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Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:29pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
smokescreen4:Its tough sha, for women to stay like that. Long distance and we expect all to be well. But na so all man for Lekki dey do oh. And women sef be their problem, all of them for here want house abroad, make dem take wetin dem see oh. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:30pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Billyonaire: Of course. As you dey here for lagos dey exercise your polygamous rights, another man/other men dey wey wan exercise their own for where your wife dey. So why stop other men? Na lie o!. other men must share your wife with you o. Karma dey o. Them no even send whether woman don marry o. Dem go chase am. Watch out!! |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 9:30pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Billyonaire:It's all good. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:31pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
alutacontinua:Help me out my man, if I catch both of una, you go lose finger, she go return to her village. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:32pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:Nnah Take am easy with me o. I no follow your kumbis oh. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Kimoni: 9:32pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
damiso: Exactly Dami, but remember, from Nashville's classification, the bolded still falls under "confrontation". So once you help your husband by talking to the girl yourself, you have confronted the mistress-in-waiting. I guess the understanding of most on this thread is that confrontation=fighting which really doesn't have to be. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:33pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Billyonaire: Catch fire! That's the beauty of it, we're engineers, remember-not scientists! |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:34pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by coogar: 9:34pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Chillisauce: her kitchen skills will determine the bride price. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
If the husband strays, he has some issues, so it is him you should deal with. She might not even have known you exist. Some men put off their wedding rings the moment they step out of their marital homes. The mistake women make in such situations is provoking and confronting the other woman. It is not healthy at all. You lose your dignity in the process, say if you start fighting with her. Imagine fighting for a man in public! Saving the marriage/relationship at the expense of your dignity and your health and the quality of your life and so on is probably not really worth it. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
smokescreen4: Abi now. We dnt have needs. we are made of wood. I see a growing a number of women replacing their husbands with Dildos sef. What a pity. If a big male baby doll was invented to suit the needs of women, many women will buy o. 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:36pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
alutacontinua: Make I go shower before you finish me with hypertension. I give up. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:38pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:39pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
if the woman intrudes on your space...you have a right to confront a woman who calls your house... you have the right to be rude to her, you have a right to respond to her. If she calls your house, or she comes to your workplace, or if she is making statements to people about you...maybe to your mutual friends...then you have the right to deal with that. But if the general issue is that there is another woman that the wife has reason to believe that her husband as an affinity to, you abstain from confrontation. But then if the woman intrudes into your space, it is well within your perimeter to deal with it." |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:41pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Billyonaire: Oh so you dey fear? Heehehehehehee. But na so na. Karma dey. No be only woman e dey affect. E dey also affect man too. Life in general isnt fair. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:47pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Billyonaire: You remember that day wey you reach unexpectedly and she was at the mall, she came in 5 minutes later? Please, tell me she took a shower before you did the thing when she came back |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by UjSizzle(f): 9:48pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23:I had to come and laugh at the emboldened Going to read the OP now. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:49pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
alutacontinua:Do you own a Ferrari ? LOL |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:51pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 9:55pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: So you are now a mind reader to know what goes on in the head of a woman? No wonder you men dnt understand women. Too many misconceptions you stick to. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 10:00pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by UjSizzle(f): 10:02pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23:And why is that? You think women don't get confused too, when they are faced with more than one eligible male (by her standards)? You guys really have no idea what women battle with everyday. I should think temptations will be a lot easier for men to overcome since they aren't faced with it every darn day, unlike women. Unless you are going to tell me men fall for it because apparently they have been waiting for the opportunity all along. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 10:03pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: Chai!! Hahahahahaha. The earlier you accept you are not a mind reader, the better for you o. I just dey tell you now. I admire your faith in women sha. Keep it up. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by damiso(f): 10:08pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Kimoni: Not confrontational talking to her (leave my husband alone or else ish) per se but more like including your wife in your interactions with Said person.if she calls when you are together you can give the phone to your wife to say 'oh he is busy can i take a message' who is speaking oh Lara I have heard so much about you ' tell her you can't come to her house as you and your wife have an outing except she won't mind you bringing your wife with you things like that.try to limit your interaction with the person.flee from all appearances of evil. But that said not everyone has that kain temperament.I can but I know loads of people who will go down the leave my husband alone route. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 10:09pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 10:14pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 10:22pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: I know what you are talking about. Still shows u know nothing. so dnt try to pretend you know what goes on in the head of women. As a lady myself, i just had to laugh at your ignorance. 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 10:24pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by UjSizzle(f): 10:27pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23:Choosing is never easy when you're hunted from every side We're talking about cheating, Nonso. I would expect that loyalty to a spouse(or otherwise) will supercede stereotypes. Or am I to assume he's screwing around out of pity? |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 10:36pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 10:37pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: Just try to emancipate yourself from Naivety when it comes to women. Women are humans like you with diverse mindsets. Start seeing women as humans capable of anything. The world is changing my dear. Stay away from stereotypes for your own good. Thats the problem most men make and when they see something else, they start lamenting that they dnt understand women. 1 Like |
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