Mine is getting ugly!!!!! Dont get me wrong i wont mind if in ugly but people around me all know me as a "fineboy" and getting ugly may literally ruin my relationship with everyone!! people around me have made me see myself as nothing but an attractive face that i literally fear to stop looking good. Everytime its one compliment to another , everyone in my area know me as "that fine boy" and thats only what they see me as. And heres the reason for the thread, the days i fall really sick and look pale and white thats when i hate my life because they easily notice and start acting funny around me and making lowkey jokes about how i should not be sick o! "Dont be sick o, u are too fine dont go and ruin ur face" and i get more scared like im now a skeleton. They start looking at me funny like something terrible has happened to me , all i can do is pray to get well. I dont know why my life is like this , i didnt chose this life and all i can do is talk about it on NL and hope people say "yes we experience it too" so i wont feel so alone in this world were im known for something so trivial but constantly judged by it. If u are goodlooking what are your major fears?

You know the drill. Pictures or...

I fear to have scars on my face... and girls seldom date me. they are prejudiced against me. They think I've got a long queue of female friends when in reality I've got none.

Getting too much attention

I ain't gat no fears.

I experience d same thing too. the annoying part is sometimes girls beef u for no reason. I've got a friend who likes me a lot n calls me 'fineboy' even when she's in d midst of her friends. of course this makes me shy n I n I smile n say "I wish" or sup sweets or something like that. but it's like any response I give reeks of pride. how do I know this? cos whenever I try saying hi to her friends when she's not around the kind of reply I get makes me just tired. I asked her y her friends don't like me n she said her friends think I'm proud n hv told her severally to stop saying it to my face. y all d beef!

Prixus:
I experience d same thing too. the annoying part is sometimes girls beef u for no reason. I've got a friend who likes me a lot n calls me 'fineboy' even when she's in d midst of her friends. of course this makes me shy n I n I smile n say "I wish" or sup sweets or something like that. but it's like any response I give reeks of pride. how do I know this? cos whenever I try saying hi to her friends when she's not around the kind of reply I get makes me just tired. I asked her y her friends don't like me n she said her friends think I'm proud n hv told her severally to stop saying it to my face. y all d beef!

Almost believed till i saw your Dp

Girl think that I'm a snob because of my looks. They don't know that I'm naturally a quiet and shy person... Introvert

iceberylin:


Almost believed till i saw your Dp

lol...no p sir!!! I don't really care what u think.

iceberylin:


Almost believed till i saw your Dp

Some guys are not handsome when they take pics.

Marriage!

iceberylin:


Almost believed till i saw your Dp

Lolz...I think ladies are in better position to say

iceberylin:


Almost believed till i saw your Dp

lol. You just punctured the guy's bubbles.

Heromaniaa:
I fear to have scars on my face... and girls seldom date me. they are prejudiced against me. They think I've got a long queue of female friends when in reality I've got none.

man, see your head like coco yam. if you say you're handsome, then i'm an angel

SkinnyDude:
man, see your head like coco yam. if you say you're handsome, then i'm an angel

update your picture... talk is cheap.

Heromaniaa:
update your picture... talk is cheap.

i can not categorically update my picture for you to see.

then u have to categorically stop typing pooo

All these guys coming here to claim handsome, quiet, shy, fineboy, bla bla bla

Heromaniaa:
lol. You just punctured the guy's bubbles.

got me smiling actually. he's inconsequential. Everyone I know has at one point or the other told me I'm cute. tho I agree d pix didn't do much justice. I'll get one up there soon...

Mprex:
All these guys coming here to claim handsome, quiet, shy, fineboy, bla bla bla

haba na!!! my sweet sister. appreciate us. at least we don't have to paint our lips heavily, shave our eyebrows n draw them back on with pencil or use make-up to make people think we r finer than we look. abeg we try

iceberylin:


Almost believed till i saw your Dp

I've created a topic like this before, its fun seeing a similar one, oh and I have no fears.
www.nairaland.com/2017121/first-wrong-impressions-good-looking

passionate88:
Girl think that I'm a snob because of my looks. They don't know that I'm naturally a quiet and shy person... Introvert

Gbam!

I'm a quiet person n kinda shy, but people call it pride.
Buh I dnt gv a damn anymore.

iceberylin:


Almost believed till i saw your Dp

I like u so much(no homo) I wanna apply to your school of thought

I experience it too and my own fear is not later marrying a beautiful and good looking wife who will also have good and befitting manners with mine and that's why am a little bit selective with females .


You know what,I have gone tired of receiving nice compliments(handsome,tall,cute face and many many more,name it ) from both my male and female friends and that is the main source of this kind of fear as you have also explained,but i dont know if females too experience it.....

may God help us o

Ipledge:
I like u so much(no homo) I wanna apply to your school of thought

Its located at France


Thanks bro

Prixus:

haba na!!! my sweet sister. appreciate us. at least we don't have to paint our lips heavily, shave our eyebrows n draw them back on with pencil or use make-up to make people think we r finer than we look. abeg we try

lols. Owk. You try. You no carry last

Fear of being raped
Fear of attracting gays
Fear of being labelled a player
Fear of being stalked by a chick that is obsessed with me.
Fear of been mistaken for a female
Fear of attracting mammy water(Those being like fineboys and fine girl)


I fear that my handsomeness might blind people from recognizing my inner beauty.

Prixus:

got me smiling actually. he's inconsequential. Everyone I know has at one point or the other told me I'm cute. tho I agree d pix didn't do much justice. I'll get one up there soon...

You're replying that iceber.lyn of a guy? Do u really need to explain?

Prettybecca:

You're replying that iceber.lyn of a guy? Do u really need to explain?

abi o...I don't need to.