Normally I don't write things about my private life but I have obliged this time cause I figured two head are better than one and I really need your help.

Am in a dilemma and don't know what to do cause two supposedly mature classy ladies are currently in love with me,and they are both fighting real hard to get my attention.
The problem is I don't like any of them that way and with the way things are going if I refused any of their advances I may be a victim on headline news.
I don't keep relationships cause I don't believe in love. That just me and am ok with it but seeing two beautiful ladies fight over a me is something I can't handle.
I adore women,I protect any women just like I care for my sisters and I don't want to cause any trouble to both of them cause their friendships mean a lot to me. Why do they have to develop that ridiculous feeling ahhh I can't take it anymore.
Please tell me what to do cause I get so inpatient and frustrated so easily when I don't act fast.
Whenever I get angry instead of getting violent on another person I just smash things and this tree beside me is already feeling it.
Help me before I loose my mind, I never thought I'll be in this situation I actually help people through this kinds of stuff.
Help me cause these girls are wasting their time, I can't love.

The nations cup will be boring without Nigeria participating.

op,tell them you cant love any of them shikena,this is nothing to worry about

faithugo64:
op,tell them you cant love any of them shikena,this is nothing to worry about

Thanks but the problem is how do I tell without Destroying everything

Eastherbunny:


Thanks but the problem is how do I tell without Destroying everything

which do you care more about, their feelings or your sanity??

chymystique:
Questions for the Newspapers.... Since your anger fit cook moi moi, I think the best solution to your dileMma is to Jump into a nearby Lagoon

Don't worry about my anger am a gentle person I have control it for so long it mostly last for a short period of time.

U wanna still have them as friends even tho u can't give in to their needs? That's just selfish man. Not everybody is meant to stay in ur life. What u don't want, then refuse it bluntly and stop dancing around like ants around a cube of sugar

ennon92:
The nations cup will be boring without Nigeria participating.

I don't know the problem of the super eagles. the head coach called Edward keshi is an epitome of failure, omeruo is a raw material, Mikel will last on bench until he leaves Chelsea and chase his dream by coming back to his state and contest for start house of assembly, musa is a disgrace to aboki people. lol

ennon92:
The nations cup will be boring without Nigeria participating.

Broda, like seriously?!!!

faithugo64:
which do you care more about, their feelings or your sanity??

No don't get me wrong the destroy I meant was our friendship we are friends and they both mean a lot to me.
My anger is not an issue I usually just cool down If I can just think and relax plus I don't get easily angry at people thanks anyway.

theorbiters:
U wanna still have them as friends even tho u can't give in to their needs? That's just selfish man. Not everybody is meant to stay in ur life. What u don't want, then refuse it bluntly and stop dancing around like ants around a cube of sugar

Can't I still be Friends with them cause they both develop feelings for me plus like I said I don't that way for them.

Eastherbunny:


Can't I still be Friends with them cause they both develop feelings for me plus like I said I don't that way for them.

Okay, lemme hit the nail. In case u haven't known, once a lady develops feelings for u, they are not ready to settle for 'Let's just be friends' crap. If they can't have u, either they wreck ur entire life or they leave u. The mature ones wud leave for a while, blaming themselves for falling for u, then they wud come back later and be like "I remember that time wen I had feelings for u'. Then the crazy ones wud wreck ur life and everyone that comes in it. So if u really don't feel the same way for them, then just say it to their face in a calm way and mean it. Don't try dancing to their tune while u play ur own music.

theorbiters:


Okay, lemme hit the nail. In case u haven't known, once a lady develops feelings for u, they are not ready to settle for 'Let's just be friends' crap. If they can't have u, either they wreck ur entire life or they leave u. The mature ones wud leave for a while, blaming themselves for falling for u, then they wud come back later and be like "I remember that time wen I had feelings for u'. Then the crazy ones wud wreck ur life and everyone that comes in it. So if u really don't feel the same way for them, then just say it to their face in a calm way and mean it. Don't try dancing to their tune while u play ur own music.

Thanks man