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Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 3:39pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Ok. This is a hotly debated issue.... I'm sure the guys will bash me. There seems to a growing trend.... Guys saying their women are to pregnant before proposal or any marriage rite. I condemned a guy's stance on this and thought I'd be supported. But I was surprised. Even women took sides with the guy! It was shocking! And guys, what's the reason behind this assertion?? So what do you think?? Should a lady get pregnant before she gets proposed to or should she walk out of the relationship?? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 3:40pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
She shouldnt get pregnant.... Its called fornication.... 93 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by iceberylin(m): 3:41pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
[size=20pt] ђęlpş ţo ŗędųçę ţђįş āŋŋoyįŋg bįll çāllęd bride-price [/size] 88 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by LaurelP(m): 3:49pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
But ladies also like to taste d guy's abilities in d bedroom, ie if he's a "real man". Though u won't say it outright, you make sure u seduce d guy into d act! 10 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by major466(m): 3:50pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Getting pregnant before before marriage is like dghjgjhjl ... Riding a new car in a pool of mud before buying it from the car dealer. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by LogoDWhiz(m): 3:52pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Well, I think this shouldn't be a debate. In a moral way, haven't sex before wedding is a no no. Also, as a guy, a lady looses a sense of value to you when you have sex with her. If u love her, u forget about it but if u don't, the girl is no longer useful to the guy. Just a sex machine to keep the body warm. So, in this era where saving yourself for marriage is loosing value and where guys don't value gals they sleep with again, it'll be good for a girl to keep herself. Let me add this. What's d assurance that the guy will bear the responsibility of d child when it comes out? 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 3:53pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Cutehector4u: Kk |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by oliverdon: 3:54pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Biblically is wrong but un dis nature we are now i support it bc most marriage dis days now after all d waste of money no show for child,now who is at lost? 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 3:57pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
LogoDWhiz: Yes.... In this era, saving yourself could be good.... But guys also like to ascertain that the babe is good in bed too...... I know Biblically this shouldn't even be debated buh let's get real. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 3:58pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
yeah, its a grown trend these days. It is so wrong. Its a no no for me. I can't and i won't do it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Princecalm(m): 3:59pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
The angle you look at it from will determine the answer you get.If it is seen from religious perspective it will be very wrong to do such as the bible reads it as fornication. Considering it financially it helps to reduce the bride price you pay before getting married and from romantic view even though guys will claim to use it as a way to ascertain how good she is in bed,it also wipes out the romantic moment couples share when they get married,there will be nothing like you had sex on the wedding night with your wife,no honeymoon and so many other things. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 3:59pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
iceberylin: And how does getting pregnant before marriage reduce bride price?? In my place, it increases it o. 7 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 4:00pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
missberrypop5:Thank you..... 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 4:04pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
iceberylin: Try am for my place and see whether the bride price no go increase.You go taste their daughter without marrying her first?Omo,nah wahala be that. 8 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 4:06pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
BreezyRita:hmmm, in my place its an abomination to accept the bride price of a pregnant woman. 5 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Mrval20(m): 4:09pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
The Bible condemns it. But in this generation, women are so promiscuous that they've totally lost our trust. So, most guys (not all though) would want their wife-to-be to get pregnant before any marriage rites... *JUST TO MAKE SURE* I'm not totally in support of the guys, but I don't blame them either. 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 4:10pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
missberrypop5: Tell him. In my place, its even risky. Plus, you'll pay a lot more for tasting their daughter without paying....... A lot more. A whole new list is given to you. 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nursy(f): 4:16pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Getting pregnant b4 wedding is common in the southwest to prove ur fertility kind of. I have a friend co-habiting with her fiance to get pregnant b4 their wedding and another one is getting married this december cos she's pregnant. Its their choice jare.... 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by pryd(m): 4:17pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
I don't intend to toe that line neither would I frown at whoever that decides to. I feel people should have the right to seek their own happiness as long as there's no victim involved. If both partners agree, fine but if they don't, they can easily go their separate ways...no qualms. 10 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by LogoDWhiz(m): 5:04pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
BreezyRita: You're right tho! But a girl who knows her worth needs not be cajoled into such things. And if a guy truly loves a gal. He'll accept her 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 5:36pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Not a good deal. Anyway just proves the guy needs a baby making machine not a companion. 12 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 7:15pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
What I detest is the fact that these guys try to play God.... Or what else do you call it?? They say they're making sure the woman is fertile and will bear children. I've seen where a guy did that. His first gf of 2 years left him cos she wasn't comfy with the arrangement. He met a new woman. Gave her his ultimatum...... She agreed. Got pregnant..... 2 months later, they were married. A few months later, there's a miscarriage. Doctor says she can't get pregnant or give birth anymore. My point?? You never know. A woman may getting pregnant doesn't guarantee her giving you kids. I pray I don't find such a man. Cos those village elders no dey gree.... They have eyes that see when you're just a week gone. 19 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by pryd(m): 8:09pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
BreezyRita: LoL |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by karkel(m): 8:27pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
For not paying the bride price |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by merit12(f): 8:33pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
No comment But I was here when the e-fight between the boys and the girls started lemme call the moderators,panel of judges,the co-debater. And my fellow nairalander Why do I have this feeling this thread is going make front page? Maybe it because the op is black Op are you? 1 Like |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 8:40pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
oliverdon: sweetee, it's only God that gives children - whether before /after marriage. ___ she could get pregnant, have a miscarriage and not take in, in years. ___she could have that particular child, and not conceive another in years to come. ___she could have that particular child - and have many more...then the guy feels he is smart. Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honour among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. but in all, if it happens that the woman is pregnant, and they plan on getting married. They should ask God to forgive them(for the sin of fornication) Please don't ever, abort the child. 19 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 8:48pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
merit12: What e-fight?? And you have anything against blacks |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by tranxo(m): 8:59pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: Word! 8 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Godmother(f): 9:01pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Getting pregnant outside wedlock is a no-no for me. Its just wrong in a lot of ways. Like it has been said, what happens if the lady miscarries and can't take in again. Guys keep saying they want to be sure the women are fertile and that's why they insist. What happens if its the guy that has a low sperm count? That's how he will sleep with sister A for years, then call her barren and move to sister B to continue the experiment. Abeg people should learn to leave things in God's hands. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 9:39pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:Nice words ma'am But I thought u'r a Muslim |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 9:42pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
AgapeCharis: 'Indeed' I'm not please. That was an error of which I have sent mails to the mods/supermods... __It has been resolved |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by unibenstudent1(m): 9:47pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:been a muslin will kinda fit u,don't u fink so *unibenstudent runs into sambisa forest* |
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