Have you ever walked into a room and instantly
found yourself smitten by a beauty standing
across the room?
Ever wondered how to talk to a girl you like at a
time like this?
Making a move to talk to a girl
One of the biggest hurdles most guys face is
making the first move.
Chatting up a girl is easy if you’re going to be
introduced to her.
But when you have to walk up to a girl you’ve
never spoken to before, and want to start a
conversation, your heart can start to beat faster
than a hummingbird on heat. ]
Follow these ten steps one at a time, and before
you know it, knowing how to talk to a girl you like
will be as easy as taking a walk in the park.
What you need to know
You’re interested in talking to great girls, aren’t
you?
And just like you, girls are interested in talking to
great guys too.
So really, there’s nothing to be worried about
here!
Remember the biggest rule when it comes to
knowing how to talk to a girl – you can’t jump
steps. Just like you have to learn to walk before
you can run, you need to learn to warm her up
before you talk to her. Read on.
#1 Let her know you’re interested in her. Talking
to a girl isn’t as simple as walking up to just
about any girl and asking her out on a date. It
may work in the movies, but in all probability, it
won’t work in real life. A girl needs to know
you’re interested in her so she can evaluate you.
If you just walk up to a girl who doesn’t have a
hint that you’re approaching her, you may just
end up shocking her. And she’s going to say the
first thing her mum taught her to say to intruding
boys. “Go away!
#2 Play the staring game. Once she knows you
exist, take the game a notch higher. Glance at her
now and then to arouse her curiosity. Does she
glance back at you now and then? Does she
smile to herself when you catch her eye? Do her
friends look at you and smile? Watch out for the
happy signs
There’s no point in trying to figure out how to
talk to a girl if all she does is gives you a dirty
stare or doesn’t care whether you’re looking at
her. Asking a girl out in such cases usually ends
up being a disaster and for a novice’s confidence,
it’s best to be avoided.
#3 Don’t pick her up. Using a pick up line may be
smart and cocky, but in most cases, pick up lines
fail. The best way to figure out when and how to
talk to a girl is to avoid pick up lines and use pick
up circumstances instead!
If it’s a conference or a gallery and she walks up
to a display, stand next to her and say something
out of the blue like “do you know how long it took
to make this?” or something just as casual.
Likewise, whether it’s in the office, a park or even
a bar, look around and ask her a question that’s
relevant to something around her.
But always remember to keep it vague. A vague
question makes a girl wonder for a few seconds,
she’s going to end up responding to you.
#4 Don’t come on too strong. Now this works
best just after you’ve spoken to her after asking
her a really vague question. Once she answers it,
both of you are in talking mode but not really
friends. She would have answered your question
and looked away. She obviously knows you’re
hitting on her, so she won’t really try to continue
the conversation. She may just smile and look
away.

You can do one of two things, introduce yourself
or continue to play the game and introduce
yourself after asking her a few more questions.
Prolonging the game can make it so much more
exciting for both of you. But of course, she could
just walk out of the conversation if she’s in a bar
counter waiting for a drink. If you’re introducing
yourself, go ahead and introduce yourself. And be
frank, tell her you have a confession to make, that
you’ve been waiting to meet her for a long time
or all evening.
She obviously knows you’ve been staring at her,
so why pretend like you’re picking her up. Telling
her the truth may flatter her instead of making
her feel like she’s being picked up.
#5 Give her the space
When you’re talking to a girl, make sure she
knows she can walk out whenever she wants.
Don’t corner her in awkward places like outside
the ladies room, or a quiet corridor. If you can
handle it, you can even talk to a girl when she’s
with her friends. Always remember, if she feels
like she has the space, she’s going to be a lot
more comfortable to talk to you. [Read: How to
charm a girl and flatter her into liking you]
But then again, this is tricky. If you give a girl
enough space, you may not be able to build a
connection and she may just end up walking
away. But as long as you’ve got the first four
steps right, she won’t really walk away.
After all, if you’ve warmed her up, she’s going to
want to talk to you too! As long as you’ve used
these first four steps on how to talk to a girl to
the tee, you’ll be able to talk to a girl and impress
her, without really making it appear like you’re
trying to pick her up.

We’re only half way through the guide on how to
talk to a girl and look smooth at the same time.
These tips may be enough to impress a girl and
start a conversation with her. Read these next
five steps on what to talk about with a girl to
rouse her interest and charm your way into her
heart.

The first five tips on how to talk to a girl in the
introduction should help you strike a conversation
with a girl and impress her too.
But that’s not it. To really impress a girl, you
need to know what to talk about with a girl, and
how to do it the right way.
What to talk about with a girl
While talking to a girl for the first time can be
tricky, knowing what to talk about with a girl can
be the deal maker or breaker.
Anyone can start a conversation using the tips in
the introduction, but what next? That’s when you
have to reveal your true colors and woo her with
your own charm
If you really want to make her like you on your
very first conversation, use these tips on what to
talk about with a girl.
#6 After the introduction. Starting a conversation
is actually simpler than continuing the
conversation.
After all, you don’t have a clue what she likes or
doesn’t like. So this is where you have to play
safe.
If you’re wondering what to talk about with her,
then go with the obvious. If you’re having some
difficulty coming up with conversation lines, use
these six conversation starters to use with a girl .
You really don’t have to constantly bombard her
with questions just to avoid any blank spaces in
the conversation. Relax and feel comfortable.
When you’re nervous, it shows. And that would
only make her feel uneasy to be around you.
#7 Don’t put her in a spot. Sometimes it’s easy
to get carried away in a conversation. Don’t do
that. The one thing you need to remember is to
never put the girl in a spot. Don’t make her feel
uncomfortable or nervous with your questions.
Don’t ask her stupid questions like “you were
staring back at me too, right?” “You look good in
this dress, where did you pick it up?” and a lot
more along those lines. They’re awkward and
really dumb. Avoid looking down her shirt or
staring at her below her neck. Indulging in any of
these activities will only make her feel
uncomfortable and awkward. And when that
happens, she’d only want to walk away from you.

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#8 Be warm and likeable. A lot of guys get very
excited when a girl reciprocates their moves and
starts a conversation with them. Just because a
girl wants to talk back to you doesn’t mean she’s
easy to get. You still have to respect her and
treat her like a lady. Have a conversation with her
just like you would with a girl you were introduced
to. Don’t smart talk or talk dirty. Well, unless she wants to
#9 Smile often and flirt. If you really want to
know what to talk about with a girl, remember the
one thing that matters more than anything else.
Her comfort. As long as she’s comfortable and
happy, she’d be happy to talk to you and spend
time with you. So more than the words you
choose, focus on how you can make her feel
comfortable around you.
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One of the best ways to ease a girl and make her
want to be with you is through humor. You really
don’t have to learn a few one-liners and jokes for
this. You just need to be a happy guy. A guy who
smiles and has a great laugh makes for great
company

#10 Don’t talk forever. In most cases, you’d meet
a great girl at a meeting or a conference, or at
other times in a café or a club. Unless both of
you are specifically meeting up for a date, don’t
try to hog the girl for the entire evening.
Remember, she has her own obligations and
commitments.
If you’re just going to talk on and on, there’s a
good chance she’ll get quite annoyed with you
and would just want to shut you up. One of the
best ways to avoid this is to ask her if she has to
go somewhere, and flatter her at the same time.
Saying something like “I’d really love to stay here
and talk with you for a while. Would that be
alright with you?” Try it, you’ll see the difference.

Even if she has to go somewhere else, this line
will definitely lead to more phone conversation and sweet dates
Now that you know what to talk about with a girl
and how to continue a great conversation with
her, remember these tips when you come across a
beauty that catches your eye. After all, great
conversations aren’t just about words!

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Not a question, but an "observation"....If a girl actually likes you, how you approach her won't matter..Once she gets cold upon approach, it simply means she doesn't want you..from experience, a girl who wants you will make it work..irrespective of circumstances.

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