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10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by hapheeyxz: 12:12am On Dec 11, 2014
10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male friends

1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will
automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems.
2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on
your finger,
you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go
everywhere
together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces
you to his
friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he
puts a legal
ring on your finger.
3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the
right to
demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage
are totally
different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that
doesn’t give
him the right to demand wife duties from you.
4. Some men demand that you cook for them,
organise their
apartment and give them sex to prove that you are
good wife
material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells
you that
wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in
with him
because that will automatically make you his ‘in-
house-mistr
ess’ who will perform all his wife duties for him
without the
commitment of marriage.
5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts
that ring on
your finger. Some men demand that you should
submit to them
because you are dating. If he wants you to submit
to him when
you are not dating, just think of what he would do
to you if you
are married to him. This does not mean you should
be
disrespectful to him, however you must
understand that you are
not under his total control. Dn't go about agreeing
to all he
says even when you know that it contradicts your
own views
and decisions,
6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure
that you will
get it back. If you give him your money because he
is a
‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money
goodbye because
you may never see it again.
7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever.
Anytime he
wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the
ring on your
finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your
objective is to
get married to him, not to warm his bed.
Pretending to be his
wife by giving him sex will not make him put that
ring on your
finger.
8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform
wife duties for
him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all
other wife
duties, tell him to take you to his family and
organise a
marriage.Stop being foolish. If he really loves you
as he
whispers in your ears, he should take you to the
marriage
registry.
9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free,
why on earth
do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is
not ready
to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t
deserve any wife
benefits.
10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual
abuse. Stop
giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is
not willing to
honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then
he is not
worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you
become his
wife, then he will get treated like a husband.

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Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by braine(m): 12:15am On Dec 11, 2014
All these propaganda you people are putting into our ladies' heads, continu. Desperation for "a ring on the finger" doesn't usually end well.
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by shaggy007(m): 12:21am On Dec 11, 2014
hapheeyxz:
10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male friends

1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will
automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems.
2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on
your finger,
you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go
everywhere
together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces
you to his
friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he
puts a legal
ring on your finger.
3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the
right to
demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage
are totally
different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that
doesn’t give
him the right to demand wife duties from you.
4. Some men demand that you cook for them,
organise their
apartment and give them sex to prove that you are
good wife
material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells
you that
wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in
with him
because that will automatically make you his ‘in-
house-mistr
ess’ who will perform all his wife duties for him
without the
commitment of marriage.
5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts
that ring on
your finger. Some men demand that you should
submit to them
because you are dating. If he wants you to submit
to him when
you are not dating, just think of what he would do
to you if you
are married to him. This does not mean you should
be
disrespectful to him, however you must
understand that you are
not under his total control. Dn't go about agreeing
to all he
says even when you know that it contradicts your
own views
and decisions,
6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure
that you will
get it back. If you give him your money because he
is a
‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money
goodbye because
you may never see it again.
7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever.
Anytime he
wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the
ring on your
finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your
objective is to
get married to him, not to warm his bed.
Pretending to be his
wife by giving him sex will not make him put that
ring on your
finger.
8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform
wife duties for
him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all
other wife
duties, tell him to take you to his family and
organise a
marriage.Stop being foolish. If he really loves you
as he
whispers in your ears, he should take you to the
marriage
registry.
9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free,
why on earth
do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is
not ready
to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t
deserve any wife
benefits.
10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual
abuse. Stop
giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is
not willing to
honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then
he is not
worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you
become his
wife, then he will get treated like a husband.

So you wrote all these things without saying anything?

You repeated almost all your "points"

#SMH
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by Blurr(m): 12:50am On Dec 11, 2014
mtchew, op wan spoil market for we guys ni sha
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by Nobody: 1:24am On Dec 11, 2014
hmmMmmmmMmmmmM
Is dat so
Space officialy
Booked
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by evanscheck(m): 1:24am On Dec 11, 2014
A line wud have been enough cos u were alll just repeating....
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by Beesluv: 5:04am On Dec 11, 2014
Good. She who has ears let her hear
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by hapheeyxz: 6:07am On Dec 11, 2014
shaggy007:


So you wrote all these things without saying anything?

You repeated almost all your "points"

#SMH
go through dem again and ull understand dt dey arent d same. and about ur other point am a learner here on nairaland so am afraid dt d post dnt appear twice.
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by hapheeyxz: 6:10am On Dec 11, 2014
Blurr:
mtchew, op wan spoil market for we guys ni sha
abi guy toooo, if u tink u need all dis tin den do d right tin brov. I.e go tie d knot wt a lady of ur choice.
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by Skillfullulu(m): 7:09am On Dec 11, 2014
I pity u ladies, read this, act on this and u don't get a husband, trust me.

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