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Re: Appreciating Sexual Experience by undercat: 2:25pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Tufanja I have an entirely different view of the matter. I don't believe that having numerous partners prevents you from eventually being smitten and sticking to one person. For my own part, I've been in a couple of relationships, tho I'm presently not in one. The fact that you can get over being in love tends to make me wary of it. I think the magic of sexual intimacy is inferior to that of an emotional or intellectual one. I agree with you that women have more to lose from casual unprotected sex, which I would not advise either. And at least you agree that it is man like to be a "sex being". All your points are fair, but romantic love is not always a priority. |
Re: Appreciating Sexual Experience by Nobody: 4:19pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
@undercat Thinking different is one of the goodies of a free society ;-). It is good to design our own life and world in the way it lives up to our own ideals without prescribing a blueprint for others. But if I taste a good wine, I would enthusiastically offer others to try it as well ;-). It's up to them to decide if they like the taste of it or not ;-). I think its true that you can have emotional and spiritual connection with someone and that the sexual dimension is often overrated by emphasizing too much on it. With the rush to marriage, the essence of love may be passed by as much as investing in the other dimensions of togetherness, marriage should never be rushed nor considered just in order to have a sort of free pass to sex. I'm pretty much not fancying that approach, it doesn't serve investing in real love and bounding at all. The golden trinity is when the romantic connection comes in with someone you feel emotional, intellectual and spiritual flowing with on an exceptional level. That's a pretty rare combination. To puzzle that you need time & energy and not too much distractions in short affairs. About the man's sex drive...well let me not start discussions on that here...I just know that biology is too often used as an excuse and that a big deal is connected to the way one is wired, the exposures, the culture in which one grows up, personal character, weaknesses, every day choices etc... It's not a topic to discuss in the margin ;-). The haters would be waiting to kill me |
Re: Appreciating Sexual Experience by undercat: 6:24pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Tufanja I plan to try your good wine someday. I'd prefer to come upon it by accident. The surprise should make it sweeter. But of course I could spare the time and energy if I have to. About a man's sex drive, I think even after accounting for all the things you mentioned, the average guy still has the higher drive. Its just the cross we are burdened with . Haters can only hate, but to be safe where would you rather discuss it? |
Re: Appreciating Sexual Experience by Nobody: 7:40pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
@undercat Lol I guess I would prefer to discuss that with some good glass of wine ;-) |
Re: Appreciating Sexual Experience by InZA: 1:06pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Tufanja: I really enjoyed reading this....I would have specifically quoted some key areas, but honestly the whole post is a "key area" I've added it to my list of interesting Nairaland reads - posts like this need to be ruminated from time to time. |
Re: Appreciating Sexual Experience by Nobody: 3:06pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
@ InZa thanks for the acknowledgements ;-) |
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