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| Am Soooooo Confused by Lolmoi(f): 1:13pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Av bin dating dis my boyfriend for more than a year now. Nd things av bin rily great btwn us until he travelled to Uk for his masters program. The problem is there is one very cute guy that has bin asking me out b4 my bf even travelled nd I rily like dis guy. My bf will come home for a few mnth afta his masters den go bk for his doctorate which is like 3 yrs. I rily hate long distance relationship nd am pretty sure dis other guy loves me bt my boyfrnd is a very good, lovable nd caring person who has inpacted a lot into my life. What should I do? Shld I go out with dis other guy? No insults plz 1 Like |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by izaray(f): 1:18pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Do wat you think would be good for you ops. Note dat you can only deceive d mind, but you can never deceive ur heart, so follow ur hrt! Good luck! |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Lolmoi(f): 1:39pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
izaray:tnk you bt den I dnt trust my heart. I dnt want to regret my decision |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 1:55pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
[quote author=Lolmoi post=27608122]Av bin dating dis my boyfriend for more than a year now. Nd things av bin rily great btwn us until he travelled to Uk for his masters program. The problem is there is one very cute guy that has bin asking me out b4 my bf even travelled nd I rily like dis guy. My bf will come home for a few mnth afta his masters den go bk for his doctorate which is like 3 yrs. I rily hate long distance relationship nd am pretty sure dis other guy loves me bt my boyfrnd is a very good, lovable nd caring person who has inpacted a lot into my life. What should I do? Shld I go out with dis other guy? No insults plz. [quote author=Lolmoi post=27608122]Av bin dating dis my boyfriend for more than a year now. Nd things av bin rily great btwn us until he travelled to Uk for his masters program. The problem is there is one very cute guy that has bin asking me out b4 my bf even travelled nd I rily like dis guy. My bf will come home for a few mnth afta his masters den go bk for his doctorate which is like 3 yrs. I rily hate long distance relationship nd am pretty sure dis other guy loves me bt my boyfrnd is a very good, lovable nd caring person who has inpacted a lot into my life. What should I do? Shld I go out with dis other guy? No insults plz. [quote author=Lolmoi post=27608122]Av bin dating dis my boyfriend for more than a year now. Nd things av bin rily great btwn us until he travelled to Uk for his masters program. The problem is there is one very cute guy that has bin asking me out b4 my bf even travelled nd I rily like dis guy. My bf will come home for a few mnth afta his masters den go bk for his doctorate which is like 3 yrs. I rily hate long distance relationship nd am pretty sure dis other guy loves me bt my boyfrnd is a very good, lovable nd caring person who has inpacted a lot into my life. What should I do? Shld I go out with dis other guy? No insults plz. I follow ur mind... Oooo |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Beckybeky(f): 1:59pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
No Don't stab him in d back Wait fro him to come back |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 2:08pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
You didn't tell us if you still love your boyfriend and if distance is the only problem between you guys. If you like this other guy just because he's 'very cute', then truss me, you'd be liking the next 'very cute' guy you see. Ask yourself what you really want; a lovable, caring guy, or a 'very cute' one. 1 Like |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by clubone05: 2:53pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
These babes ain't loyal. . |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by tosyne2much(m): 3:22pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
I think it takes miracle for someone to go abroad for a few years and come back to tie the knot More often than not, most of this abroad dudes are not reliable.. After his doctorate, he might get his stay in the UK and decide to stay there thereby keeping you waiting I think the best thing you can do is seek your pastor and explain yourself out.. Sometimes, our intelligence just can't handle some things |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by iKillzz: 4:16pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
End the relationship with the UK guy. You are not loyal enough to see this long distance thru. You and I both know that the only thing holding you back from ending this relationship is the goodies you might miss out on from the UK guy. But then, just stop deceiving yourself. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by iKillzz: 4:17pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
clubone05:At all. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by dre11(m): 4:49pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
I can see that the second guy have the upper hand since u have started making excuses for wanting to dump him Your just looking for someone to collaborate ur post and give u the go ahead to do ur wish.. .... Which is to dump the first guy and date the second one......... And Pls to notify the other guy about what ure thinking of doing |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by justmag(m): 4:57pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Honesty, no one here can answer that for you except your heart. That's where the best solution lies. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 5:19pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Lolmoi: U chose already. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Superstar007(m): 5:25pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Long distance relationship most times hasn't never been a healthy one. Op. Follow you heart. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 5:51pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
lol,wen a woman is inlove... a new maga is born. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 9:36am On Nov 01, 2014 |
follow ur heart |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Articul8(m): 2:09pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
I understnd u too well.Its complicated I knw. Its nt easy to kip on loving who u dnt c often. 4get dose who a posting ...mayb dey avnt tried. Distance rel.b4 ooo.Let d nw guy knw dt u'r in a crious rel.,if only he cn b ur frnd. They its left 4 him 2 stay or run. Like me,if u tell me u'r in a rel.,I make sure I take 2 my toes and saay hi frm far. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 2:13pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
izaray:the heart is not so smart my dear...I would she rather use her brains... |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
shegsky:Lolz... true! |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 2:28pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
It is clear that your UK boyfriend will not meet you when he comes back from UK. Just tell him now before he goes back to UK for his doctorate. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by thankyouJesus(m): 6:59pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Lolmoi:At the emboldened/coloured words 1. What attracted you to him is because he is cute (smilling in chinese), no character descriptions as that of your boyfriend (lovable, caring etc). 2. You are "scared" of loosing your cute boyfriend because your boyfriend is coming home and he is going to distract/disrupt/disturb him from pestering you with love words. My Conclusions: 1. You don't know what you want. 2. You are a confussed person. 3. You don't have a goal/vision you are working towards (don't get me wrong). My Advice: You need God. 1 Like |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by opesweet(f): 8:22pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Date the two of them, you might not regret it and you can handle it. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 9:00pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
just one question..Do u love your bf?? plus,i wana believe,u were perfectly sane,wen u signed up for the LDR |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 9:02pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
just one question...Do you love your bf?? plus,i wana believe u were perfectly sane,when u signed up for the long distance relationshp. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by RiffRaff: 12:15am On Nov 02, 2014 |
Long distance is never a problem when the 2 people involved are true to each other. My advice for u is if u decide u want to date the cute Nigerian guy. Please tell the guy in UK before u start a relationship so that he doesn't think he has someone here wating on him. he will kuku focus on his MS.C & PH.D. U cant eat ur cake and have it by keeping the both of em. you will lose @ both ends. From the way u sound, u really like the Niaja dude & u are not ready for long distance commitment. u already have ur answer. Will u regret it? I Promise u from the d bottom of my heart U will  |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by crazymommy(f): 3:00pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
Lolmoi:Why do we ladies love saying "am pretty sure "he loves me....you can't be very sure...it is your own mind you know.... |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 3:04pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
crazymommy: Yo crazy mama thread has been dead for 2yrs. Maybe she'll update us. Why did you resurrect it  |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by crazymommy(f): 3:11pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
nubian999: because jesus christ resurrected on the third day. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 3:13pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
crazymommy: And today is Sunday  good decision oya op we are waiting  |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Bhenehdikt(m): 3:19pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
Na u dey confuse yourself.. You like the dude even before your boyfriend travelled for his masters.. If you can't wait for someone you said you 'love' then break up with him and date someone you 'like' When he travels for his own masters programme,you'd then date another guy. |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Bhenehdikt(m): 3:21pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
RiffRaff: Asin ehn.. The guy sef dey try,he's managing you and his education.. she tink sey e easy... but meanwhile,that guy sef fit get babe for there o.lolz |
| Re: Am Soooooo Confused by Nobody: 3:22pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
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