Hi everyone, read similiar posts about boyfriend issues and I'm here to present mine. I am unhappy and hurt.
My boyfriend of more than a year and I have been having problems. He cheated on me, I forgave him and we tried working things out. All of a sudden, he doesn't trust me anymore. Everytime he calls, It's always a problem, that I'm with other men and negative stuffs but as a good woman, i push that aside but he has made me feel so worthless and always fighting with me yet I'm the one always begging him. To cut the story short, something happened, he just called me and said I have a man right? I was speechless and when i wanted to talk, he said i shouldn't tell him anything stupid that he wouldn't believe, he said he had a girl too and he's happy, i didn't say a word and he hung up. Them I sent him a text and left him a voicemail, saying let God be the judge cos I never deserved such and I love him. Till today, I haven't heard from him.

Do you think he would get the same treatment he gave me i mean karma or so because he seemed so happy while I'm like a deadmeat. I dont even see myself sexy or happy or feel life.

Do you think he would regret this and come back.

now this is monicaaa wt a new id

Sweetie, let him go.

Hmmm so sad,but i think it was guilty conscience that was his problem so he acted before you did.I think you were a bit slow.But just move on and next time if a guy cheats on you discard him but forgive.

Buhaha haaaaaaaaaaaaa. Monicaa you don come back again?? After all we told you already?

Anita1:

Hi everyone, read similiar posts about boyfriend issues and I'm here to present mine. I am unhappy and hurt.
My boyfriend of more than a year and I have been having problems. He cheated on me, I forgave him and we tried working things out. All of a sudden, he doesn't trust me anymore. Everytime he calls, It's always a problem, that I'm with other men and negative stuffs but as a good woman, i push that aside but he has made me feel so worthless and always fighting with me yet I'm the one always begging him. To cut the story short, something happened, he just called me and said I have a man right? I was speechless and when i wanted to talk, he said i shouldn't tell him anything stupid that he wouldn't believe, he said he had a girl too and he's happy, i didn't say a word and he hung up. Them I sent him a text and left him a voicemail, saying let God be the judge because I never deserved such and I love him. Till today, I haven't heard from him.

Do you think he would get the same treatment he gave me i mean karma or so because he seemed so happy while I'm like a deadmeat. I don't even see myself sexy or happy or feel life.

Do you think he would regret this and come back.

So what are u still doing with him then, the relationship is obviously unhealthy for u, . . . . .

TOYOSI20:

So what are u still doing with him then, the relationship is obviously unhealthy for u, . . . . .

some people know when to leave, but they just love being heartbroken!!

women!!

regret what? Move on with your life

u lot have time to advise her,dis is monicaa,for real who is she deceiving? d new id just registered ystrday,wt same story line?

foolish girl

I hear ya, all it takes its actually acknowledging that the relationship is unhealthy,

and then having the courage, to leave, otherwise it becomes a vicious cycle

when these kind of sickening relationships become a pattern,it is sad,  

Ebony-Silk:

some people know when to leave, but they just love being heartbroken!!

women!!

whatever90:

now this is monicaaa wt a new id

Busy body⁰⁰¹, i don talk am say you no get rival

gurl as you have heard. please just move on with your life. Life is beautiful. just be careful and know the type of person u will date. stop dating animals.

unfortunately you didnt know he had dumped you before you knew, he was already tired of you and was looking for a way out.

Thank your God gurl that God gave him the courage to tell you so he wouldnt be playing you and wasting ur time. All the drama was a way to make you flight and end it all. See this as a good opportunity and blessing for someone that deserves u.

what is all this Monicaa about? Please I don't like this. If I am the one I'm not ashamed to post. Please I am not Anita. Abeg

@whatever90
u call me a foolish girl?? u r very stupid what the hell is all this about? I'm pissed. so because i came crying here bout my boyfriend, anytime some1 posts problems about relationship or boyfriend, it's me Please don't piss me off, i've decided to move on.


Anita pls u know yourself, help me tell these people

@Anita1
I was in a similiar situation, It hurt but I decided to move on so I think the best thing is to take ur mind off and move on.

nice 1 monicaaa, wotsup, u too muc,i hail abeg hw we fit take c,

monicaa vs whatever90?


_{no be small thing}

From a guy's perspective, that guy has got no love for you,

Dont let him waste ur time

190:

nice 1 monicaaa, wotsup, u too muc,i hail abeg hw we fit take c,

Chei! naija boys

its a pity but the truth is the guy is scared u'll hurt him someday dats y he acted the way he did. but he doesnt deserve u. move on wit ur life. u might need some time out of r/ship. r u in sch? time 2 give more time 2 ur studies. but dont see guys as all same cos it cud harm u in the long run. dont ever consider going back 2 dat guy cos he's not the repentant type. in anycase i wish u god's healing. cheer up. there'll be light @ the end of the tunnel. if u'r old enuf 4 married i think u shud watch out 4 a matured guy and think of settling down. good---------------------------luck 2 ya

Monicaa:

@whatever90
u call me a foolish girl?? u r very stupid   what the hell is all this about? I'm pissed. so because i came crying here bout my boyfriend, anytime someone posts problems about relationship or boyfriend, it's me  Please don't piss me off, i've decided to move on.


Anita please u know yourself, help me tell these people

keep deceiving yourself ,u shameless cow,who do u want to deceive?definitely not me,haahahahhahhahhahaha,the "karma and over a yr thing" gave u out,registered ystrday wt d same story line,do u think everybody is as daft and dumb as u r

oh by d way,u said u r not anita right?but i just confirmed ur ip address,both ip's r d same,so what do u have to say about that?

hahahahahah ur ip and anitas r d same?so monicaa shut up and stop disgracing urself even d more,u have been caught,so deal with it

shameless swine

@whatever90

Thanks

@Anita
Well its not so easy to forget about a guy u luv so dearly but u have to make a decison now, forget about him and dont carry memories of him to ur next date.

Stop grieving over spilt milk. If he is no longer interested in you, then let him go; its not by force. I strongly believe that if you are sincere as you claim, God would send you someone who would trust you and won't cheat on you anymore. So cheer up and move on with your life.

MOICA.HW FA NA U NOR JUST ANSWER ME SEF, NA SO WE GO DEY DEY
ABEG CONTROL ME MAK I TRIGER U

I just dey vex,

Na wa o Anita abi Monia, u must have really really loved dis guy different ids just for an issue on him? Men, that's love

Unfortunately, u just have to move on with ur life. He's done same. Whether karma catches up with him or not should not be ur business.

Take ur decision, stand by it no matter how difficult it may seem, u'd get ova it. people have lost loved and very dear ones to death and they are still living and lovin sumone else

What more sum1 who doesn't even care.

MOVE ON, DON'T BE CAUGHT STAGNANT. Move on Girl, u would be happier u did

monica and anita, u don hear so mak una move on, i am here, over here over here,why u dey dull i wud sweep u off ur feet within hours, try me and see ^{mak i com knee down dey beg}

anita=ashawo.