#1 Husband Actions
1. It’s fine to court or pursue your lady of interest by taking her out to eat, movies, dates, buying a birthday gift, etc as you are getting to know her. Just don’t spend or give excessive amounts of money when asked because if you are you are being foolish, simply whipped or being used by a gold digger. Don’t confuse the getting to know process with providing as you would do for a wife. You should not be paying for bills, cars, rent and/or shopping sprees while dating.
2. A woman is a Queen but she is not YOUR QUEEN until you two are married so you shouldn’t live together while dating. Never get ahead of yourself losing perspective because there is no rush so be patient. Don’t give her every waking moment you or she has free for that matter. Keep your freedom to do things with your partners, kids and/or friends and she should have her space as well to hang out with her girls, go shopping, etc. She deserves QUALITY TIME but NOT ALL YOUR TIME while dating....


#2 Wife Actions
Cooking meals for him on a regular basis, Washing his dirty drawers, Living together, Attending all family functions.. Just started dating? Your intentions are good... you just want to be nice and cater to him. Women show love by nurturing. As stereotypical as it sounds, it's only natural to want to bake a cake or tidy up his place. You're also subconsciously trying to prove to him that you are wife-material. Your actions are screaming "Marry me! I can cook! I can clean! I can take good care of you!" But all that does is make most men think you're crazy and/or desperate (especially if you've just met them).
Solid relationship? Still no.... but if you must, do so in moderation. The whole courting phase in relationships is something that has become extinct. Nowadays people don't really know how to date. We always jump from 0 to 60 in 60 seconds. Marriage is a big commitment and it's a big step for men in particular. Women, if you start acting like you're married when you're actually just dating he could become complacent in the relationship. As the saying goes, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? That saying is typically used for sex, but the fact is there are other benefits of a relationship that should be saved for marriage as well....


#3 Husband Actions
3. We all know the Bible says we are not suppose to have sex until married but the reality is 99% of the time we do so I will keep it real and not act like I’m too righteous for folks. A woman you are dating is not your property so you can’t demand sex whenever you want it. Be patient and when both of you are ready and decide to have sex then and only then should it occur. ALWAYS USE PROTECTION WITH ANYONE YOU ARE DATING NO MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS ABOUT BEING ON BIRTH CONTROL, TUBES ARE TIED, HAD A SHOT, ETC,! Too many diseases out here and too many children being brought into this world into single family homes so PUT ON A CONDOM if you are engaging in intercourse while dating after all it takes only 10 seconds!
4. While you are getting to know your lady of interest, you should not take on the father role. Every situation varies thus can be different, so I won’t even go there.
Some of you are thinking you should be giving your all to whoever you are dating and that is all well and good but I ask you to think about how many boyfriends/girlfriends you have had in life. Truth is many people come and many people go in a lifetime so that is the main reason you should wait until the holy sacrament of marriage to be 100% vested emotionally, physically and spiritually in love with each other with no conditions....


#4 Wife Actions
Attending all family functions, Giving him large amounts of cash, Cleaning his place, Helping him manage his bills, Save the wifely duties for after you jump the broom, especially if he's not reciprocating with any husbandly duties! Does he wash your car? Does he take out your trash? Does he fix things around your house? Make sure it's a two-way street and not you just auditioning for the part of Mrs. Right.
Try your hardest to eliminate all of these things from your relationship, but at the very least keep it to a minimum so it's not something that he's expecting on the regular. Your relationship should be focused on enjoying each other's company, not how great of a chef and housekeeper you are!

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what a nice post

Nice 1

Edit that crap

Please edit No 3.

Bible says no sex till marriage. So whether the two agreed or decide they don't have any right to have sex together until they are married.

God cannot lower His standard because of our selfish interest.

True talk