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Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by Nobody: 6:42am On Nov 26, 2014
alutacontinua:


You have got to be kidding me shocked shocked shocked
The things naija women do in the name of keeping a man lipsrsealed
Hian! undecided

She is not even married to the man and it seems the man has even told her upfront that no serious thing can come out of the relationship yet she is so desperate to keep him that she will add more work for doctors because she obviously has little value for her own life and health.

She needs a huge dose of esteem, very very sad what our girls do to keep a man by fire by force

vice A Single Mother by dosht(f): 3:20pm On Jun 30
I Hate Being a Single Mother
I have been alone ever since I found out I
was pregnant with my daughter at 20. I
have never been married and have no
other children . I thought things were
going to be ok because i am in my early 20s
I have experienced rejection like I never
thought was possible . I only recently
started dating again , and no one wants to
go out with me because I have a child .

I never thought that being a single mother
would make me that undesirable. I don ' t
need a man for financial support for my
daughter, I am ok parenting her
alone . ..but no one wants to go out with
me .
If I thought that my life would be
destroyed by this , I may have chosen
abortion.. b/ c what good am I as a mother
if I am miserable all the time? I used to
be ok being single, but in my age group ,
no married mothers want anything to do
with me .. .they associate with other
married mothers. I have invited these
women to lunch and they always find a
reason to decline . My single girlfriends
don ' t call me for anything because I
always have to make arrangements for a
sitter .
The one guy I have been seeing has made
it clear that we can date , but to never
expect anything permanent with him
because he didn ' t want to raise someone
else ' s child . I find myself still seeing this
person because I am so miserable from
being alone all of the time, that it ' s my
only outlet to get out of the house and
have an adult conversation or enjoyment .
I never , ever in my wildest dreams
believed it could be this bad. It' s making
me resent my child .. .and she has done
nothing wrong.
NO INSULT PLS

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Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by stinggy(m): 7:03am On Nov 26, 2014
sexybash:
Belle don enter oh again
My boy na just six months oh

Nice one smiley
Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by ideee03(f): 11:42am On Nov 26, 2014
No worry
emmysoftyou:
how u mean
Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by sexybash(f): 11:53am On Nov 26, 2014
@ single mother you have to learn to love your. Self
It's not all about man and relationships
Go on vacation if you can afford it
Avoid self pity
Any man that can't love your child
Can't love you
Its only a matter of time
What a nerve of the fool
Work on your self esteem
It's really low

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Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by miss20(f): 7:49am On Nov 27, 2014
babyosisi:


Ewww

Is this supposed to make you a loving wife?
This paints you and husband as very irresponsible and careless people , especially you
The doctors say 6-8 of no vag,inal sex for a reason
You no get mouth?
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by Nobody: 9:18am On Nov 27, 2014
aisha2:


She is not even married to the man and it seems the man has even told her upfront that no serious thing can come out of the relationship yet she is so desperate to keep him that she will add more work for doctors because she obviously has little value for her own life and health.

She needs a huge dose of esteem, very very sad what our girls do to keep a man by fire by force

vice A Single Mother by dosht(f): 3:20pm On Jun 30
I Hate Being a Single Mother
I have been alone ever since I found out I
was pregnant with my daughter at 20. I
have never been married and have no
other children . I thought things were
going to be ok because i am in my early 20s
I have experienced rejection like I never
thought was possible . I only recently
started dating again , and no one wants to
go out with me because I have a child .

I never thought that being a single mother
would make me that undesirable. I don ' t
need a man for financial support for my
daughter, I am ok parenting her
alone . ..but no one wants to go out with
me .
If I thought that my life would be
destroyed by this , I may have chosen
abortion.. b/ c what good am I as a mother
if I am miserable all the time? I used to
be ok being single, but in my age group ,
no married mothers want anything to do
with me .. .they associate with other
married mothers. I have invited these
women to lunch and they always find a
reason to decline . My single girlfriends
don ' t call me for anything because I
always have to make arrangements for a
sitter .
The one guy I have been seeing has made
it clear that we can date , but to never
expect anything permanent with him
because he didn ' t want to raise someone
else ' s child . I find myself still seeing this
person because I am so miserable from
being alone all of the time, that it ' s my
only outlet to get out of the house and
have an adult conversation or enjoyment .
I never , ever in my wildest dreams
believed it could be this bad. It' s making
me resent my child .. .and she has done
nothing wrong.
NO INSULT PLS

So she is a single mother? And she came here to beat chest for 'The best woman to cut her V.agina to please a man's d1ck' award? Becos dem dey share 1 million naira for that one? And the men are busy praising her!! grin grin grin No wonder she dodged the Op's question. Can you imagine the f.00lishness?

Women, learn to give yourselves some self esteem. You dnt allow your V.agina to rest from a painful childbirth. No wonder men continue to mess you people up upon all the suffering wey una dey like suffer for them.

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Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by emmysoftyou: 12:13pm On Nov 27, 2014
ideee03:
No worry
i no dey warri ,i dey ....
Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by justitiaomnibus(m): 1:22pm On Dec 01, 2014
Daresh:


You are a foolish woman. After 3 weeks to please him. You can infect yourself and cause serious pain. Where you not still bleeding?

So he cannot self-service off? Did your doctor not tell you 6 weeks?

Foolish foolish woman.
But why u take am personal?

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Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by toygod2: 3:12am On Jun 06, 2015
thank God i got this thread back
Re: After Childbirth How Long Can You Wait Before Sexual Intercourse??? by tpiadotcom: 3:14am On Jun 06, 2015
emmysoftyou:
Urge is a strong thing that demand urgent need for mankind..
So if situation like this occurrs,
What do we do..
This is a question that demand urgent constructive answer
with wisdoms and knowledge....

After childbirth how long can you wait before commencing on sexual activities again




Let your brain tell you what you should do.

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