Rexhenrex:
Please i will need your utmost sincere answer to the question!

There is this pretty lady i have been dating for close to 2years now(amanda),she av been caring and very understanding but it doensn't mean that we don't have misunderstanding at times tho,but we always know how to resolve our issues without it escalating..

An incident happened some days back that got her pissed.I slept at her best friend's place who happens to be her course mate also without telling her not as if it was on purpose. what happened was that i was at my place on saturday last week all bored up so i decided to take a stroll in the evening,and as the devil may have it i was at the area which my bae's best friend(sophia) lives in.so i just said i should stop by and say hi! As i got in lo and behold she was playing scrabble (which happens to be my best board game) with a friend of her's(sylvia) who happens to be her next door neigbour.

So she invited me to join them in playing which i obliged to whole heartedly. you know how games are na, after 3straight round wins her friend sylvia said she will be taking her leave while my g.f's bestie sophia refuse to coincide defeat and dared me for another round which i won then for another round again i still accepted so as to show her i can still beat her. in the middle of the game something told me to check the time,as i checked i was shocked. it was already some munites to 10pm and i hate walking on the road at nights due to dangers of the night and for secuirity precussions(ranging from thefts,cultists oppression e.t.c)so i slept at her place and left sunday morning! I didn't see it necessary to tell bae i don't know how she got to know but yesterday she brought up the issue and was very disappointed in me she has refused to reply my msgs both on whatsapp and f.b nor pick or replied any of ma calls and i fear she might wanna break-up with me.

Does she have any reason to be angry??

that leaves me with this question, what will you do if your partner male passes the night in your friends place who is a female or if your partner female passes the night at your friends place a male without your consent??.

#Matured answers only please and no insults just say your thoughts.(pardon any typo and grammatical errors)

Cc:lalasticlala.

Cutehector:
She has every right to b pissed at u

First u disrespected her by not tellin her


She got to knw frm third party

U really hv to apologize u knw

Rexhenrex:
i thought telling her wasn't necessary,and besides for her to be angry means she doesn't trust me!

Strahovski1:
I did not read the topic

Tallesty1:
I am really mad you @OP. How can you spend an evening with Sylvia and Sophia in a room without calling me?

Nah you stingy reach?

Rexhenrex:
i thought telling her wasn't necessary,and besides for her to be angry means she doesn't trust me!

Cutehector:
dats not the kinda character u should imbibe if u thinkn of Goin to marry... she is ur girlfrnd and she deserves to knw..

OK so tell me hw u"d feel if she sleeps in ur bestfrnds house... and she ddnt tell u.

osedvgirl:
hmmmm, guy tell us the truth, did you touch her cos there is no way goat and yam are kept together, you are at fault cos she will never believe nothing happened, if it was me i will believe o especially if she gat ass cos he too like ass



bad boy baddooo

Laveda:
You stayed there till it got dark and you didn't even care to check the time
Slept there and didn't bother calling to inform your bae, put yourself in her shoes what would you think if such happens and she didn't call you?

Well, you just have to apologise and have her friend talk to her too, maybe you both visit her together and sort things out....

Rexhenrex:
was thinking she won't get to find out ...she ain't pickong ma calls and am afraid of visitin her as she might still be angry!

osedvgirl:
hmmmm, guy tell us the truth, did you touch her cos there is no way goat and yam are kept together, you are at fault cos she will never believe nothing happened, if it was me i will believe o especially if she gat ass cos he too like ass



bad boy baddooo

Laveda:

Go with her friend..
I'm sure y'all can sort things out.

Rexhenrex:
she is also mad at her friend because she to was afraid of telling her so going with her friend might be a wrong move i intended going through her elder sis.

Ginaz:
I have nothing important to say, if she break up with you kindly go to the next one

Oma307:
So u cant believe that a goat can be with a yam without touching it, well i have done it severally

Laveda:

Mtcheeww
Go with her friend
Nah elder sis you sleep with ?

Rexhenrex:
i controlled ma self am not a he goat

Cutehector:
dats not the kinda character u should imbibe if u thinkn of Goin to marry... she is ur girlfrnd and she deserves to knw..

OK so tell me hw u"d feel if she sleeps in ur bestfrnds house... and she ddnt tell u.

osedvgirl:

you controlled yourself, that means ya mind was there, clap for yourself

Rexhenrex:
the only reason i will be angry is if she had cheated on me before or i don't trust my friend..she is over reacting

Cutehector:
bro ur d one dats overreactin abeg, she is doin what evry normal girlfrnd will do so stop tryna misunderstand her here...

It's very simple, tell her u understand Dat she has evry right to be angry and u r sorry for not tellin her and it's never gona happen again.. how hard could Dat be?


Mchew!