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10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by hapheeyxz: 12:12am On Dec 11, 2014 |
10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male friends 1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems. 2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on your finger, you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go everywhere together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces you to his friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he puts a legal ring on your finger. 3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage are totally different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. 4. Some men demand that you cook for them, organise their apartment and give them sex to prove that you are good wife material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells you that wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in with him because that will automatically make you his ‘in- house-mistr ess’ who will perform all his wife duties for him without the commitment of marriage. 5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts that ring on your finger. Some men demand that you should submit to them because you are dating. If he wants you to submit to him when you are not dating, just think of what he would do to you if you are married to him. This does not mean you should be disrespectful to him, however you must understand that you are not under his total control. Dn't go about agreeing to all he says even when you know that it contradicts your own views and decisions, 6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure that you will get it back. If you give him your money because he is a ‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money goodbye because you may never see it again. 7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever. Anytime he wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the ring on your finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your objective is to get married to him, not to warm his bed. Pretending to be his wife by giving him sex will not make him put that ring on your finger. 8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform wife duties for him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all other wife duties, tell him to take you to his family and organise a marriage.Stop being foolish. If he really loves you as he whispers in your ears, he should take you to the marriage registry. 9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free, why on earth do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is not ready to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits. 10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual abuse. Stop giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is not willing to honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then he is not worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you become his wife, then he will get treated like a husband. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by braine(m): 12:15am On Dec 11, 2014 |
All these propaganda you people are putting into our ladies' heads, continu. Desperation for "a ring on the finger" doesn't usually end well. |
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by shaggy007(m): 12:21am On Dec 11, 2014 |
hapheeyxz: So you wrote all these things without saying anything? You repeated almost all your "points" #SMH |
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by Blurr(m): 12:50am On Dec 11, 2014 |
mtchew, op wan spoil market for we guys ni sha |
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by Nobody: 1:24am On Dec 11, 2014 |
hmmMmmmmMmmmmM Is dat so Space officialy Booked |
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by evanscheck(m): 1:24am On Dec 11, 2014 |
A line wud have been enough cos u were alll just repeating.... |
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by Beesluv: 5:04am On Dec 11, 2014 |
Good. She who has ears let her hear |
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by hapheeyxz: 6:07am On Dec 11, 2014 |
shaggy007:go through dem again and ull understand dt dey arent d same. and about ur other point am a learner here on nairaland so am afraid dt d post dnt appear twice. |
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by hapheeyxz: 6:10am On Dec 11, 2014 |
Blurr:abi guy toooo, if u tink u need all dis tin den do d right tin brov. I.e go tie d knot wt a lady of ur choice. |
Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Male Friends by Skillfullulu(m): 7:09am On Dec 11, 2014 |
I pity u ladies, read this, act on this and u don't get a husband, trust me. |
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