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For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 9:12pm On Nov 19, 2014
The reason for bringing up this topic is that,for somebody who has already been in a relationship right from his Or her secondary school up to tertiary level,something of 7year relationship without even sure of the probability of getting marry to that person is certain...............PLS,for how long should somebody be in a relationship before
marriage?? Your contribution is highly needed!!! #frontpage mod"pls"#
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 9:12pm On Nov 19, 2014
pls for how long?
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:13pm On Nov 19, 2014
Seven years......
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 9:17pm On Nov 19, 2014
Cutehector4u:
Seven years......
sir,too much??
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:20pm On Nov 19, 2014
borlarge:
sir,too much??
urm, i think some one in the bible waited for good seven years to marry someone's daughter nd wen he found out that the wife given to him was not the one he wanted, he waited another seven years,... I duno if u knw d story am talkn abt,,.
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by STENON(f): 9:21pm On Nov 19, 2014
It is not "How Long" or "How Far" that you have been in the relationship,
It is about Maturity, the foundation of the relationship, Joy, Peace, Love, and How well the relationship is.
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by holatin(m): 9:25pm On Nov 19, 2014
2 days
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by motherlode: 9:25pm On Nov 19, 2014
Seven means perfect
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by jmoore(m): 9:35pm On Nov 19, 2014
Many factors come into play:
1- Age
2- Maturity
3- Finance
etc
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 9:35pm On Nov 19, 2014
motherlode:
Seven means perfect
whao! perfect?
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 9:35pm On Nov 19, 2014
motherlode:
Seven means perfect
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 9:42pm On Nov 19, 2014
Cutehector4u:
urm, i think some one in the bible waited for good seven years to marry someone's daughter nd wen he found out that the wife given to him was not the one he wanted, he waited another seven years,... I duno if u knw d story am talkn abt,,.
yea! i rememba d story,dat one nah die o "14years"
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 9:43pm On Nov 19, 2014
holatin:
2 days
lolz......dere z God o
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by jmoore(m): 9:47pm On Nov 19, 2014
Cutehector4u:
urm, i think some one in the bible waited for good seven years to marry someone's daughter nd wen he found out that the wife given to him was not the one he wanted, he waited another seven years,... I duno if u knw d story am talkn abt,,.
He waited one week for the second daughter.
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 9:47pm On Nov 19, 2014
STENON:
It is not "How Long" or "How Far" that you have been in the relationship,
It is about Maturity, the foundation of the relationship, Joy, Peace, Love, and How well the relationship is.
alryt ma
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:48pm On Nov 19, 2014
jmoore:

He waited for one week for the second daughter.
seven yrs joor..whch bible do u even read sef
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by holatin(m): 9:49pm On Nov 19, 2014
borlarge:
lolz......dere z God o
is better to be early than late
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by justmag(m): 9:51pm On Nov 19, 2014
As long as it takes to understand each other enough to see the sense in marriage. It could from 6 months to 7 years. I have noticed in nigerian people tend to rush marriage.
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by jmoore(m): 9:52pm On Nov 19, 2014
Cutehector4u:
seven yrs joor..whch bible do u even read sef

No need to argue. Post the verse here to counter my say.
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by motherlode: 10:07pm On Nov 19, 2014
borlarge:
whao! perfect?

uhn! Perfect!
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 10:27pm On Nov 19, 2014
motherlode:


uhn! Perfect!
ok o "perfect" Says Motherlode
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 10:40pm On Nov 19, 2014
jmoore:
Many factors come into play:
1- Age
2- Maturity
3- Finance
etc
which one shd be d priority?
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by jmoore(m): 10:59pm On Nov 19, 2014
borlarge:
which one shd be d priority?

It is a combination of all the factors I listed in my previous comment.

A 30 year old man who got a job and just started a relationship may have in mind to marry in the next 1-3 years. While a boy who is 21 years old and dating an 18 year old girl, collecting pocket money from their parents don't even have clue.
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by Freshtomato(f): 11:02pm On Nov 19, 2014
STENON:
It is not "How Long" or "How Far" that you have been in the relationship,
It is about Maturity, the foundation of the relationship, Joy, Peace, Love, and How well the relationship is.

Need I say more?
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 11:41pm On Nov 19, 2014
Freshtomato:


Need I say more?
o ya,say more.........
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 11:45pm On Nov 19, 2014
jmoore:


It is a combination of all the factors I listed in my previous comment.

A 30 year old man who got a job and just started a relationship may have in mind to marry in the next 1-3 years. While a boy who is 21 years old and dating an 18 year old girl, collecting pocket money from their parents don't even have clue.
alryt sir
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by Freshtomato(f): 6:55am On Nov 20, 2014
borlarge:
o ya,say more.........

Mbanu! Read the post again....... Slowlygrin
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by kokoA(m): 7:49am On Nov 20, 2014
As soon as she gets pregnant.
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by BreezyRita(f): 7:59am On Nov 20, 2014
As long as it takes you to realise you're with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Long enough to make money too cheesy
Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by Dopeyomi(m): 8:25am On Nov 20, 2014
BreezyRita:
As long as it takes you to realise you're with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Long enough to make money too cheesy




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Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by olexjay(m): 8:30am On Nov 20, 2014
You can marry when you know u are capable to become a good husband and a good father, when you both know yourselves like and dislikes, when you able to understand yourself better, when the trust btw both of you are matured..... Marriage is not what one can just jumped into cos its a life time contract.

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Re: For How Long Should Somebody Be In Relationship Before Marriage by borlarge(m): 10:43pm On Nov 20, 2014
olexjay:
You can marry when you know u are capable to become a good husband and a good father, when you both know yourselves like and dislikes, when you able to understand yourself better, when the trust btw both of you are matured..... Marriage is not what one can just jumped into cos its a life time contract.
ok

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