crackhaus:

Lol... her parents will definitely hear of it down the line.

My suggesting is more of a situational thing at that moment when she's running her mouth - there are only three things that can be done at that instance:
- Sit and receive all the curses/insults,
- Discipline the woman like a child, with koboko if necessary, OR
- Get out of there.

pickabeau1:

Someone suggested packing out of the house..
What if he is paying the rent?

crackhaus:

Get out of there as in to create some space between himself and her until much later.

Why the hell would he pack out of the house? If anyone should leave, it's the wife.

bukatyne:


That is dangerous

If the OP claims that her curses does 'work', what is the guarantee that she would not place a curse for him to die?

Sophyrocks:


And then the circle continues. The grass isnt always greener on the other side. Im sure the mistress has her own load of sh1t to dish out to him. Women are wonderful pretenders before marriage. Its only a matter of time. No matter how many times its preached that men are polygamous in nature, women will always continually detest cheating just as men do. So whatever a man sees from a woman when he cheats, he just gotta accept it. However you lay your bed, you will lie on it.

crackhaus:

Bro that's the thing with most women, they deliberately do these things with a feeling that nothing will happen.

I personally don't like anyone being all up in my face and space, I have a big thing for personal boundaries.
My suggestion that he removes himself from that environment once her evil spirit starts manifesting, is exactly what I would do.
However, once I'm in the process of excusing myself and the clearly misguided woman gets in my way and all up in my face, I might just respond with a nasty slap.

Sophyrocks:


Huh? This your english na wa.

pickabeau1:


it seems to be a continous thing

shizzleStar:
Fair enough...many women dont know where to draw the line and so they over-step their boundary. They run their mouth like a tap that has lost its knob

crackhaus:

I have their antivirus.

crackhaus:

Which is why excusing himself is the best in my opinion. He doesn't need to leave the house, he could just go into another room/area.

The wife will have to be clinically certified as insane if she keeps cursing when no one is listening/paying attention to her.

saucechilli:
So the OP is even a cheat. Atalakah!

Let me join in saying Amen to your wife's prayers.

After 5 yrs of no issue with you, you are going with your black carrot to impregnate another babe.
You go hear whine.

Make i add my own prayers join.

Father, may the carrot relinquish as it wants to enter another zone thats not his wife. Let it be like a dead leaf. Iseeeee
Amin oh

Odilafta:

My sister,I'm spoke according to the Op's styles

shizzleStar:
you never can tell with such women, she can even drag the key to the car with him or stand in his way that he isn't going nowhere. I have seen such nagging and loquacious women trust me

johnsonpolice:
I don't like the way my wife is behaven any time we ve small problem she will start insualting me like u will die in motor accident it will nt be well with you and truely some thing must happened to me.like today being sunday I wanted to go out for strolling all of a suddent she insisted to go with me,I now told her to go and bath before she wll go out with me and she pick offence and started insualting as usual what an inprudent?as I went out, I almost had an accident.I am sick and tire of her distartly act.I am think of droping her before she could sent me to an early grave.pls mature advice is needed.

Caveatemptor:
In the case I referenced above. The man attempted a temporary separation by moving out to an hotel,but the she devil located the hotel and chased the poor man to the place and attacked him in his hotel room and violently smashed up the place while screaming at the top of her voice like a banshee.
May we not be unfortunate as to marry a violent woman oooo. Can I hear an amen.
@OP,I suggest you find a way to temporarily seperate from your"wife", till she purges herself of her violent tongue and probably comes to her senses.

Caveatemptor:
In the case I referenced above. The man attempted a temporary separation by moving out to an hotel,but the she devil located the hotel and chased the poor man to the place and attacked him in his hotel room and violently smashed up the place while screaming at the top of her voice like a banshee.
May we not be unfortunate as to marry a violent woman oooo. Can I hear an amen.
@OP,I suggest you find a way to temporarily seperate from your"wife", till she purges herself of her violent tongue and probably comes to her senses.

dein77:
I still hold my earlier position: women aren't fools: they simply pick holes in our attitudes and then pay us in with our own coin.

I believe only a tiny number of women pretend into marriage. It's the same with men. People will almost certainly continue in their natural attitudinal trajectory until someone or something forces them to assume a new identity. That new identity is more or less an adaptation feature- something to help them absorb the new shock and defend themselves against it.

Summary, OP should still look within!

I made a similar thread some months ago. I . continued enjoying the comments from most people as they confirmed my inner desire to throw myself in a better light. But soon, a very brutal and true comment came along. The person was so blunt to me. She suggested I should look within. I was livid.

Well, in humility and honesty, I looked within. I spotted the problem was me. I addressed it, and the peace that had taken a sabbatical leavereturned to me....

While there are some very difficult and verbally abusive women, in most cases, the men have actually brought their new behaviour forward.....

dein77:
I still hold my earlier position: women aren't fools: they simply pick holes in our attitudes and then pay us in with our own coin.

I believe only a tiny number of women pretend into marriage. It's the same with men. People will almost certainly continue in their natural attitudinal trajectory until someone or something forces them to assume a new identity. That new identity is more or less an adaptation feature- something to help them absorb the new shock and defend themselves against it.

Summary, OP should still look within!

I made a similar thread some months ago. I . continued enjoying the comments from most people as they confirmed my inner desire to throw myself in a better light. But soon, a very brutal and true comment came along. The person was so blunt to me. She suggested I should look within. I was livid.

Well, in humility and honesty, I looked within. I spotted the problem was me. I addressed it, and the peace that had taken a sabbatical leavereturned to me....

While there are some very difficult and verbally abusive women, in most cases, the men have actually brought their new behaviour forward.....

saucechilli:


I just finished cursing the blokus sef.

Mtcheeeew.

crackhaus:

So when the wife is busy insulting and cursing, what should he do?

dein77:
Experience has shown me that our wives don't just disrespect us; we must have given them reasons to be rude. Women are a very perceptive group of people.

If we own up to our expected duties, our wives will respect us. Women aren't fools......

OP, please dispassionately look inwards; you may find reasons why she's behaving the way she does....

The society is really skewed against the women folks. They are almost always blamed for whatever challenges a marriage suffers.

saucechilli:
So the OP is even a cheat. Atalakah!

Let me join in saying Amen to your wife's prayers.

After 5 yrs of no issue with you, you are going with your black carrot to impregnate another babe.
You go hear whine.

Make i add my own prayers join.

Father, may the carrot relinquish as it wants to enter another zone thats not his wife. Let it be like a dead leaf. Iseeeee
Amin oh

Godmystrength:
how can that be possible? His sperm bank is EMPTY o...https://www.nairaland.com/1916913/bleep-almust-hour-yet-sperm#26553218