I just got a girl to myself who said yes to my proposal (congratulate me biko, e nor easy )... She is cool and we both are excited, but noticed lately the 'i love you' statement has been so common. It made me wonder, how often is one to tell his Gf/Bf i love you? Does it have boundaries or does it become less efficient if said always? Does it expire?



Let the thread begin

Like always

Once in a blue moon....that phrase is now So common.

twice every decade

When I'm about to stay late or hangout with the buddies

ammyluv2002:
Like always

ThankGod a lady replied in this format.
My question to you... Don't you ladies feel tired of always hearing it from your bf? Don't you water it down cos it now feels like normal and you know anything cheap losses value!
Please write from experience!

SeverusSnape:
Once in a blue moon....that phrase is now So common.

Then you'll be accused of not caring ni!

ammyluv2002:
Like always

Hell Yeah. No limit.
Anytime one feel like saying it.

IamLEGEND1:
twice every decade

Hmmmm.... Decade kor! Decoder ni!
That's like you really don't care abt the babe now

Aprime:


Hell Yeah. No limit.
Anytime one feel like saying it.

Are you serious?
As a guy do u always tell that to your babe? Don't you think it will loose its value

Freest:

Then you'll be accused of not caring ni!

No way!...action speaks louder than words, saying "I love you" every minute is not a sign of caring. you know the popular saying; TALK IS CHEAP. Hope you get my point?

SeverusSnape:

No way!...action speaks louder than words, saying "I love you" every minute is not a sign of caring. you know the popular saying; TALK IS CHEAP. Hope you get my point?

Yeah i do.... But what of when it comes to a distant relationship where actions are evitable or not even recognized

Freest:

Yeah i do.... But what of when it comes to a distant relationship where actions are evitable or not even recognized

Well, you did not specify. If it's a long distance relationship, then it's imperative to always assure her by saying "I love you"

ellguapo:
When I'm about to stay late or hangout with the buddies

That's more like bribery and corruption
Atleast you say it cos u want her to understand and not persecute u

SeverusSnape:

Well, you did not specify. If it's a long distance relationship, then it's imperative to always assure her by saying "I love you"

Kkk...
Thanks

At all times but chiefly with your actions.

jnrbayano:
At all times but chiefly with your actions.

K... You mean actions can cover up for words huh
When you mean all times, won't ladies see you as being predictable? What of the value behind the words?

But seriously I find it hard to say I love you to any of my Gf's...



Lucifer have mercy.

Once in a century

Lol! @congratulate me e no easy. Funny stuff

Anyways, congratulations OP on your new found love, I hope it brings you joy, fun and laughter and also do hope it last. Let her better be your last bus stop coz we no go congratulate you no more hehe.

Telling your bf/gf I love you should have no limits, when you feel the love in the air just let the other person know, it's a great way to assure our partner that I am still in love with you and nothing has or will change it, that my commitment to you stands and my loyalty is same as when we first kicked off our lovey dovey affair.

kelvinmuffins3:
But seriously I find it hard to say I love you to any of my Gf's...



Lucifer have mercy.

Why
Or perhaps you really don't love them upto voicing it out huh?

As many times as i wish

mesoade:
Once in a century

Does it have a side effect saying it often

Mprex:
As many times as i wish

Do you appreciate it if its said to you many times daily? Does it loose value in ur sight if ur bf says it often? Be frank pls

Freest:

That's more like bribery and corruption
Atleast you say it cos u want her to understand and not persecute u

Naah alibi

My brother a man says I love you to is woman when ever she satisfies his desire.

Freest:

Why
Or perhaps you really don't love them upto voicing it out huh?

Chairman na so I see am o..

ronald4lif:
Lol! @congratulate me e no easy. Funny stuff

Anyways, congratulations OP on your new found love, I hope it brings you joy, fun and laughter and also do hope it last. Let her better be your last bus stop coz we no go congratulate you no more hehe.

Telling your bf/gf I love you should have no limits, when you feel the love in the air just let the other person know, it's a great way to assure our partner that I am still in love with you and nothing has or will change it, that my commitment to you stands and my loyalty is same as when we first kicked off our lovey dovey affair.

Oh dear...
Thanks for congratulating me... I hope this is my last as i ain't getting any younger...

Yeah! I get your point. Just hope the opp sex feel same way cos they have their peculiar way og thinking. When appreciate things rare and underappreciated things common or they get easily. Thats my fear... Abuse of it!!!

Freest:

Do you appreciate it if its said to you many times daily? Does it loose value in ur sight if ur bf says it often? Be frank pls

no, it doesnt lose its value for a moment. So long its coming from a sincere heart, its still very special

kelvinmuffins3:




Chairman na so I see am o..

Chai... Hope ur gf(s) nor dey Nl...
But na una dey gv us bad name dey make husband scarce!!!

Cholls:
My brother a man says I love you to is woman when ever she satisfies his desire.

Na business
Must it be about transactions??

Mprex:

no, it doesnt lose its value for a moment. So long its coming from a sincere heart, its still very special

Kkk...
So how do u tell if the heart is sincere at that point? Or if its just a business transaction like that oga above claimed?