man should ask for assistance, some times a man needs a moment alone yet this laziness pushes the Jezebels into their dreams and fantasies at my expense. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Williamso(m): 5:39pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by kandiikane(m): 5:39pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Godmother:A problem? is it that you don't eat peppery stew and like having the option of choosing when to eat your pepper or is it that the whole concept of ground pepper in stew feels weird to you? |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by GlorifiedTunde(m): 5:39pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Blackridge: That's why I love my girl like mad. If you turn to a truck she'll drive you. I had to caution her not to change spare tyre anymore, that any man around will help her do it. She even jump starts a car |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Muzikluva(m): 5:45pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
nomabeeee:I absolutely concur to this...some people do call me "olo wo sibi" in yoruba,lol.Ladies respect a man who can readily take care of himself and others. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Wisegeek01(m): 5:49pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
tpia6: If you calculate the money wey you go take chop for Buka for one Year, you go take am build houz for Villa . .. If a man can't boil common Hot Water Omo Im own don finish ni* beecos d Kain Shakara wey Im wife go do for am E go regret why dem even born am sef* *sips Alomo* Choi !! "omo dis Tin strong die" |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 5:49pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
I agree with you 100%..its so annoying when my younger brother keeps picking my faults and in the name of boy he balances like a spoilt brat I won't train my son's like that..thats why some men have taken we female as slave |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by danbrowndmf(m): 5:55pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[quote author=optimistcandyboy post=28194253]my sisters do the kitchen jobs, me...i put on the generator, plug the electronics and service my babe on a regular basis [/quote] wallai u gah me laughn so hard,ur a mad man wallai. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Adamsdelrio(m): 5:55pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
I'm the 1st of four boys and my mother really taught us a lot about doing almost all domestic chores. We learnt not to depend on our mother to labour herself on some chores we could assist her with. Sometimes, I and my brother shared and rotated the work among ourselves and we really enjoyed competing with one another. Grooming a male child domestically will not only benefit his parents but also his prospective family. Girls are not born with special abilities to do these things. They are taught to do it. Boys too can learn to do them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by zyzxx(m): 5:56pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
It left for the mothers. And there is time for everything. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by milkytea(f): 5:56pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
YourCoffin: I guess you have never heard of male chefs. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by iamord(m): 6:01pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
It sounds alien to me cos of how I was brought up. Well with a family filled with boys as the majority its bad to leave the work for the girls. My dad was even a good cook and u dare not be in your room or living Room when he is cooking. This has shaped me. where by I don't need a woman to cook for me or go to an eatery before I eat a good meal. And that's how is suppose to be. now there seems to be a shift. Its like girls do less or nothing while guys do more chores. Can't tolerate that!!! |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by iamord(m): 6:03pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
milkytea: They are even better than the women |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 6:04pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Krisddon: Your first comment made as much sense as your second one |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by iamord(m): 6:07pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
exthar87: Its good to train your son to do chores. But don't let it be one sided. A guy is always adventurous. If because your parents did it this way to u. And u do it the otherr way round to him. U could bring up a monster. just make him have that feel that he is suppose to do it. But don't over do things. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by danbrowndmf(m): 6:13pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
I School in NAIRALAND men dnt cook here. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 6:16pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Do whatever you want with you children, they are yours, stop worrying about others and things you can't control, in fact if you want don't teach anything to your girl ooo in revenge of what you went through, I only hope when people realize she's not a marriage material, you won't curse her or start prayer sessions |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 6:17pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
iamord: Why would I do one sided Do u want my daughter to become a barbie doll |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
danbrowndmf: you no like am? 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by YourCoffin: 6:19pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
milkytea: Yep, because it's fetching him money. When money is involved, they would be extremely creative in the kitchen just like me. No money, no sweat- their mantra. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by danbrowndmf(m): 6:22pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:some how.buh 50% of Rich guys dnt value ladies dy meet wen dy are already made. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 6:23pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Blackridge: I prefer to change four car tyres than to touch an open electrical socket with a 'tester' or whatever.... Chai, I hate anything electrical. Not like I have ever been shocked o, but I just don't like it. 2 Likes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by holatin(m): 6:49pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Dis is a post of a frustated gurl dat do all house chore while d guy play ball. Tell me who need it more even as a guy, a gurl dat gonna match me in house chores and cooking go learn from a gene. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Emmalot121(m): 6:51pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
nomabeeee:Why are people still dragging this irrelivant issue in 21st century? I heard this story when I was a day old, xx yrs after, the story is still repeated as if its never being heard. Let me educate you, if a boy is domestically inclined, that doesn't mean he's gonna help his wife(ves) in kitchen. Far from it! Helping in kitchen is a thing of choice, a person who has never being in kitchen can still help his wife(ves). Knowing how to cook and do house chores only makes you independent of female gender. The best cooks in the world are male, if they weren't thought to cook, who did? Enough of trying to make men look sober over matters that do not exist. There are a lot of spoilt women out there who cannot cook and do house chores, if there are differences btw number of males that can cook and do house chores, it can only be marginal. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 6:56pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Girls want to be treated equally , don't be surprised when men start asking to make fighting with girls a normal thing 1 Like |
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