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REASONS Why Women Cheat. by ladygold555(f): 9:14am On Nov 20, 2014
There are a lot of reasons why women cheat but those reasons don't matter. Cheating is wrong. It doesn't matter who is doing it or what the reason is. If you are unhappy enough in your relationship that cheating appears to be an option, leave the relationship. Below are ten of the most common reasons women cheat.
10: LACK OF DEFINITION IN A RELATIONSHIP
For some women out there, the rules of a relationship have to be clearly spoken in order for them to obey them. She may at least have to hear that she is in an exclusive, committed relationship to feel loyal.

09: FEELING TORN BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE
It's possible to have feelings for more than one person at the same time and that can be a confusing and frustrating experience, especially if the two people you have feelings for are different kinds of people. Sometimes women cheat because they feel scared to make the wrong decision not seeing that cheating is the worst decision of all.

08: FEELINGS OF INADEQUACY IN A RELATIONSHIP OR A LACK OF SECURITY IN A RELATIONSHIP
If a woman is constantly scared that she isn't good enough for her partner or doesn't feel secure in her relationship, she might seek out someone she's more equally matched for. This is more than an issue of self esteem.

07: FEELING UNAPPRECIATED BY A PARTNER
No one wants to feel like the person they are with doesn't appreciate them anymore. Maybe the woman doesn't feel her man is attracted to her anymore. Maybe she feels her man doesn't enjoy her company anymore. If she meets a man who does appreciate her more than the one she's with, she may cheat even if she still loves the person she's with.

06: SEXUAL ATTRACTION TO SOMEONE ELSE
If a woman is attracted to a man, she is just likely to act on it given the chance as a man. If it's a mutual attraction, despite the fact that the woman's in a relationship it could potentially lead to cheating
Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by FLAWLES(f): 9:24am On Nov 20, 2014
so this is d new evil on NL now?when u er suppose to gv 10 u givin us 6?bai commonm complete am quik quik
Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by ladygold555(f): 9:44am On Nov 20, 2014
05: BOREDOM
Women get bored just as much as men do. If a woman is feeling a lack of excitement in the bedroom, she may cheat just for the thrill of doing something she's not supposed to be doing.

04: ATTENTION
If a woman feels ignored by her partner she might cheat just to get that partner to pay her a little attention.

03: REVENGE
Cheat on the person who cheated on you. You had sex with that pretty lady from the bar? I'll have sex with that cute guy fro the gym. Often, cheating is how women get back at the person who cheated on them.
02: LACK OF GOOD MORAL FOUNDATION
By a certain age, women and men should really know the difference between right and wrong. For some people though, that difference isn't all that well defined. Someone without a good moral code may not really care whether cheating is wrong and might just be more inclined to do it just for fun.

01: LACK OF SELF ESTEEM
Sadly for a lot of women who cheat, the core reason isn't problems in the relationship or anything like that. It's a lack of self esteem. Being wanted and desired can make a woman feel good. It makes them feel more attractive or just better about themselves in general. For some women, that feeling is enough. Others however don't know how to say NO. They don't know the differnce between being flattered by someone's attention and feeling attracted to someone. The women need to find their confidence in themselves before they are really able to settle into a committed relationship.
Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by Nobody: 9:45am On Nov 20, 2014
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Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by Evina(f): 9:47am On Nov 20, 2014
00 Lack of contentment: when a woman has roving eyes, always wants more than she has at a time, in fact simply greedy.

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Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by ladygold555(f): 9:48am On Nov 20, 2014
FLAWLES:
so this is d new evil on NL now?when u er suppose to gv 10 u givin us 6?bai commonm complete am quik quik
Lol,It's complete now.
Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by Hazardd(m): 9:48am On Nov 20, 2014
Abeg come complete am
Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by Exponental(m): 9:55am On Nov 20, 2014
for both gender:
too much attention from opposite sex.
Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by Nobody: 12:13pm On Nov 20, 2014
Just because she can. cheesy
Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by Mprex(f): 2:03pm On Nov 20, 2014
Owk
Re: REASONS Why Women Cheat. by will1am: 2:07pm On Nov 20, 2014
Some women cheat for the thrill of the affair

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