Liability:
wicked ex-moderator you don come back?


Tongue out!

Agybabe:
The third NO is enough.

Personally, I've been warned against Ondo guys. I lived there 3years plus.

Dolypson04:

Hahaa...why tag him wicked?

Dolypson04:

Pls can you tell us something about them?

yemmit90:
@op, I think a 2nd NO is enough for a guy to move on. Some girls will say No and later accept you especially if you ignore her for a while after the 1st NO.

I dated this girl when I was in school,she said NO the first time I wooed her, and when we got to 300L, I used another strategy on her and she open yah legs without me even say the same story again.

tosyne2much:
bwahahahahaha roflmao.. Shey you come bleep her when she open her legs abi you refuse ?

shikshark:
unless if u are physically challenged.............the first No should do.

Vessi:

That signature reminds me of one of best Relationship advisors on Nairaland.
I got to get close to a girl, we became friends for over a week and we discuss well over the phone, however when I initiated us meeting or going out on a date, she started missing my calls, ignoring my messages and pulling up flimsy excuses in order dodge the dates. I finally mustered courage and told her my feelings over the phone, she was like-what do you want me to say? I asked her to say her mind, I can't ask her to say yes to me, she is in the best position to make her own decision, she finally said No, She is not READY, let's remain FRIENDS for the main time.
Well, I saw the reply as an invitation to becoming a FRIEND FOR LIFE. I appreciated her direct and straight-forward answer. From that day onward, I never called back or texted back, she did the same. The relationship is now cold, dry, dead.
Did I make right decision by pulling away from FRIENDSHIP offer? Was there any chance she would eventually accept me for RELATIONSHIP? I doubt!!!

Nairaland, the first NO is enough. If she sees a romantic future with you and doesn't wanna risk losing you to another woman, she would never say NO to your proposal.

donsalvy:
i'm guessing it's him.

shikshark:
unless if u are physically challenged.............the first No should do.

Agybabe:

Lemme tell you this, years back while I was still living in Ondo Town, I went to the market to get some foodstuffs, the seller which was a woman was being friendly and chatty with me.

She began saying stuffs I never asked her about. She said she married an Ondo guy, the man's family after some years began to treat her like sh1t. They got another girl for her husband, separated them, collected her kids and sent her packing.

She added that although her husband protested but it changed nothing. When he died, his death was blamed on her. So with vigour, she warned me against them.

It all boils down to the guy's family and not the man himself. My mum too promised me a curse if I marry an Ondo guy. She knew what she saw.

Although, I've dated one before and he loved truly but....

Dolypson04:

but what?