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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 4:28pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
andromida:thanks deary |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 1:05am On Dec 16, 2014 |
CityNG:see as you turn everything UPSIDEDOWN. Ha! Anyway even false Prophets can turn the bible UPSIDEDOWN and make Jesus and Moses look like gang bandits. *OP winks and sips a cup of coffee* |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 1:12am On Dec 16, 2014 |
princeozzilly: E be as e get. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 1:15am On Dec 16, 2014 |
bushdoc9919:Oga madam, I won't be wrong if I presume that you use recommended glasses. If you don't then you're far too late and needs one. Where in this post did I talk about a perfect wife? Even the word "perfect" didn't appear anywhere in my post. Since when has "good" become a synonyme for "perfect"? Abeg park well joor. Must you reply a post if you don't have any valid rebuttal? |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 1:52am On Dec 16, 2014 |
princeozzilly: Good am I recieved your post with the right amount of warm and benevolent feeling. First, I happen to be a male, in case you did not notice. Second,I read your list.And I still stand by what I wrote. Marriage isn't about what you want , or what your wife wants. It is about you being your wife's servant, and vice versa. If you do not want to be dissapointed in your marital relationship, better forget about your list. Because in my long years of living on this earth, I have found out that people are imperfect. They disappoint you. They make you sad. They are not so good looking after a few years. They may give off some bad odor at times. And so on. The lesson for you(and for me...I am after all a single man)...is that you do not need a well disciplined,beautiful wife...etc. No. You need to first learn the truth of Jesus's words. Love one another. Because if you do not learn how to love people.....EVEN when they do not meet all your specifications....you will get no where in your relationships. (Especially when that perfect wife is not so perfect five years down the line.....it happens.). Love people, even when they do not meet your specifications.That is what you need to do. That's all. Good morning. P.S I suggest you read this article Marriage isn't for you by Seth Adam Smith. Quote from the article... [size=13pt]''No, a true marriage (and true love) is never about you. It's about the person you love--their wants, their needs, their hopes, and their dreams. Selfishness demands, "What's in it for me?" while Love asks, "What can I give?"[/size] Hope you get it? |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 9:13am On Dec 17, 2014 |
bushdoc9919:Thanks for not taking offence. I was only kidding. Now, I don't think you still get my point, I never mentioned that people should seek a perfect wife. I also didn't mean that everyone should seek a good wife. I innocently made a list on how to identify a good wife and told babes to rate em'selves. A lady may possess 5, 6 or even 8 out of these features. Nothing on that list is extra-ordinary because I Know some ladies do possess em'charaxters. My mum has almost all these xteristics. Even my friend's wife has em as well so wot's the big deal about that. We live in a polluted world where internet and other social media now influence and modify our behaviour. Back in the early 80s when there was not a rampant case of homosexuality, internet fraud, 419, plastic surgeries etc, today Its a different ball game. If our ladies are less influenced by foreign cultures and way of life, attaining these features in my list will be a piece a cake. Good morning |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Adinije(f): 10:28am On Dec 17, 2014 |
While u are searching for a good wife material, make sur u are a good husband material. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 5:01am On Dec 18, 2014 |
koyyes:That you've never met such woman doesn't mean they don't exist. My mum has em qualities and my mother-in-law too. Also one of my Friend's wife as well. Are all these people robots? Well, check yourself, your peers, your neigbourhood etc to be sure you aint surrounded by bad people who don't possess all/some of these qualities. You may have to relocate to the desert untill further Notice till we get you a better environment. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by koyyess: 12:34pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
princeozzilly:Oh please, spare me the talk. Just as decency means differents things to different people. I can bet that the people you gave as examples didn't display all the qualities you listed If their partners did not display the same qualities. Don't get ahead of yourself and don't insinuate my immediate environment- it would mean suicide to bank on it. Right here, we don't raise our females to be morons but intelligent beings. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Rapsodee(m): 6:16pm On Jan 02, 2015 |
hmmm |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 7:08am On Jan 13, 2015 |
VickyyB:As op I can only manage to score you 2/10. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 7:41am On Jan 13, 2015 |
koyyess:You are dead right, in showing how to identify a good wife, I did not insinuate that men are excused from being good and decent. Light must beget light and darkness must beget darkness. The only point I hold on to is that these qualities aren't from space or planet pluto, being a good wife is as simple as ABC. |
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by charlove(m): 10:54am On Jan 16, 2015 |
i'l like to know u more can i? |
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