Sometimes, we hope that our partners will read our minds, but there are some things men want you to tell them bluntly.
Making him guess how you're feeling never ends well. Your relationship will work better if you're both completely honest with each other, even when you think he should already know how you feel.
Here are the top things men want you to tell them, so that they’re absolutely sure of your thoughts:

WHAT'S WRONG: We've all said that we're "fine" when we're actually upset. Your man probably knows that you're annoyed with him, but has no clue why. Instead of making him reconsider every move he's made in the past week, he'd prefer you to simply air your grievances. The fight won't last as long when he knows exactly what he did wrong. The biggest things men want you to tell them are the reasons they messed up. That way, they can prevent doing it again in the future.

WHAT GIFTS YOU WANT: It's understandable to expect a great gift from your partner on your birthday. However, you have to help him out a bit by pointing him in a general direction. It won't ruin the gift by dropping a few hints. If you tell him you want to see a concert, he'll still have to figure out what band you would like to see live. It's still a personalized gift, because he had to think it through.

WHAT RESTAURANT: It can take hours to decide where to go for dinner. By the time you choose, the place will be closed, and it'll be time for bed. If you have a particular restaurant in mind, tell him what it is. You don't want to waste time by having him suggest different places and turning down each of them.

WHEN YOU'RE ANGRY:It's hard for men to tell why you're angry, but sometimes they can't even tell that you're angry at all. If he is clueless, then you'll have to explain it to him, unless you're willing to let his offense slide.

WHAT YOU LIKE:When it comes to kissing, and other intimate activities, you should tell him exactly what you want him to do. If you let him think he's doing well, when you're unhappy, then he's never going to change his behavior. You have to make sure you have open communication if you want both of your needs to be met. Talking about it is a simple solution, but it can make a massive difference.

Source: http://www..com.ng/index.php/more-news/life-style-news/item/865-ladies-only-7-things-men-want-you-to-tell-them-bluntly


Guys if you have more things to add to this list add

[b][/b]ASK HIM WHAT HE WOULD LIKE TO EAT

If only couples could find lasting solutions to the first and last options....There will be lasting peace at home

spartoo
Why nah?

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Why nah?[/quote]


Makes me feel cared for

You are realy right with number one

how about "I'm busy right now"

6. WHEN YOU ARE IN THE MOOD : Men want you to tell them when you feel like getting in the mood...

No.1 is most important in any relationship.

100Cents:
6. WHEN YOU ARE IN THE MOOD : Men want you to tell them when you feel like getting in the mood...

true

"What is wrong" and "what do you want" are the two questions a man can ever ask that would generate the most frustrating answers from a woman.

How hard is it for ladies to be definite?! Is it a crime to give straight answers?!

LMAO @ the what's wrong question. Every guy gets that 'nothing'

Can't stop laughing