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Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Alfred234(m): 8:13pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
i think its a good tin for a male child to be domestically inclined, maybe its because my mom doesn't have a female child datz why she taught me and my brother how to do house chores but am glad she did. i luv doing house chores i luv cooking its fun but i hate washing of clothes because if my hands stay in water for too long i get this weird pains on my fingers dunno why sha but apart from dat i enjoy other house chores. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 8:27pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
tpia6: You'll also hire someone to sweep your selfcontained room and wash ur cloths. You think domestic work is just cooking. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 8:28pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
iamord:well I don't want my daughter to look up to that kind I think that babe is from a royal lineage |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by jevic(m): 8:34pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
T's a good thing for the male child to know how to do house chores and also learn how to cook. Maka echi. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by ogtavia(m): 8:35pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
nomabeeee: I have four sisters and no brother,so obviously,one would expect dt I wud do no real domestic work...how wrong,growing up,my mother made sure I was in d kitchen helping out each time dere was work,I did everything my sisters did,infact time came,when we had to make rosters for chores,I swept,mopped,cleaned,washed,cooked,cut,grinded,all kinds of jobs,however,one chore I hated so much and begged to be exempted from was sweeping,infact,I preferred washing plate and cutting d lawn arnd our house to sweet..I was,lemme say..sweepophobic...lol...I didn't rily get it @ first,my mom was always on my neck,she wanted me to do everything...I thot she hated me,one day,I asked her why she was always on my neck,she said,I want u to grow up to be a responsible man,I didn't get it,but looking back at it now,I honestly appreciate d discipline more,...so,yes,d male gender shud be groomed to be domestically inclined,makes him respect and appreciate women more....I draw boundaries to what my sisters do today,I dnt let them lift heavy things if I am there,I dnt let them pound,I neva let dem pull d gen those days we had gen dt start by pulling,I dnt let them walk long distances or take cabs if I can help it,if it fits into my routine/time,I drop them off and pick them up,look,I am nt hear to blow my trumpet,nt all....I am only highlighting au my mum trained me and au it made me see d women folk in a new light(at least d deserving ones nt d ones who give d female gender a bad name) ; to be loved,cared for,respected,treated with gentleness,softness,dignity and above all,never to be mistreated in a way..call me a chauvinist or accuse me of chivalry...dts ur own bottle of coke. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by oshaosha2014(m): 8:39pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
if it is not a way of thinking that aligns with the western world it is deemed "wrong mentality." You are losing your identify gradually. And when you are fully lost you will have no history about yourself. It is the west that will start writing ur history for you. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Fourwinds: 8:54pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
YourCoffin:so u think is not tiring for women too rite. if u know it is tiring den learn to appreciate women in dis regard . I'm a man., I do all dis things with ease. u say men are not organise in dis respect. I put it to u dat some men are well organise using myself as a reference point. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by MrHighSea: 9:06pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Just dnt lyk d kitchen, bt IT MUST ALWAYS B CLEAN. Cn kuk for myself grudgingly. Buka dy, notin dy hapen. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by YourCoffin: 9:11pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Fourwinds: Okay! Woman no dey cook for me. So which woman you wan make I appreciate? |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by YourCoffin: 9:14pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Mushood: Second gbosa for them! 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 9:39pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Both male and female children should be domestically inclined, imagine dating a guy whose house is always dirty, whose toilet is brown and you can't even remove your shoes in his house. I intend to train all my children same way, cleaning and cooking won't be gender specific. Imagine cooking with your husband, it will be fun, I remember when my sister travelled sometime for about few weeks, when she returned, the only thing her son was saying was meatpie, he even knew the road to the eatery, 2 year old boy fa 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by homesteady(m): 9:42pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
gidjah: at bolded - 15 years without eating in a restaurant I'm not trying to call you a liar, but I don't think it's possible! Dont you travel? do you cook all the food you'll eat before you travel? don't you treat yourself specially sometimes like going to any top eatery? When you are with your pals, and you guys are hungry, do you normally run home to cook for all of them? restaurants are very essential in life, eating there is not bad! |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by gidjah(m): 9:42pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
deennest:was in lag in 99,and i noticed wot u said.but i am in f c t now 4ova 9yrs nw n stil countin my no eatin outside thing even though e didnt easy o! |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by gidjah(m): 9:44pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
laykorn:na so god create me bros |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by stinggy(m): 9:47pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
CoCoLav:Help his wife cook in the kitchen while his mates her in the bar He can only help on sundays, and should be just to taste the salt Cook for himself? When there are many eateries Just stop it pls! The lessons. It's okay where it is now. It won't be nice to take it further... |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by CoCoLav(f): 9:51pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
stinggy: The males in my family are very good cooks, I won't allow him to be an exception. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by gidjah(m): 9:55pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
homesteady:i neva said it is bad pls,just trying to point out how it has helped me.i am not d traveling typ and even though if i do ,i do not eat,i spent 5yrs in d college without eating outside no be joke o!take it or leave it.d last time i travelled,i actually cooked 4d journey!i know lots of terrible people wont believe this! But its just d truth |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by vision2050: 9:58pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
concoction rice and the likes is enough for me no time |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Daresh(f): 10:02pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Thats why I love my parents. It's as an adult I realised men think they should not work. Everybody dey cook for our house. Wash plates, wash toilet scrub floor, wash car, change bulb. No man and woman work, all na the same. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by homesteady(m): 10:03pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
are there boys who are not domestically inclined? from what I've read here, the bone of contention is about cooking! is cooking the only domestic work in the house? so if there are 5 children in the family, all of them should be taking turns on when to assist the mother in the kitchen or all of them should be in kitchen while the mom is cooking? I believe that in every African home, there are assigned domestic works for every child, except some very rich ones who have maids to attend to every work! boys - sweeping the compound, washing and ironing his father's cloth and maybe his junior ones cloth, washing car, running errands, e.t.c girls - COOKING, washing plates, sometimes sweeping the main house, washing her mother's clothes and some minor things like napkin! in fact, most of this works are given based on seniority, you don't expect the 1st born to be sweeping and the last born watching! |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by am0s(m): 10:13pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
eleojo23:no... buh dey r free to learn |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by peterjero(m): 10:16pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
YourCoffin:You jus nailed it Bro, I can cook, wash everybody clothes, mop floor, wash motor but men na only motor matter and work for money now concern me o, na mama BBC be my friend na for bole and fish. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by homesteady(m): 10:20pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
gidjah: I'm sorry to say this, it has not helped you at all! Instead you are suffering! Restaurants are not only for people who don't want cook, it is also for people to taste different kinds of food! Variety is the spice of life! So for 5years you stayed in college, you never ate outside? you never ate things like fried rice, moin moin, and some special foods that students don't normally make? 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by kajoula(m): 10:26pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
nomabeeee: U tok well my sister....God go multiply u. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Emmalot121(m): 10:35pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
homesteady:You are right. There are so many chores no matter how simple that my sisters detest doing e.g switching on the generator. Some years ago when cutting of weeds, fetching of water was part of the chores, I did the most cos it was manly. My dad still cuts bushes around our house, even after mom said it was not to someone of his status. See, nature has given us our duties and that's what laid the foundation of Ile-Ife. Its left to us to carry out our duties diligently. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by fdy11: 10:36pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
kreamidiva:nor mind am na initial gra gra. Wen hungerr beat am,him go learn ow to cook |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by hensben(m): 10:41pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
i can cook anything food.. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by gabicon: 11:11pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
i am an only son and my parents stressed the importance for all their children being able to take care of themselves anywhere anytime and not depend on anyone. i drive to the market to buy food, i cook my meals,do the dishes, clean my house etc. i would definitely teach my kids to be self dependent it saves money and it brings prestige. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 11:26pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
All this useless femnists won't cease to amaze me their annoying posts. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 12:03am On Nov 21, 2014 |
GoodFaith:Make we see your chinese tru religon and carrier glasses please |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Godmother(f): 12:59am On Nov 21, 2014 |
kandiikane: I meant to say my brother adds dry pepper to his stew, aside the reugular pepper you blend with your tomatoes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by KLand(m): 1:03am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Both boys and girls should be involved in domestic chores. PS: if it is a family were boys do the farm work, then d girls can shoulder the chores alone. |
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