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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 10:45pm On Mar 24, 2015
kandiikane, can u answer my question, pls? i want to know, tnx

kandiikane:
People are talking as if they did not go to school. Smh!


Op, as you grow older your hymen doesn't stay the same as it was when you were born. Your hymen most likely eroded on it's own. Many v!rgin women just have bits and pieces of the hymen left and even if you have the whole hymen, there is no guarantee you will bleed. Is your husband an illiterate? He could read books you know. Tell him to read.

Smh!
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by kandiikane(m): 10:46pm On Mar 24, 2015
aflyingbird:
kandiikane, can u answer my question, pls?


What question?
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 10:47pm On Mar 24, 2015
kandiikane:


What question?

aflyingbird:

or can massaging the top cause a woman to lose her virginity and not bleed when she finally has sexx ?
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 10:48pm On Mar 24, 2015
sage2:


You endlessly finger-fuccked yourself with gusto and yet still have the guts to utter this rubbish, "grin fact that i kept myself for my husband all these yrs and he doesnt even blv me hurts so bad". Some women are heartless.
kept herself for her husband ko! Don't mind her, Hypocrite. I'm sure when de ask virgins to stand up, she too will stand up, not knowin that with her hands she does all the sexual styles, whether missionary style, doggiiie syle and complete the square style.

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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by xandy84: 10:51pm On Mar 24, 2015
Your husband must be an amateur to believe every girls bleeds. I had disvirgin 9 girls and 3 out of the nine did not bleed. Some of them just felt the pains while other bleed. In fact, the bleeding piss me off cos i had to wash my beds spread then but am born again now and old things has pass away.
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by kandiikane(m): 10:52pm On Mar 24, 2015
aflyingbird:



The top as in the vul.vaa? No, you do not break your virginity by doing that. Bleeding is not honestly the true indication of virginity as non-virgins can sometimes bleed too.

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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Chikere2: 10:53pm On Mar 24, 2015
Thank God am literate, if am to choose again, i will choose to be literate. Be literate, be liberated.
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by onoja12: 10:53pm On Mar 24, 2015
To who


ammyluv2002:
Virginity is a big deal
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 10:53pm On Mar 24, 2015
ohh ok, tnx miss

kandiikane:


The top as in the vul.vaa? No, you do not break your virginity by doing that. Bleeding is not honestly the true indication of virginity as non-virgins can sometimes bleed too.

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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 10:54pm On Mar 24, 2015
Setaje:
Now I no a lot of guys are very clueless. U seem to believe women only get pleasure through penetration. U people should read. Understand women and stop being selfish. See all the nonsense am reading sha.



Op, try and read too. From a very young age I was told that women can brake their hymen through various ways wivout the actual act taking place. Number one, when a woman engages in sporting activities a lot, rigorous exercises, accidents, etc. It is possible ur own don break long long time ago. Doesn't mean u are not a virgin.
who is talkin about pleasure here. A case was brought before this honourable court and the defendant said that her hubby did not believe he was the one that broke the seal of authenticity, meanwhile, the same defendant claim that she has been using her own hand to break the said seal. What seems glaring here is that the lady has sold a fairly usedd good to the Respondent/plantiff as a new one, and that is scamming by all standards.

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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nicklaus(m): 10:55pm On Mar 24, 2015
firstEVA:
abeg jor, it's penis that disvirgins nothing else.
where are you from?
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by UGLYS: 10:56pm On Mar 24, 2015
xandy84:
Your husband must be an amateur to believe every girls bleeds. I had disvirgin 9 girls and 3 out of the nine did not bleed. Some of them just felt the pains while other bleed. In fact, the bleeding piss me off cos i had to wash my beds spread then but am born again now and old things has pass away.

I am doubtful of your new life. 9 Virgins, na sacrifice? shocked

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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Setaje(f): 10:56pm On Mar 24, 2015
lrguru:
who is talkin about pleasure here. A case was brought to this court and the defendant said that her hubby did not believe he was the one that broke the seal of authenticity, meanwhile, the same defendant claim that she has been using her own hand to break the said seal. What seems glaring here is that the lady has sold a fairly usedd good to the Respondent/plantiff as a new one, and that is scamming by all standards.


Hahahahahahahhahahaha. Abeg limmme ooo grin
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by ussy09(m): 10:56pm On Mar 24, 2015
Platnum1:
I knw I self serviced but thats different from actual sex with a man.u knw d second entails alot
who knws weda d toy dat u use in self servicing is bigger and longer dan hubby's joy stick
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Ojah1986(m): 10:57pm On Mar 24, 2015
U're not a virgin but ur husband is d first man to make love to u... Cos u disvirgin urself by self servicing
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by darlenese(f): 11:01pm On Mar 24, 2015
You obviously don't know the meaning of virginity!
U can't claim to be a virgin when u have no HYMEN!
U took ur virginity along time ago while pleasuring urself,
For a better understanding
The presence of d hymen is what makes u a virgin, and once it's broken it's bye to virginity cry
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by braine(m): 11:01pm On Mar 24, 2015
AlphaDibia:


Backward men take all that serious. We're all humans with blood and hormones that triggers our sensations. We almost always have to act on those sensibilities. We Nigerian men need to educate themselves. We're still Learners.
there are things you'll take and those same things I'd detest. Every man is not the same.

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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by UjSizzle(f): 11:02pm On Mar 24, 2015
There's a very educating article on the web (NL Health section too) about this bleeding phenomenon. Not all virgins bleed apparently and for very good reasons. Try using google search and let your husband educate himself.
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by braine(m): 11:02pm On Mar 24, 2015
upsonn:


Did you guy sweet before penetrating ur pusy? Or he enter d place easy...?
Are you asking me?
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by scandybuono: 11:05pm On Mar 24, 2015
Not all gals bleed wen dey dis virgin oo,besides lik som 1 said,wat really d big deal in virginity,especially @ dis day and age,if he really loves and care abt u,den why shuld ur virginity be a big deal,especially since. Ur now married,pls jus let d matter rest as long as u knw he was d only one,dnt bother ur head,he will get over it
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 11:07pm On Mar 24, 2015
thank God I 'll marry the girl I disvirgined..lucky me. she even love me more..

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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by andyanders: 11:07pm On Mar 24, 2015
The guy is stupid and useless to think to act like that. If the op truly self serviced as she said and if she did explain to the guy as to what she was into and the guy still doesn't believe her then something is wrong with the guy because he married her because of her virginity and not love.

This is going to be a problem along the line unless the guy changes. Never will he ever believe her even when she is telling any truth.

This also should serve as a lesson to some ladies who fail to open up to tell someone about her past when going into relationship. Op should have told the guy that she normally was self servicing before they got married and I believe the man wouldn't have taken offence after.The lady knowing fully well of her past, should have taken steps to open up before proceeding with the marriage. Also for the man to have acted this way goes to show that he was bleeping other women and was reserving her for the d day but was disappointed.
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nicklaus(m): 11:10pm On Mar 24, 2015
kandiikane:


The top as in the vul.vaa? No, you do not break your virginity by doing that. Bleeding is not honestly the true indication of virginity as non-virgins can sometimes bleed too.
just what I ve been meaning to see. Yes I have had a bed chat with one who wasn't a V but bled like one.
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 11:13pm On Mar 24, 2015
What is our business nah?




undecided


Platnum1:
I have been married for 5 months now.I lost my virginity to my husband but he doesn't blv cos I didn't bleed. I was use to pleasuring myself with my fingers before now,maybe that's why I didnt bleed,I don't knw. D fact that i kept myself for my husband all these yrs and he doesnt even blv me hurts so bad. How do I get over this and not let it hurt me so much?
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nicklaus(m): 11:14pm On Mar 24, 2015
lrguru:
who is talkin about pleasure here. A case was brought before this honourable court and the defendant said that her hubby did not believe he was the one that broke the seal of authenticity, meanwhile, the same defendant claim that she has been using her own hand to break the said seal. What seems glaring here is that the lady has sold a fairly usedd good to the Respondent/plantiff as a new one, and that is scamming by all standards.
funny grin
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 11:14pm On Mar 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Virginity is a big deal

If we go find virgin, who we go marry? I don't believe this should be a criteria for a spouse. How would you feel if I am dating you, then ask you for virginity test?
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by peteruuu(m): 11:16pm On Mar 24, 2015
Ndo
pele
sorry o undecided

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Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by lorelife(m): 11:17pm On Mar 24, 2015
dnt ova wory urself. Was he a virgin wen u mate with him? Lighten up sis, u've got a life 2 live.
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nicklaus(m): 11:18pm On Mar 24, 2015
braine:
there are things you'll take and those same things I'd detest. Every man is not the same.
You ve got the brains cheesy
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by rabbaba: 11:20pm On Mar 24, 2015
U lost ur virginity to ur self na. How can u expect ur husband to blv u. Even me can not blv dat. Pls let d man b. If I may ask is ur husband a virgin ? Pls park one side with this ur story joor
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by bennnamdi: 11:20pm On Mar 24, 2015
did the man marry u because you told him you were a virgin? because his action portrays that. Tell him to see stin beyond virginity and allow d marriage grow. 5 mths is so small to start lookig into things that make no meaning. Is your husband a Virgin too....
Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 24, 2015
Platnum1:
I have been married for 5 months now.I lost my virginity to my husband but he doesn't blv cos I didn't bleed. I was use to pleasuring myself with my fingers before now,maybe that's why I didnt bleed,I don't knw. D fact that i kept myself for my husband all these yrs and he doesnt even blv me hurts so bad. How do I get over this and not let it hurt me so much?

stop deceiving yourself and ur hubby
it takes hours of frustration to break a lady's virginity and will be as clear as day
if he doubts it then you are not one

moreover, what kind of man cries over virginity? is he a virgin himself?

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