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Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Richy4(m): 2:00am On Oct 30, 2014 |
i started cooking when i was 12. when one is in the dormitory, to eat school food is super challenging especially if you are from the Eastern part and find yourself at the North. one got to eat you know. smuggle stoves into the dorm rooms, cook in doors and spray air fresheners. I could count how many times i ate school food.... Me and my friends hardly go to the dinning. that made me a good cook till date. Good old days. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by tpia6: 2:09am On Oct 30, 2014 |
sounds like your school was lax. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by 2legit2qwt: 2:54am On Oct 30, 2014 |
About time! Not cooking means i'll end up being broke faster I learned to cook as a kid but youtube has been a lifesaver. Anyone who thinks the kitchen is for the woman alone is in for a surprise.. Times have changed and the current climate is all about the survival of the fittest. Cooking skills are right now as valuable as money making skills and having a woman who can cook is a bonus 7 Likes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by cococandy(f): 3:50am On Oct 30, 2014 |
Crackhaus greetings |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by tpia6: 4:11am On Oct 30, 2014 |
is the thread for greeting crackhouse? 3 Likes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by tpia6: 4:11am On Oct 30, 2014 |
2legit2qwt: good for you, doesnt have to be the exact same for everybody else. 2 Likes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by hydeka: 5:53am On Oct 30, 2014 |
Op, I agree. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by YourCoffin: 8:50am On Oct 30, 2014 |
smartmom: Same way women naturally want to live in well-built homes but would prefer not to lift a finger when building it. Some systems aren't built for certain activities. Bukatyne, my aim isn't to make excuses for men. I'm only stating how their system works. If I can be able to cook my meal myself, believe me I'm hundred times better off. My mum made sure of that but somehow my nature doesn't allow it. 4 Likes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by tmosco(m): 9:03am On Oct 30, 2014 |
Most guys knows hw 2 cook bt just chose not 2.talking of boys I agree dey shud learn hw to cook and d girls should learn hw to wash cars and turn on d gen,4 does like me dat av bushes in my house dey can learn hw to cut grass.No more differential housework for kids. 3 Likes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 9:58am On Oct 30, 2014 |
hydeka:start bashing women and it will definitely make FP like every other thread 2 Likes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by bukatyne(f): 11:17am On Oct 30, 2014 |
YourCoffin: You can't say for 'all' men |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by smartmom(f): 11:36am On Oct 30, 2014 |
tmosco: I grew up being an only girl for a long time. I learnt how to put on gens, change car tires and change bulbs and a few 'electrical stuff' so see nothing special about that. My brothers all know how to cook and we shared housework equally too. My sons will toe thesame line. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by tpia6: 11:56am On Oct 30, 2014 |
Whether they tow or not, e no concern me. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by crackhaus: 12:56pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
cococandy:Hi Coco How are ya? 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by nomabeeee(f): 8:36pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
YourCoffin:I dnt quite angree with u..any man who learnt how to do domestic chores frm childhood would get used to it and also won't forget it neither will he get tired of It..except he has a busy job that won't allow him do it or a wife.meanwhile i talked about teaching a boy child not forcing..they are two diFferent things..when you teach,there is joy but when you force..you alrdy know the result..thanks 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 4:52pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[size=50pt]YES![/size] 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by tintingz(m): 4:55pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
When i was a little man I do house chores, wash plates and grind pepper. Chai... Mama Nuru(RIP) |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
no they should be given rubber and start singing about .don't take it personal |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by millionboi(m): 4:56pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Is nt necessary as far as he is hardworkin in his chosen carrer. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 4:56pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
A smart person could always figure these out later in life if need be. But if you kill your children's potential by locking them in some stupid kitchen, et cetera, then O.Y.O. 2 Likes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 4:57pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Don't let these homies you see on here decieve you, I can cook better than any female I've met ... From the white soup-to egusi to panga .... The only stuff I can't do is all these instagram food Wey no dey get beta taste and e no dey belleful person. 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by CoCoLav(f): 4:57pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Of course!. The first time I asked my brother to help me pound crayfish, he gave me this disgusted look like 'am I a girl'. By the time I finished with him ehn, now he will come by himself to ask me if there's anything I will like him to do. He is now a pro at pounding afang. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 4:58pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
nomabeeee: your opinion doesnt count |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
gidjah:Mr Mike,I'm sorry but it seems like you've got girl hormones in you. You talk like one. Ayamlaykorn |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Well mine was a bit of a twist. My mother loved to cook a lot and her family members knows her for good cooking skills. One of my friends recounted on the taste of her vegetable soup lol But the irony of it is that I didn't learn cooking from her but from my friends and I cook my meals alright. A few weeks ago, I decided to meet my elder brother at our family house and I had to do all the cooking, both soups and stew at all time till I left there. |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 5:00pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
hydeka:Sir,are you from the ice age? Mynd is no more a mod. Ayamlaykorn |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 5:00pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
hydeka:Sir,are you from the Ice Age? Mynd is no more a mod. Ayamlaykorn |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by Nobody: 5:01pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
I will wake up. Go and fetch water. Wash 2 cars. Sweep the big compound. Clear grass in and in front of the compound. Go to farm. Cultivate maize, cassava, yam, and that irritating melon on saturdays while my sisters are watching cadbury breakfast tv. Then you expected me to go and still be washing plates, sweeping house, and cooking with my 3 sisters? Did they join me in my own chores? I will listen to this if you say girls should also do chores that boys do. Not a one-way stupid logic. I learnt to cook on my own. 3 Likes |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by optimistcandyboy(m): 5:01pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
my sisters do the kitchen jobs, me...i put on the generator, plug the electronics and service my babe on a regular basis 1 Like |
Re: The Boy-child Should Also Be Domestically Inclined!!! by zicoraads: 5:02pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Its a normal thing in our house. I have three elder sisters, am the first boy and two lil boys. But then, my mum never made us feel like we were supposed to be 'kings.' We also did the work at home. Heck; I became a good cook at home. When we came of age, we were the ones that even pounded yam. I remember my cousin who came to live with us but left after about 5 years. He felt a boy should not do house chores, but my mum felt different. If you grew up in my house, you would definitely do all house chores. And I would also instil it in my boys. 1 Like |
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