Please help, need candid and Helpful advices, I think I'm having commitment issues,
I am a young male of 26, work with my state govt. And have a sustainable living , also self sufficient;
my issue : It seem like I'm having a commitment issue, I could develop feelings for someone, but after a while, when we get to know and get close, I soon loose interest , really don't know how and why it turns out this way... how can I help this?
Presently I don't have a stable relationship at this age ad time in life, still cos of this. Is it Normal?

guy settle down put your scattered mind together and be bold enough. your problem is may b u are not associated with ladies. try nack any fucking girl am sure u will get your self.

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Na advice be dis one too...

O.p
I once had a frnd like u...

U dnt need help joor..
Jst sit ur sense down
And figure out why u need commitment in a relationship..

The magnitude of ur reason will be ur driving force...

Sorry brah but it seems you allow your feelings lead you by the nose.

If you are serious about improving on your current challenge then work towards having a firm grip on your emotions.

Understand yourself and define what you look for in a partner, that can help you with a sustainable relationship.

Once those are properly and thoughtfully defined then go for the lady whose traits are closest to what you want.

Dates should help you identify the lady that is most suitable. Do not ask the lady for a relationship if you are not ready to commit.

Commitment phobia? Dunno if these few tips might be helpful though.
Firstly, Engage in the present moment i.e Be right here, right now with the person in front of you.
Secondly, Know and accept that nothing and no one is PERFECT..
And again,your parents are not immortal, become aware of how your parents did it and find ways to do better than them.
All the best bro

it's normal bro, 26 is money-making-age, concentrate on the credit alert for now.

wilsondave:
guy settle down put your scattered mind together and be bold enough. your problem is may b u are not associated with ladies. try nack any fucking girl am sure u will get your self.

funny Bro, buh I seem not to understand this ur advice, is it me or you?

striktlymi:
Sorry brah but it seems you allow your feelings lead you by the nose.
If you are serious about improving on your current challenge then work towards having a firm grip on your emotions.
Understand yourself and define what you look for in a partner, that can help you with a sustainable relationship.
Once those are properly and thoughtfully defined then go for the lady whose traits are closest to what you want.
Dates should help you identify the lady that is most suitable. Do not ask the lady for a relationship if you are not ready to commit.

thank Bro, a very nice advice and suggestion u came up with, I appreciate, will try this.

will1am:
Hhhmmmm

I do not think that's an advice

killerman47:
funny Bro, buh I seem not to understand this ur advice, is it me or you? thank Bro, a very nice advice and suggestion u came up with, I appreciate, will try this.I do not think that's an advice

my advice is for you. cause u seek for advice and I present my opinion. lol

DrJoe1:
it's normal bro, 26 is money-making-age, concentrate on the credit alert for now.

bro; this uur advice funny ghaan!!! Where I come from 26 is a full blown man; and resonsible for his actions n inactions; n u feel @p 26, someone shouldn't be having a stable date, or at least good girlfriend; even when stable, den I think; u got d idea wrong...

Op I'll sayy; u should take ur time; relax; identify what u want in a womman; do not just rush into dating ; mek friends with ladies, n try to be close to d kind dat have d characteristics u yearn for; afterwards u can; tek it upp 4rm der
All d best bro...

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Raymondenyi:
bro; this uur advice funny ghaan!!! Where I come from 26 is a full blown man; and resonsible for his actions n inactions; n u feel @p 26, someone shouldn't be having a stable date, or at least good girlfriend; even when stable, den I think; u got d idea wrong...

Op I'll sayy; u should take ur time; relax; identify what u want in a womman; do not just rush into dating ; mek friends with ladies, n try to be close to d kind dat have d characteristics u yearn for; afterwards u can; tek it upp 4rm der
All d best bro...

d guy na killer man, e wan make know say he dey work 4 govt. wetin u wan make i tell am.

Dis matta no b ordinary eyes... Na spiritual matter..

valdes00:
Dis matta no b ordinary eyes... Na spiritual matter..

go and die Mr. Man...... nonsense[right][/right]

DrJoe1:

d guy na killer man, e wan make know say he dey work 4 govt. wetin u wan make i tell am.

do u have a problem with my name sire, I am Paul killerman by name