Hello people!..been reading lots and lots of stories on this section and today is my own day to post a story for advice..please advice generously..so here it goes..I have a boyfriend..at the beginning the relationship was just made in heaven we could talk like forever but he wasn't so open..close to three years later and its not so wonderful anymore..we talk maybe once a day,but we are not so involved in each other's lives anymore..he traveled out of the country twice without even giving me a call at the airport..I don't confide in him anymore and worst still I just moved from our base to another state..now,I met this really nice guy its been 6 months+..he isn't so cute physically but he is just so good character wise..he makes me laugh,we've been through some hard times together..he can't even get close to any other girl cos he loves me..now I have to chose..I really do feel happy and special with the 2nd guy can't even think of a life without him..I need your help dear Nairalanders help me decide..Thanks!

Of the two, which do u hav more love for?

Cutehector4u:
Of the two, which do u hav more love for?

my boyfriend..but he doesn't treat me well and lately I think I've been falling out of love with him

PrincesAsinya:
my boyfriend..but he doesn't treat me well and lately I think I've been falling out of love with him

now .... Whch do u think is more important in a rship, the guy loves u more dan u do or u love d guy more dan he does?

Its obvious d love btwn d first guy and u has faded-out.. As u guys dnt really give so much of a damn abt each other. M sure he'll be thinking less of u as u v Bn doing...

No one will make conclusions for u..
Jst follow ur heart..

This is just the problem with you girls, your fish brain always decieves you people. Peteru.

Cutehector4u:
now .... Whch do u think is more important in a rship, the guy loves u more dan u do or u love d guy more dan he does?

the guy loves me more dan I love him

PrincesAsinya:
the guy loves me more dan I love him

good..now fix ur mind on the second guy... Pls..thats d most important thing u would eva wish for...

Wonderlands:
This is just the problem with you girls, your fish brain always decieves you people. Peteru.

#ignore.

PrincesAsinya:
my boyfriend..but he doesn't treat me well and lately I think I've been falling out of love with him

talk to your bf tell him what you feel and if he does not change den you can go for the ugly guy

Cutehector4u:
good..now fix ur mind on the second guy... Pls..thats d most important thing u would eva wish for...

thank u so much

No matter what I tell u, u will still end up doing what u want to do. But the problem is that we think love is a feeling. Love is a decision, a choice and at times we make wrong choices.

PrincesAsinya:
thank u so much

u welcum

Stick to the not very handsome dude. Forget the one that ran away.

ERCROSS:
Its obvious d love btwn d first guy and u has faded-out.. As u guys dnt really give so much of a damn abt each other. M sure he'll be thinking less of u as u v Bn doing...

No one will make conclusions for u..
Jst follow ur heart..

Perfect answer.

Girls always think the grass is greener on the other side. What makes you think three years after, your relationship with this new guy won't go the way of your present relationship? A guy that has dated you for 3 solid years is far more reliable than this your new guy whose real intention you are not even sure of. Try and work things out with your boyfriend of 3 years if there is still a chance for that.

stick with the second guy because if you love the first guy, you wouldn't have fell for the second guy. btw, a bird at hand is worth 100 in the bush.
you confirmed that you are happier with the new guy so what else do you want?

A known devil is better than an unknown angel... It's just 6 months... Calm down give it more time and continue your friendship with him...

You choose who you love dear. I garner that you and your bf of 3 years have poor communication which is why you are transferring your need to share to the other dude.
Before you take any decision,try to have an honest heart felt discussion with the bf of 3 yrs and see what comes out of it.
3 years is not beans ooo. This could just be the test you have to pass to come out stronger.
All da best.

Go back to your chess/drawing board .,this is the first step to take in order to address this issue, because it is said if you dont know where you are going to remember where you are coming from ,. In addition ,you must realise where the rain met you on your way . Ponder on this few points then share your realisations ,so that we move forward,.

NOTA BENE ,please dont jump into conclusion yet,not all that gliters is gold

PrincesAsinya:
Hello people!..been reading lots and lots of stories on this section and today is my own day to post a story for advice..please advice generously..so here it goes..I have a boyfriend..at the beginning the relationship was just made in heaven we could talk like forever but he wasn't so open..close to three years later and its not so wonderful anymore..we talk maybe once a day,but we are not so involved in each other's lives anymore..he traveled out of the country twice without even giving me a call at the airport..I don't confide in him anymore and worst still I just moved from our base to another state..now,I met this really nice guy its been 6 months+..he isn't so cute physically but he is just so good character wise..he makes me laugh,we've been through some hard times together..he can't even get close to any other girl cos he loves me..now I have to chose..I really do feel happy and special with the 2nd guy can't even think of a life without him..I need your help dear Nairalanders help me decide..Thanks!

been through hard times . ie he gives you money .