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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by 4C2215131: 1:58pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
humilitypays: Nigga please! 1 Like |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by 4C2215131: 2:08pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Elesta: You my friend, have your work cut out for you. You'll find yourself in dire straits with this trait of yours not only in matters of societal relationships but also in your career. No boss can condone insubordination from a subordinate (read: dis-obedience and a subliminal display of pride and aloofness) on the job. Do work on this failing of yours (yes, it is a failing, don't ever be deceived into thinking it's a compliment or strength). |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 2:30pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
4C2215131: U might b right but mine isn't to d extreme. I obey my boss at work,its only when it gets too much and if he/she does it in an extremely derogatory way that I become stubborn |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by 4C2215131: 2:54pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Elesta: Your boss IS your boss. There are ways you can express your reservation to his/her attitude bar stubbornness. NOBODY yourself inclusive like stubborn people. In fact by conceding to your bosses demand on the job (not extra work issues) despite his/her uncouth attitude, you end up appearing stronger and wiser thus making him/her look like the idiota he/she really is. So, do work on it. You'll be all the better for it. Trust me, I know. 1 Like |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 2:56pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
4C2215131: Sounds good. Thanks, but how do I deal wit extra hours?last week I was forced to stay extra hours to do work that is originally his |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by 4C2215131: 3:04pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Elesta: Does your firm have a policy with regard to "extra time"?. Again, you used the term "forced". Can you elucidate further with regrads to this. This is so I can advise you better. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by DieeDiee: 3:11pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Elesta: If it's nothing urgent you simply tell him you have plans, grab your bag and say bye - don't even give him a chance to say no. Or if it's not part of your job description you tell him. If he raises hell you remind him of your employment contract - that's why it's there. It states in black and white your duties and your work hours and that is all you are legally obliged to do outside those parameters, it's goodwill. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by LewisO: 3:19pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
VickyyB:Mehn! This "Ego" is too hign... |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by LewisO: 3:22pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
VickyyB:Mehn! This "Ego" is too high... |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Obienesarah: 3:46pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Misogynist2014:Na so we dey hear. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Sunbellar: 4:09pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
AmberQueen: Atimes it's scary knowing someone +ve |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by adabeke12(f): 8:11pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
geniuzio: Absolutely! |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 8:43pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 8:43pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 9:54pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
9/10...am sure of that,no one is perfect though. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 10:20pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
4C2215131: Eh....when what?! Please finish that statement. I'm dying of curiosity...... |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by daveP(m): 10:29pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
AmberQueen: you just remember me today? Sinceeeeeee.... Well ive been good. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 10:32pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
No mind me jare... Alot of water passin under d bridge of life & me is just trying to stay afloat. Good to hear. How's dat Chemistry assignment goin? daveP: |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by daveP(m): 11:18pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
AmberQueen:all iz well! You're still in Nigeria? Yeah ive dissected it halfway-quantum numbers. Tell me youre good in chemistry? Oya come and tutor me small. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by 4C2215131: 12:25am On Dec 07, 2014 |
Chiadanin: You sure know what I'm talking about...you sure do. Just take some time out to think and you'll grasp what I'm trying to intimate. If you still cannot comprehend, then I promise to spell it out to you ( i doubt it'll happen though as you seem like an intellectual, so, I seriously suspect you know where I'm coming from). |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 5:31am On Dec 07, 2014 |
4C2215131: Lol!. Dude (or dudette), ur killing me. Spill it............no clue what ur on about. Ru drunk? No drunk typing yknow. Hehe. Jk. But really, |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by 4C2215131: 8:18am On Dec 07, 2014 |
Chiadanin: With all due respect Madam, I take exception to your addressing me as possibly being "drunk". Maybe you meant it lightly, just irked me a bit as I don't hit my keyboard for the fun of it...if I have nothing to contribute to a post by way of a philosophical contribution, healthy debate or a witty comment, I stay my hands and hold my peace. Again, I never meant to play the mind game this whole reparte is turning out to be so, my apologies for not being overly lucid with respect to my earlier post. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 8:42am On Dec 07, 2014 |
Yeah am still in Nigeria... Uh oh! I dn't know a thn about chemistry... Was an art student. Sowii daveP: |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 11:29am On Dec 07, 2014 |
4C2215131: He imposed it on me, its normally rotated within d team.But its originally his job.If u refuse to do it,its seen as insubordination,but its not under my job description |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 11:31am On Dec 07, 2014 |
DieeDiee: He imposed it on me, its normally rotated within d team.But its originally his job.If u refuse to do it,its seen as insubordination,but its not under my job description |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by DieeDiee: 2:06pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
Elesta: It really depends on your labour laws and how well they protect employees as well as your company policy then but if it's not in your contract or job description or it doesn't have bearing on your duties then you should be able to say no straight out. I've done it before and I said it to my company director, I even told him to watch me walk out. We both knew he couldn't force me to stay and if he tried to make my life miserable after that I would just take him to labour court but like I said it depends on your labour laws. The only problem now is because you and your colleagues allowed it to happen if you turn back now you will seem like you are being difficult but you should still be within your legal rights to say no. Your manager is abusing his power. The second alternative is to lay complaint with HR if you have the department but I suggest you first talk to him in private and remind him it's not your job. If he becomes mean or is dismissive then take it to HR or his superior but bear in mind he'll probably hate you and try to get back at you. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 2:31pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
DieeDiee: Mehhhn u are so on point,like u know exactly how d matter is. My colleagues accepted it because everyone is afraid of their job,because of the uncertainty of d job itself. It's not easy,thanks a lot for ur help |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 2:59pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
4C2215131: I am very sorry it came across that way. Clearly a misunderstanding. That "drunk"comment was said lightheartedly. No offence meant. Please dont take my comments that seriously. Can we shake on it then ? Friends? |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 7:36pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
U ll find such a lady in d grave! |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by charlove(m): 2:49pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
Chiadanin: nice meeting you, cheers! |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 4:24pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
BellaBambina: Word! |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 4:27pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
bushdoc9919: I thank you. |
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