The issue of cheating on a loved one is
at its peak, hurting people is just
criminal and kills them slowly, this
time of the year is usually what I call
cheating time because, one we are in a
season of showoff all you have
accomplished for the year, be you
married, single or what ever class you
belong.
The truth is that everyone must blame
someone for the wrongs happening to
them, but are we really looking at the
right source? I would try and break it
down as much as I can. The first
gender I wanna tackle is the male
gender, single and married.
The truth about cheating is that is a
habit, and everyone knows habits are
things you have done often over a long
time, as a young single man, you found
pleasure in going in and out of
relationships because getting out was a
cool way of avoiding the problems you
encountered in your relationship, this
ultimately meant you also kept sleeping
with different women and hence you
already picked up a habit,
unknowingly!
Soon you began to do two or more
relationships at once, instead of learning
how to groom a relationship and cherish it,
you schooled yourself on finding joy in
screwing different women, soon you grew
into a man who wanted a wife and kids
which ultimately meant you wanted a home,
but you have never succeeded in being with
one woman or surviving hard times in a
relationship, you didn't learn how effective
communication could fix issues before they
become serious problems, your way of
getting over issues was being with someone
else.
Getting married doesn't automatically
change your habits. You should mould
your character before Marriage. Now
you are married, with a wife and kids,
of course you have been cheating on
her the minute she got pregnant or as
soon she started to have stretch marks
and added weight, she can't do all she
used to do to rock your bed, because
your focus as always been on sex, you
no longer see any reason to
communicate with her and tell her
what u fink, BOTH OF YOU, can do to
better your sex life.
You will rather resort to your usual way of
doing things, "get on the next available
flight leading to no where"
Your problem dear married randy men
isn't your wife, your problem has been
you, you have lacked character from a
young age, you never had time to know
what was required of you in a
relationship, there is a thousand
things to learn in a relationship, that's
why you are allowed to date before you
get married, you don't learn
communication by jumping around,
you don't learn how to be satisfied
with what you have by not adding value
to it, you don't learn to adapt to the
changes that comes with what you
have, if you never really spend time
understanding how to adapt to the
changes and maximize it, if you never
been through a good change before,
how do you find strength in going
through a new one?
Forget the single girl out there, you made a
vow to your wife! Fear God, be a man and
keep it. if you are in a relationship, stay
there! Make it work, learn, grow, don't
jump around looking for the easy way out,
because you will discover that over time you
have not grown in intra-personal
relationships. so when you get married
tomorrow when your wife no longer has all
the energy for your always eager manhood,
you would give her your company rather
than your absence, because the reason she
lost her shape, her firm breast, the reason
she is no longer as good as she used to be is
all because of YOU.
Secondly young men you must strive to
fear God, no one likes to hear this
part, there is a popular saying, it is
hard to change from what you are
used to doing, thou shall not commit
fornication! It sounds difficult and
silly but check out the adverse effect
it would have on your tomorrow! If the
woman you will get married to
tomorrow is your first sexual encounter
how would u then learn cheating at old
age? How would you know that if your
wife who is no longer a little girl who
has sex with you all the time just to
keep you, doesn't have such time
anymore because she now has ALOT to
take care of, that when she doesn't
give it to you, there is a lazy girl out
there waiting for a few thousands in
exchange for her pride?
Men and young boys we seriously need to
work on our character and relationship with
God. We make women fight and hate
themselves, because we are a not grown
character wise, we make it look like these
women are not good enough! You enjoy
watching them fight over you? It isn't
because you are special its because they
don't really know who you are and what
they should want!
Fornication creates the habit of always
wanting sex, sex creates the urge to always
want to blind give so as to avoid any
resistance from the woman, that habit gives
birth to not having enough....that habit has
given birth to who you are now! A RANDY
SERIAL CHEATING GROWN KID!

source: http://www.lindaikeji..com.es/2014/11/the-unbiased-truth-about-cheating.html?m=1

True talk bro!