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"Just Friends" And What Ladies Must Understand. by CaniiiceDim(m): 7:17am On Dec 05, 2014
THE GUY'S WORLD
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As a guy,
Have you experienced a situation whereby a lady would be coming so close to you,
and when you see that as a 'greenlight' and try to 'toast' her,
She would start giving you attitude like;

"No Dear, I Would Like Us To Be Just Friends - No Strings Attached."

Ladies don't just get it.
You Cannot Formalize The Initiation Of A JUST-FRIEND-PALLEY.
By asking a guy to be just friends with you, you re equally asking him to treat you and see you as if you re a guy.
That's ok.
But then, that kind of friendship happens naturally on it's own.
It doesn't start with a formal agreement.

Come to think of it;
Can a mature guy walk up to his fellow guy and ask him; "Bro, I want us to be friend" ?
Yuck.... That's gay !!!
Guys become friends by finding common grounds between and among themselves.
They gist and find themselves interesting and before you know it, they ve hit it up as best of friends.

So, if as a lady, you desire just friendship with a dude, why not do it the guys' way.
Afterall, you re asking him to see you as a guy.
Or are you his sister ? Lolzz
When you want him to lend you money, for instance,
note that he has two other set of women he has to consider before knowing if there is enough money to lend you.
They are; His sister(s) and His Girlfriend(s).You come third.
Sorry,
I forgot to add his mother,,, so you came fourth. Hehehe

Well, furthermore,
you will become an enemy to a guy you re just friends with, when he starts giving more time to his babe(s) than you, and you start complaining.
Like WTF ?
You no be Just-A-Friend again?
Again,
as a "just friend",
you have to inquire when he 'll be free so you guys can meet up, and if he ain't free at all due to his attention to his sweet babe(s),,, Then, get busy with other things and don't complain.
That how guys do it.

Babe, If you wanna be "just friends" with a guy,
You must observe guys' rules, cos to him, you re automatically a guy too.
Yes ke...
That's how we condition our minds to see ladies wey we like, but they no wan friend us. Lolzz

If you still wonder what these rules are,
Read this article again.
Re: "Just Friends" And What Ladies Must Understand. by ITbomb(m): 8:04am On Dec 05, 2014
If she says just friends then you become just friends nah, stop the free money, Recharge, attention. Call her only when you think you can get something from her (yeah that's what guys do as friends), discuss about some new catch with her
Re: "Just Friends" And What Ladies Must Understand. by CaniiiceDim(m): 8:23am On Dec 05, 2014
ITbomb:
If she says just friends then you become just friends nah, stop the free money, Recharge, attention. Call her only when you think you can get something from her (yeah that's what guys do as friends), discuss about some new catch with her
. Tualeee for you, bro,,, Hehehehehe
Re: "Just Friends" And What Ladies Must Understand. by Nobody: 8:28am On Dec 05, 2014
Re: "Just Friends" And What Ladies Must Understand. by IamLEGEND1: 8:30am On Dec 05, 2014
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