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Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by naijarocks(m): 12:01pm On Nov 22, 2008
Is there a specific approach that works better with ladies.Do they have a weakness or a strategy that makes them more receptive ? How do you break through a girls defenses seeing that she already has an overdose of attention.

Waiting to hear from you guys and girls.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by opuro(m): 12:15pm On Nov 22, 2008
lies work faster for babes
LEPA/OROBO
Start by telling her she have fine shape
ask her if she a model
tell her she is the most beautiful woman even if she woowo pass anything
ol boy
the defence is broken
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by 190: 9:48pm On Nov 22, 2008
i agree wit u oporo 100% rite
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by syren: 9:43pm On Nov 23, 2008
opuro:

lies work faster for babes
LEPA/OROBO
Start by telling her she have fine shape
ask her if she a model
tell her she is the most beautiful woman even if she woowo pass anything
ol boy
the defence is broken

and then some guys have the audacity to wonder why some women don't trust men when this is their "strategy" of approach.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by Nobody: 9:51pm On Nov 23, 2008
opuro:

lies work faster for babes
LEPA/OROBO
Start by telling her she have fine shape
ask her if she a model
tell her she is the most beautiful woman even if she woowo pass anything
ol boy
the defence is broken
Atleast now we know you live up to the meaning of your ID.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 9:57pm On Nov 23, 2008
opuro, you no lie jare.

most theez women can't handle the truth.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by Nobody: 9:59pm On Nov 23, 2008
Monkeys of the same fur. . . .
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:01pm On Nov 23, 2008
I repeat, you can't handle the truth. It's a proven fact that has withstood the test of time.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by Nobody: 10:03pm On Nov 23, 2008
Where do I start with you?
Anywaz, I'd rather a guy talk to me about something other than my appearance on our first date or our first meeting.
I own a mirror and I know how I look, so why waste my precious time telling me I look nice when my hair is a total mess?

If that's what he wants to talk about, then he might as well be my hair dresser and fashion designer
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:04pm On Nov 23, 2008
Ebony-Silk:

Where do I start with you?
Anywaz, I'd rather a guy talk to me about something other than my appearance on our first date or our first meeting.
I own a mirror and I know how I look, so why waste my precious time telling me I look nice when my hair is a total mess?

If that's what he wants to talk about, then he might as well be my hair dresser and fashion designer


You can start wherever you so please. When petty things like greed and material love consume your mind, you forget about long term happiness and go for the love of deceit.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by Nobody: 10:06pm On Nov 23, 2008
H2O2:


You can start wherever you so please. When petty things like greed and material love consume your mind, you forget about long term happiness and go for the love of deceit.
on what ground do you make your stand?
From what evidence did you make this conclusion?
You don't know me, therefore you do not have the right to come to that conclusion
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:09pm On Nov 23, 2008
Ebony-Silk:

on what grand do you make your stand?
From what evidence did you make this conclusion?
You don't know me, therefore you do not have the right to come to that conclusion
My evidence is time.  It has been there throughout the history of mankind.  I think it's encoded in the female DNA that 99.9% of women between the ages of 0 and 30 will naturally fall for deceitful men.   The latter 0.1% of you do not stop parting with deceit until you realize you're getting old and your biological clock is ticking faster. 95% of you already boast openly about loving assholes even though you know how detrimental they can be to you. What other proof(s) do you need?
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:13pm On Nov 23, 2008
Would you like me to continue or something . . .? ? lol
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 23, 2008
H2O2:

My evidence is time. It has been there throughout the history of mankind. I think it's encoded in the female DNA that 99.9% of women between the ages of 0 and 30 will naturally fall for deceitful men. 95% of you already boast openly about loving assholes even though you know how detrimental they can be to you. What other proof(s) do you need?
I'll take that statisc as an opinionated "evidence" to support your false statement.
Imagine, 99%!!
If 99.9 % of women naturally fall for deceitful men, then it also means that almost 99.9% of men are deceitful. If A=B, then B=A no?

On a serious note, does confidence so surpass some of you men that you must talk about a woman's appearance upon meeting her?
Like I said before, I know how I look, my mirror does not lie to me, so it's a 99% probably I wouldn't want him to lie to me about my appearance when I know damn well I look crappy that night.

H202, not every women are the same. The crap that your women fall for, others might not.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by turkish(m): 10:18pm On Nov 23, 2008
I'm still wondering how in the hell there happens to be a correlation between the size of a chics juggs and her reaction to standard toasting procedure.

Well since u were unenlightened enuf to ask let me brighten ur miserable life;

Busty Chics like taking some cock right between the juggs.
so i advise if ur package aint  > 8" nothing 4 u.
approach her with a bottle of olive oil, and tell that Cougar u want to lube them puppies up and place ur Tommy gunn right between there.

If she trys to act funny, grab them melons and give her nipple/areola area a good fine tuning (like say u dey search for rhythm FM)
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:19pm On Nov 23, 2008
Ebony-Silk:

I'll take that statisc as an opinionated "evidence" to support your false statement.
Imagine, 99%!!
If 99.9 % of women naturally fall for deceitful men, then it also means that almost 99.9% of men are deceitful. If A=B, then B=A no?

On a serious note, does confidence so surpass some of you men that you must talk about a woman's appearance upon meeting her?
Like I said before, I know how I look, my mirror does not lie to me, so it's a 99% probably I wouldn't want him to lie to me about my appearance when I know damn well I look crappy that night.

H202, not every women are the same. The crap that your women fall for, others might not.

I don't put all the blame on una sha. After all, it's hard to resist when a fraudulent guy walks up to you with all his lies . . . sweet talking you like there's no tomorrow - telling you he owns 1/3 of chevron. And at the same time your parents are all over you about getting married, seeing their grand children, etc. Your friends' boyfriends drive ferraris, corvettes, porsches, etc. I betcha if I was a woman too I would probably fall for all that; I would want to impress my friends or family too.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:24pm On Nov 23, 2008
Ebony-Silk:

I'll take that statisc as an opinionated "evidence" to support your false statement.
Imagine, 99%!!
If 99.9 % of women naturally fall for deceitful men, then it also means that almost 99.9% of men are deceitful. If A=B, then B=A no?
Lol. olodo. A leads to B does not mean B leads to A. Take for example, general physics: adiabatic reversible process are necessarily isentropic, but not all isentropic processes are adiabitic-reversible. Sorry, physics-4-dummies 101.

On a serious note, does confidence so surpass some of you men that you must talk about a woman's appearance upon meeting her?
I don't think it's all about the appearance. It's more about exploiting whatever opportunities you see presented to you to get what you want. You use what you have to get what you want, right? From experience most men would know that the truth doesn't usually get them where they want.

Like I said before, I know how I look, my mirror does not lie to me, so it's a 99% probably I wouldn't want him to lie to me about my appearance when I know damn well I look crappy that night.
I don't care.


Anyway, I forgot this discussion is about appearance. Maybe if someone opens a thread about how gullible women are, I will write more on this there.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by Nobody: 10:26pm On Nov 23, 2008
H2O2:

I don't put all the blame on una sha. After all, it's hard to resist when a fraudulent guy walks up to you with all his lies . . . sweet talking you like there's no tomorrow - telling you he owns 1/3 of chevron. And at the same time your parents are all over you about getting married, seeing their grand children, etc. Your friends' boyfriends drive ferraris, corvettes, porsches, etc. I betcha if I was a woman too I would probably fall for all that; I would want to impress my friends or family too.
lmao!! Bet you've tried that. How many chevron do you won?
Well, I think that some women fall for that because they believe that's their ideal man.
A man with garages of car, living in a mansion etc. That's a childish fantasy that some women need to wake up from.
You have to understand (I don't know hwy it's taking so long for you realize ) that not all women are the same.
Reality knocks, and we have to wake up for it.
I'm telling you now, I've had lil boys (boys I prefer) honking at me while am jogging when they know damn well that ain't their car.
Only high school chicks still fall fo rthe car trick and rich boyfriend chit! So, maybe you should, you know, up grade from girls to women?
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by milknhoney(f): 10:28pm On Nov 23, 2008
Is it just me or does H202 come off as really disliking women or secretly gay??
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by jgirl3: 10:29pm On Nov 23, 2008
Imagine! LOL! This is so hilarious.
I have a bunch of tips for you:
1. Look into her eyes so she can know you're not only interested in her for her busty self.
2. Act to her like you would to any other girl. Make her feel like a woman.
milknhoney:

Is it just me or does H202 come off as really disliking women or secretly gay??
LOL! He really dislikes women. He's so not gay.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 23, 2008
H2O2:

Lol. olodo. A leads to B does not mean B leads to A. Take for example, general physics: adiabatic reversible process are necessarily isentropic, but not all isentropic processes are adiabitic-reversible. Sorry, physics-4-dummies 101.
Roll eyes. Ok, let's say somethings A=B, then B=A. Not always but sometimes. And in this instance A=B, B=A.

H2O2:

.I don't think it's all about the appearance. It's more about exploiting whatever opportunities you see presented to you to get what you want. You use what you have to get what you want, right? From experience most men would know that the truth doesn't usually get them where they want.
Oh plz, the best way to a man's heart is boosting his ego.
Telling him you like his non-existing 6 packs makes him feel good.
Ok o, no problem sha, y'all keep lying to women. One day. . . .one day. . .

H2O2:

I don't care.
Caring is not what am looking for her, it's your understanding.
And if you still lack the capability to understand my post, then there's lil I can do.

H2O2:

Anyway, I forgot this discussion is about appearance. Maybe if someone opens a thread about how gullible women are, I will write more on this there.
Am sure you do. From first hand experience, no?
That's why I said upgrade
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:33pm On Nov 23, 2008
Ebony-Silk:

lmao!! Bet you've tried that. How many chevron do you won?
Well, I think that some women fall for that because they believe that's their ideal man.
A man with garages of car, living in a mansion etc. That's a childish fantasy that some women need to wake up from.
You have to understand (I don't know hwy it's taking so long for you realize ) that not all women are the same.
Reality knocks, and we have to wake up for it.
I'm telling you now, I've had little boys (boys I prefer) honking at me while am jogging when they know damn well that ain't their car.
Only high school chicks still fall fo rthe car trick and rich boyfriend chit! So, maybe you should, you know, up grade from girls to women?

I don't need to try that at all to know it works.  You would be amazed at how many women are still stuck in high school mode, even after graduating collegee.  And please learn to contextualize things.  Just because I used one example doesn't mean that's the only usable example in the handy trickbook of men.  Frankly speaking, you women are to blame for men who end up reverting to lies to "score" with you.  Men will continue to get away with these lies because of you.  Naturally, men are good at exploits - I'm not saying women aren't. Imagine a guy who's been going after a lady for 6 months, to no avail, all because he's told the truth about himself.  If he sees his window of opportunity closing, he will look to capitalize on her weaknesses.  You can't deny the fact that an average woman is emotionally weak.  Hacking away at that weakness will probably work for the suave man 95% of the time.  lipsrsealed
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by nguage(m): 10:34pm On Nov 23, 2008
The same way you approach a regular lady, duh.

If busty in this case means fat/overweight/obese you have less to do, she already probably has low self appreciation. Even better when she has a lot of acne.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by milknhoney(f): 10:36pm On Nov 23, 2008
n-guage:

If busty in this case means fat/overweight/obese you have less to do, she already probably has low self appreciation. Even better when she has a lot of acne.
Is it just me or do any of you ladies feel like slapping this guy across the face?? Just a thought.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:36pm On Nov 23, 2008
milknhoney:

Is it just me or does H202 come off as really disliking women or secretly gay??
Another menopausal women who hates truth.  How many men have had their way with you or people you know in one unscrupulous way or another?  Don't lie.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:38pm On Nov 23, 2008
What has saying women are gullible got to do with disliking women? Some of you just can't stay on topic.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by nguage(m): 10:39pm On Nov 23, 2008
milknhoney:

Is it just me or do any of you ladies feel like slapping this guy across the face?? Just a thought.

Is it just me or do you not understand sarcasm?
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by milknhoney(f): 10:40pm On Nov 23, 2008
H2O2:

Another menopausal women {woman} [/b]who hates [b]{the} truth.  How many men have had their way with you or people you know in one unscrupulous way or another?  Don't lie.  
It is obvious that you sir are the one going through a "hormonal" time for the fact that you are the same character chastising Ebony-silk on basic physics but as you can see, you fail in simple basic English.
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:41pm On Nov 23, 2008
Ebony-Silk:

Roll eyes. Ok, let's say somethings A=B, then B=A. Not always but sometimes. And in this instance A=B, B=A.
If A = B then B = A.  That statement is always true; not "sometimes", but ALWAYS.  That's not the point I'm making here.  You will never catch on to this, so let's just drop it . . . lol  undecided

Oh plz, the best way to a man's heart is boosting his ego.
Telling him you like his non-existing 6 packs makes him feel good.
This still doesn't retract from what I've said.
 undecided
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by Nobody: 10:43pm On Nov 23, 2008
H2O2:

I don't need to try that at all to know it works. You would be amazed at how many women are still stuck in high school mode, even after graduating collegee. And please learn to contextualize things. Just because I used one example doesn't mean that's the only usable example in the handy trickbook of men. Frankly speaking, you women are to blame for men who end up reverting to lies to "score" with you. Men will continue to get away with these lies because of you. Naturally, men are good at exploits - I'm not saying women aren't. Imagine a guy who's been going after a lady for 6 months, to no avail, all because he's told the truth about himself. If he sees his window of opportunity closing, he will look to capitalize on her weaknesses. You can't deny the fact that an average woman is emotionally weak. Hacking away at that weakness will probably work for the suave man 95% of the time. lipsrsealed
So why date those women when you know they're sill stuck in the high school mode.
So frank, yet so wrong. I once read something, mehn, can';t put my finger on the title.
I don't blame the lady, he lied to her, so why should she have any reason to trust him. I mean, it hurts me when people lie to me, it takes me a long while to forget the incident.
That's what am trying to tell y'all, lying to get a woman on a first date might get you some kisses and hugs, but one day you might come upon a woman you'll love, lie to her, and she wouldn't believe you again. Dump your ass by the time you know it.

I just don't get it, why lie to her? What if she she comes to likes the "fake" you? But not YOU?
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by H2O2: 10:44pm On Nov 23, 2008
milknhoney:

It is obvious that you sir are the one going through a "hormonal" time for the fact that you are the same character chastising Ebony-silk on basic physics but as you can see, you fail in simple basic English.
Hormonal what?  Incoherent jagbajagba.  Are you not  the lame culprit getting all homophobic because someone's speaking out about your "genre" of people?  Abeg go chop boli jare.  It's not chastisment, it's presentation of str8 facts.  Basic physics kor, further mathematics ni.  dodoyo  undecided
Re: Approaching A Lady:how Do You Break Though Her Defences by jgirl3: 10:45pm On Nov 23, 2008
H2O2:

What has saying women are gullible got to do with disliking women?  Some of you just can't stay on topic.
I answered her question.
I refuse to believe that all women are gullible. I think it's the fact that the women want to believe guys who flatter them.

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