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| 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 9:26pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Got this from a broadcast and thought I should share here, so here we go... 1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger. That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems. 2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on your finger, you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go everywhere together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces you to his friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he puts a legal ring on your finger. 3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage are totally different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. 4. Some men demand that you cook for them, organise their apartment and give them sex to prove that you are good wife material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells you that wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in with him because that will automatically make you his ‘in-house-mistress’ who will perform all his wife duties for him without the commitment of marriage. 5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts that ring on your finger. Some men demand that you should submit to them because you are dating. If he wants you to submit to him when you are not dating, just think of what he would do to you if you are married to him. 6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure that you will get it back. If you give him your money because he is a ‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money goodbye because you may never see it again. 7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever. Anytime he wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the ring on your finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your objective is to get married to him, not to warm his bed. Pretending to be his wife by giving him sex will not make him put that ring on your finger. 8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform wife duties for him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all other wife duties, tell him to take you to his family and organize a marriage .Stop being foolish. If he really loves you as he whispers in your ears, he should take you to the marriage registry. 9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free, why on earth do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is not ready to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits. 10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual abuse. Stop giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is not willing to honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then he is not worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you become his wife, then he will get treated like a husband. Source http://picwittr.com/10-wife-duties-to-avoid-with-boyfriends-1 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Nobody: 9:28pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Wendy do u hav a boyfrnd,? |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by medoyin(m): 9:32pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
He broke your heart? c'est la vie |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by zeb04(f): 9:35pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
One of the reason you need caring father's and brothers .they tell you stuffs like these right from age 10. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 9:36pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:I'm married. Why?  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Nobody: 9:37pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Wendy80:ok thnk God...... I rest my case....ur safe.. |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Mutuwa(m): 9:38pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Thread of nowadays self..anyways Op if a girl is in a "real " love triangle she will do all the aforementioned without counselling from anyone. Trust me.. |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 9:39pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:  1 Like |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Tallesty1(m): 9:40pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Good |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 9:41pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Mutuwa:Love triangle how? |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Nobody: 9:43pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Wendy80:i only wanted to employ my intriguing skills to find out smth frm u but since u mentiond u wr married, dn dr would b no point askn u further questions |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 9:45pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Cutehector4u: Ok then |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by kennynelcon(m): 9:51pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Wendy80:this your profile picture is funny lol... would have loved to see ya. |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Skillfullulu(m): 9:58pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
You ladies shouldn't mind wendy, u gotta b caReful tho but do not let her make u loose ur man. |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 10:01pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Skillfullulu:  nobody is loosing anybody oh. |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Skillfullulu(m): 10:11pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Wendy80:free am ladies and let em do those chores, getting used to em will b an advantage. |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Skillfullulu(m): 10:11pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Wendy80: |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by freecocoa(f): 10:16pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
The real question should be,why be with a man undeserving of your care? I mean, if him giving you a ring is all you care about and the yardstick for knowing/measuring a deserving man, then yawa dey o. Bottomline is, try to be sure you are with a man who genuinely loves you and every other thing will follow. It is trying to follow a certain guideline to get the ring that has left many women heart broken, be yourself and you'll have no problems, take care of a man who does same for you, husband or not. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 10:16pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Skillfullulu: I hear U, getting used to them indeed. Anyway I only shared I'm not d author oh |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
freecocoa:Yes I agree what works for one might not work for all and what works for all might not work for one. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by YungwizzzyPt7: 10:23pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
[size=20pt]No wonder high rate of 30+ single modern day ladies they're 1000+ women who are ready to do all these and more out there continue being the indomie gf and watch another woman take your position!! [/size] PS: A girl who cannot exhibit any(all) of the OPs points is no wife material for me!! 5 Likes |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Skillfullulu(m): 10:27pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Wendy80:aight. May b na ur own bad pass sef, so u don't want others to do d same. Lol |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Skillfullulu(m): 10:30pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
YungwizzzyPt7:confirm but don't use and see em as sex mate. |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 10:30pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Skillfullulu:God 4bid. My Own good pass. |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Wendy80(f): 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
YungwizzzyPt7: |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Skillfullulu(m): 10:43pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Wendy80:elenu |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Nobody: 11:27pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Since d OP is not d author, didnt d author see dat he kept repeating d same tin over and over again just to drive a point? It shd be 5 points instead of 10. And its obvious d author is a Nigerian and with a good but myopic mind. #Smh# |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by kandiikane(m): 12:36am On Nov 05, 2014 |
| @7. So because he has not given me a ring, I must deny my body's urges abi? Is it only a man who enjoys sex whenever and wherever? Abeg, if you want do am, do am, abi na for marriage woman body dey turn from firewood to flesh? 3 Likes |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Nobody: 1:38am On Nov 05, 2014 |
Just be yourself and never let someone else change you. If a man sees your value and worth and he is ready for commitment, then you guys will make it official. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Youngpo413: 9:07pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Nice |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by darnley16(m): 9:27am On Apr 14, 2015 |
[quote author=Wendy80 post=27731620] I'm married. Why |
| Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by darnley16(m): 9:31am On Apr 14, 2015 |
kandiikane:this post is plain stupid to me, so u say we are engaged/dating, and u won't wash my clothes for me ? Or cook? Because u never see my parents ba? Tah, d way I go use chase u comot my house ehn!!! You go wash d clothes still tell me say u wan iron dem 4 me 1 Like 1 Share |
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